is there a way to get tan without going tanning, self tanner or going out in the sun?
um yeah no.
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I just had my birthday several days ago, and I was wondering if someone could explain to me what this one gift from a guy I really like was supposed to mean.
While we had been friends for a while, but i had been hoping that one day he would be my bf. I thought we were heading in that direction, but since I had my birthday I've been thinking I may be wrong about that.
The gift that he gave me was a little insulting actually. It was a very tacky looking t shirt from Walmart with the words "IF YOU"RE CUTE I"M SINGLE," on the front.
Now does that mean that he is giving me some sort of message? I mean if he really liked me why would he give me a shirt to let other guys know that I was single? Or to attract any other guys at all for that matter.
It really hurt me and embarrassed me. It made me angry because his birthday was the week before and I got him a really nice gift.
Does anyone know what this meant? And do you think he gave me that shirt to let me now he wasnt interested?
ok these are the options.. he either thinks you're a slut who will go for any guy thats cute and the guy can be a total asshole
He could've just got you a shirt that he thought was cute. Or he may have thought you would of liked it. Ask him what he meant thats exactly what I would do..
Also he may have been saying hes not interested but i doubt that he would tell you like that..
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x3Kristen
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my best guy friend (let's call him "k") who is also my ex-boyfriend just got a new girlfriend (let's call her "m"). when me and "k" were going out, he told me he loved me, but i didn't feel the same way so we broke up a week or so later. so now this new girl "m" comes into the picture. he likes her a lot and they are going out. they have gone out for like four days and "k" already told "m" that he loves her and she said it back. i just don't understand how he can tell two girls in such a short period of time that he loves them. it really bugs me because i feel like he just used me so he could say he had a girl. i do not want to let "m" get hurt like i did. what can i do to help this situation? i don't want every girl he dates to feel like she is the only one but he has really told every girl he dated the same thing. i'll rate 5's!
well since noone told you about him I wouldnt bother telling other people. Most of the time the guy likes the girl so much that he says "I love you" to her. That's what happens to me all the time.. but you can't interfere with their relationship.. she'll hate you.. believe me I tryed warning my ex-boyfriends girlfriend and all it got me was a hate group and rumors around saying that I want him back.. Don't go through the trouble.. you already went through trouble so now its the new girlfriends turn.
x3Kristen
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Ok, I need some advice. Just words of wisdom to help me out. My ex boyfriend wants to get back together with me, but I am having a hard time trusting him and understanding him. So, I am going to let you read an AIM conversation between us and let me know what you think. Ok? Just give me whatever advice comes your way. Here it is:
Before you read it: Cory left me back in January for a girl named Allyson who is in California. He even went to see her over the summer. WE are in Indiana. Cory is in college and I am taking the semester off to work and be with family after the breakup. Cory was cheating on me with Allyson (telling her that he loved her and had already dumped me) for 4 months before I found out. He says he fell in love with her! He told me that he never loved me like he loved her and all of that. I was devastated. He and I had been together for nearly 3 years!!!!! Well, now, they are over and he has come back to me. He wants me back and is asking for my trust and wants me to be with him. we even made out a week ago and it was AMAZING! But, I can't seem to let the past go. Just read this. Now that you have a little background, you should understand!
Me: Hey baby! How are y?ou
Him: fine
Me: you ok?
Me: busy?
Him: a little
Me: Hmmmm
Me: who are you talking to?
Me: Laugh out Loud
Me: Just kidding
Him: no one
Him: working on this song
Me: Cool Beans Batman!
Me: My hair is BLONDE!
Him: ok, good
Me: you didn't like it dark?
Him: not really
Me: Laugh out loud, ok
Me: Well, its like almost white
Me: Kinda hard to get used to
Him: we'll see
Me: Ok
Me: I found some old pictures of us on a CD
Me: I ripped all of the paper ones
Him: ok
Me: Sorry!
Me: Did you take Allyson's pictures off your phone?
Him: no, just like i didn't take yours off my computer
Me: Hmmmmm....
Me: But hers are Nasty cause she is a whore and all and if you want to forget her, then why keep them?
Him: she's not a whore, and i'm not going to put up with that (insert my name here)
Me: ?
Me: with what?
Him: i am not going to put up with you bad mouthing my ex
Me: And I have reason to NOT do that?
Him: you'll lose some of my respect
Me: Well, ok, I wont bad mouth her, but, um, why keep the pictures?
Him: i want to remember
Me: you want to remember leaving me and hurting me?
Him: i want to remember her, and california, and the good times we had
Me: Why? Why does it mean that much to you if you are over her?
Me: I will tell you why, cause you still love her, and want her, and you dont love me, you only want me cause you and her are over. I am just a rebound! You dont regret ANYTHING that you did at all. You dont even think it was wrong, do you? I get it now!
Him: o my god, i am not going to put up with this shit, night
Me: I am not trying to be rude, I am sorry
Me: I am just hurt cause I see it now
Him: no, you don't
Him: cause that
Him: that's not it
Him: i am tired of your jealous attitude
Him: just fuck it
Him: forget everything that's happened the past couple of weeks between us
Him: bye
Me: How can I not be jealous? You left me for her.
Me: Sorry!
Him: do you WANT to lose me again, cause you are going to..
Me: I am sorry, what is it that I dont understand then?
Him: i just want to remember her! christ!
Him: jesus FUCKING christ
Me: Well, ok, but how would you feel if I had half nude pics of Nick on my phone and would not delete them? I mean, others, ok, I can see that.
Me: Is this really what you want? : forget everything that's happened the past couple of weeks between us
Him: it seems to be what you want
Me: No, it isn't Cory!
Him: then just shut up about the past
Him: i am not going to talk about it anymore
Me: I WANT YOU! But, I cant help it that I am jealous of her, Cory! You cant expect me to just let it go whenever it was something that hurt me as much as it did. You just dont undertsand that.
Me: And I am sorry that you dont want to talk about it, but talking about it helps my insecurities
Me: Talking is what we have to do to fix the problems
Him: well, i just don't want to talk about it
Me: So, you don't want to fix my insecurities? Cause thats about the only way
Me: I mean, you couldn't have expected this to all be easy? I thought we agreed to fix things together. Remember? You even said "Then let me heal you" when I told you that I was still hurt. And, I am!
Me: I can't help that.
Him: i'm just busy, and i want to just forget everything from before
Me: Then why r you mad at me
Me: ?
Him: i'm not
Me: I think you are
Me: I was just trying to talk to you and you blew up. AGAIN
Me: ?
Him: i'm just writing this music
Him: it's star wars
Me: Ok
Me: Well.....
Me: ?
Him: wanna hear it so far?
Me: Cory, I love you sweetie and I want to be with you again and make this work, but your always blowing up on me. And I am sorry that I am insecure, but I NEED YOU TO UNDERSTAND AND HELP ME WITH IT!
Me: Sure
Him: just a sec then
Me: ?
Me: you calling?
Him: yes
Me: You dont sound to happy to talk to me when you call
Him: i am just preoccupied here
Me: ok, so, back on the subject......
Me: Like I said:
Me: Cory, I love you sweetie and I want to be with you again and make this work, but your always blowing up on me. And I am sorry that I am insecure, but I NEED YOU TO UNDERSTAND AND HELP ME WITH IT!
Me: Thats EXACTLY how I feel
Him: well, not much i can do, you just have to get over things, and give it time
Me: get over what?
Him: the past
Me: and what about you blowing up on me?
Him: just cause i am busy
Me: Ok, well, I guess I can try to be more understanding about that, but you need to try not to
Him: ok
Me: But, you already said to foget everything, so.....
Me: and you said that I was going to lose you
Him: just stop
Me: ?
Him: i'm going to bed
Him: i'm tired of this tonight
Me: Ok, well, did you mean what you said?
Him: no
Me: If so, just tell me
Me: Ok, then, why did you say it?
Him: just tired of talking about all this stuff
Me: O My God! I am doing it AGAIN! This is what drove you crazy last time. I nit pick! Every word you say
Him: yeah, exactly
Me: UGH! I am sorry!
Him: going to bed
Him: to bed i said
Me: Laugh Out Loud
Me: Well, Sorry!
Him: night, love you
Him: night
Me: Just give it time, I will stop being so stupid!
Me: And I love you too!
Me: gnite
Him: is away at 11:14:18 PM.
Let me know what you think!
Hell Effin no! dont go back with him!!!!! He freakin chose another girl over you! and now you ARE HIS REBOUND! if he loved you, he would of NEVER LEFT YOU, NEVER LIE TO YOU, AND NEVER CHEAT ON YOU! and what are you apologizing for? YOU DID NOTHING WRONG so what the fuck? dont think you did. Let go of him and be strong hes a cheater and you need to LET GO! you sound very insecure and guys really dont like that!
x3Kristen
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ill rate 5's
i feel so ugly... no guys like me, all my friends have b/f's. i even thought i was ugly before. i stayed up until 3;30 last night crying my eyes out because i knew i was ugly... im crying typing this . i feel like im never ever going to be pretty... i dont really even want to live but i wouldn't kill myself cuz thats eww... i just keep realizing how ugly i really am... and then i keep crying. all i do is get made fun of and called ugly i dont want to be ugly.. please help
ok send me a picture of you and I'll tell you if you're ugly... Please do I want to help you...
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Okay, im only 14 and i wanna have a baby SO bad. My parents dont really love me((ive been told)) so i think this would help me alot. i've babysat for YEARS and LOVE children. I wanna feel loved when i come home and a baby would do that, and i think teen moms are closer to their kids. I plan on gettin pregnant in 10th or 11th grade.Am i making a mistake by wanting to do this.
Well you have options here. You can have a baby and stop everything you want in life, or you can wait until you're married, and have a career to have one. If I were you, I would wait until I am married with a guy that loves me for me and I love him for him and have my career set so I can support my baby. If you cannot support your baby, child services will take it away.
Hope I helped you.
x3 Kristen
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does anyone know what the website is where it gives you sex tips? .. ive seen it posted on here a couple times a long time ago and i cant find it ..
www.about.com
type in what you want to know about and then there u go.
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Hi, I have a kind of embarrasing question. Well I just got my period and it's always really heavy the first day I get it. The problem is I have to be at work tomorrow, and my boss told me that we're only allowed to go to the bathroom on our breaks, which is every two hours. Well I'm going to have to be able to change my pad before two hours!! What am I going to do?
If i were you where tampons. They absorb more but change them atleast every 6 hours.
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this a serious question, might be weird....jus wanna know if there is any kinda of penis diet...i mean to say...is there any diet which helps it to keep healthy coz i havent had sex? will rate high..help me
Whhhhhattt??? what are you talking about healthy?? lmao jk. but seriously no there isnt anything to keep it healthy just clean it and have sex! lol penis's like that LMAO byyess
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ok..this is gonna sound "dorky"..but anywho...does anyone know any good country songs that are slow...rate high...thanks hunns!
I'm not a big fan of country at all but my favorite country song thats slow is "I'll Be" by Reba Mcentire. x3
Hope I helped
x3 Kristen
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Is it ok for christans to masterbate? I want to know befor I start. Thanks.
well you know what.. god pretty much expects that because you cant have sex until you're married so you need to do something so go right ahead..and i am a christian so i do know.. lol
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My boyfriend just asked me if it was alright for him to spend the night at his best friend's house. His four best friends are girls. there's gonna be two other guys, but I still don't really like the outlook on it; he's gonna be all night with 5-6 other girls.
is this dumb of me?
OMG NO!! you have every right to be weird about this because this is very weird that he wants to spend the night at a girls house!! UM HELL F*CKIN NO!! simple as that!!!!!!
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ok hey, question for the girls. How would you feel if your boyfriend did something like this for you on Xmas. (by the way i am the male not the female lol) I get 2 roses, and put each in their own wrapped box. Ill say "when this rose dries up and dies, i will love you more," then give her the box and let her unwrap the first rose. then say "when this rose dries up and dies, you will love me more," then give her the box and let her open it. Then i will take a third box and say "when this rose dries up and dies, i will STOP loving you." and she will open the box, and it will be a glass rose. (for all the blondes out there, glass doesnt dry up and die ;-)) Ever. lol. what do ya think?
aww thats so cute i would really like that!!!!! i would tear up :-) i also think you should get her something else though.
GOOD LUCK!! :-D
x3Kristen
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I'm setting up a campaign for people to see whats the difference (of thoughts/actions)in people that smoke and do not. If you are a smoker or a non-smoker, please answer these questions in which category you fit in. Oh, and please tell me if you are a smoker or a non-smoker. I'm doing this so I can hellp people with certain things. I can't ask anyone around because I don't speak thier language.
Smokers:
1. How do you feel if you don't smoke for a long period of time?
2.What has influenced you to smoke?
3. Have you noticed any differences since you began smoking?
4. About how many ciggarets do you smoke in 1 day?
5. Did you feel like you have upset anyone when you first started?
Non-smokers
1. How do you feel about people who smoke?
2. Would you ever consider to smoke? Why?
3. What is your reason not to smoke?
4. In your opinion, why is smoking bad for you?
5. What would your advice be if a smoker wants to quit?
Thanks in advance, I hope you guys don't mind.
Non-smokers
1. How do you feel about people who smoke? I feel like telling them to stop.
2. Would you ever consider to smoke? no, because it killed my mother.Why?
3. What is your reason not to smoke? It's disgusting and I like my teeth staying white.
4. In your opinion, why is smoking bad for you? Because it is terrible to your body, it makes you addicted very easily and makes your lungs black.. something that i do not want around me and when im older around my children.
5. What would your advice be if a smoker wants to quit?Commit and have a positive attitdude and you can overcome it.
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How can you tell if someone is cheating on you without asking them?
if they are cheating on you, you can tell by they always cancel plans or if they're on the phone with you they'll get off for like no reason.
x3 kristen
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i have to get arthoscopy, the doc thinks i tore my miniscus and i was just wondering like...what is it like does it hurt for a long time, what is it liek when you wake up, how do they puit you to sleep? thanks!
hey im just wondering... is this samantha?
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What is a good color eyeshadow for a gray sweatshirt and a blue top underneath
thanks!
I would go with light blue or a silvery color
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What is a good cover up that really works? i have a big pimple that wont go away. please help.!
Bare minerals really work well. try that. it is expensive but it is VERY good! i have it
x3 Kristen
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hey everyone - my dress for a formal is mainly black with a very light pink ribbon. My question is should i find very light pink shoes? It would be really hard for me because i am already tall so i dont want over a 2 inch heel, and i dont want them to be over 60 bucks. So should i find matching light light pink shoes? or what other colors would work? how about gold? thanks so much!
no no no. lol i would get black shoes the pink will look too much and gold goes with a dark brown more than black
x's and o's hope i helped
x3Kristen
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Ok, my girlfriend and I have been broken up for about 3 weeks. Last night we went out to dinner and we made out under the star-blanketed sky at the beach. She called me later that night and sometime later she asked me If I had thought about having one last "night". What should I do? I want to. But I don't know if I should.
Don't do it. Let go of her. Thats the best thing if you do have sex again that only creates feelings again and probably stonger. Get a new partner and move on.. Trust me you'll be glad you didnt have sex again.
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