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my friend is really nice to me when she its just me and her but if she is with another friend she is such a butthead to me and i get mad at her all the time and stuff but then we havce a fun time or we talk o0n the phone and we r friends again like all my friends are friends with her so it sucks and now im mad at her again wut shuld i do ?
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Definitely talk to your friend... For awhile 2 friends of mine were having this same problem... Does she say mean stuff to you when you're with people? It might mean that she just has a low self-esteem and actually is jealous of you, but doesn't want other people to think you're better than her. So she points out all your flaws... I would try to keep from getting mad at her and just find out whats going on. Maybe she's having a rough time at home. Oh and when you guys do have a good time together, treasure the moment and remember it when you're mad at her another time. It'll make you think about why your friends in the first place :-D
Hope I helped, let me know how it goes!
~Lana
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then get over it and get another friend. i know you probably think im being harsh but if she doesnt publicly be your friend then she shouldnt be your friend at all. tell her she has a choice. to be your friend or not to
hope it works out for ya
- aeromonkey
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well just pull her aside andb tell her how you feel. make it clear that you are not ebing mean about it. maybe she doesnt realize she is being this way. if you tell her maybe she will change. if she doesnt change though, then screw her she is a butthead.
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I went through a similar problem last year. My friend was rele nice wen it was jus her and me but wen other ppl were around she called me names like it wasn't a big deal. My advice : Talk to her. Straight up jus tell her how you feel. If she says something like " I dont do that " Tell her the next time she does it you'll nudge her a little just to prove your point. Hopefully after that she will realize where you're coming from and things will change.
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Gina
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I have friends JuSt LiKe ThIs!! haha well you need to talk to her and be like ((calmly)) well when we hang out we have a lot of fun, but when you are w/ other people you arent nice to me and it makes me mad.. if she still acts like that then she isnt a good friend!
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Ask heR what heR deal is! Tell heR you love heR company and cheRish the fRiendship you two have, but confRont heR on heR attitude towaRd you when she is with anotheR fRiend. Tell her it'd be veRy appRecaited if she would stRaighten up heR act and staRt tReating you the way you tReat heR!! Goodluck!! Hope I helped!!
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hey buddy wassap i had the same problem last year me n her were lyk sister i guess datz how u feel rigt???... rigt so n-e wayz i stoped being friends wit her i told her if she wanna b friends wit me a person she knew for (how long) or another bitch u noe since middle of the skool year she didnt answer me so i juzz left her i started hangin out wit my other friends she got jelouse got less popular n she came baq to me... yea dont realii care wit happends to the other hoe she kinda scared of me lOl
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You should definitly talk to her about this directly. She can't be 2 different people, it gives an insecure feeling to people who THOUGHT they knew her. If she doesn't change, it doesn't look as if she really as good of a friend as u believe she is. She should be herself around everyone, not just sometimes she's nice, and others she's not. Tell her straight "you're acting a little weird" when u're alone. Just tell her wat u think, and if she really is a good friend, she'll understand and not give u a stupid answer like, "I don't want anyone knowing we're friends" that's gay and anything like it is also gay, and u should drop her from "friend status" right away! Tell me wat happens cuz I had fun answering this question :-D
*Mayya
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Get over it =/ ppl have there stages, shes just trying to 'fit in' maybe? just deal with it, or 'mess with her' back =)
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communication is the key. tell her how you feel and maybe when that happends again she'll think twice. keep me informed.
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I had the same problem before but I didn't let it last for long. Tell your friend that she's an asshole around other people and you don't like it and just tell her how you feel. If she gets mad then she isn't a true friend. Now if she takes it nicely and you don't see her making and progress of being nice towards you when shes around other people then you can live with it and its ur own problem or make new friends. If you want to get paybacks do it to her [ but she might get mad at u and never talk to you again so be careful ]
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