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Broken up sex.
Ok, my girlfriend and I have been broken up for about 3 weeks. Last night we went out to dinner and we made out under the star-blanketed sky at the beach. She called me later that night and sometime later she asked me If I had thought about having one last "night". What should I do? I want to. But I don't know if I should.
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well first of all who broke up with who?
if you broke up with her then that means she still wants the relationship. i say go for it.
if she broke up with you then i say tell her no. because she just wants to use you. if you think that im wrong about the fist case then just say no because if your broken up your broken up and it will just confuse things
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wow this is a toughy!
hmm well i mean are you guys together? again! because you said that you guys have broken up? so thats one thing to think about...
two... do you really wanna have sex for the hell of it... if you do then go ahead... if not and you guess arent together then dont have sex with her...
all you got to do is tell her the truth...
i know i didnt help but best wishes from you to ex... or so idk!
-tada!
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i wudn't do it. the sex wont be the same b/c it doesn't mean anything. u'll prob end up feeling hurt and used when u see her with a different guy the next week after you had sex.
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I say as long as you're sure there aren't still emotions involved, go for it. But if one of you might be hanging on to memories of previous times together I would stay away. Was the dinner just a friendly thing or is there still hope to get back together? Just make sure before you go through with it that neither of you have a chance of getting hurt.
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One word DON'T. It is that simple you get involved one more time, hearts get broken, and then you will not have her as a friend. She wants her cake and icecream. She needs to move on and so do you. Sleeping with her now would be a mistake you live to regret. She wants to hold onto the past here and is not over you. If you ever did get back together it would be disaster unless you solved what caused you to drif away to begin with.
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Even though I highly advocate against sex when not dating, I still believe that your wants overpower what's right. If you want to have sex, go ahead. I mean, it's like playing a board game, just for fun. But only if you really want to, and are 100% confident that you will not regret it.
If not, just get back together with her. Then you can do it and have no guilt whatsoever.
-Steven
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You can do whatever you want to, but if it were me, I wouldn't do it. It is obvious that she only wants the physical part of you. Perhaps she'll keep calling for more sex, but does not want to have a relationship. This means she is just using you for the sex. I would never want to be taken advantage of like that. But, hey, it is your call.
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do watever feels right in ur heart
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I dont think you should because it might lead to her getting pregnant if you dont use a condom.The idea of doing it when you are broken up is stupid.It sounds to me that she's just looking for sex and not you.If she really wanted you then she wouldn't have let the split happen .If this was just a moment of stupidity and she is looking for a second chance then dont you think she would have asked for it already.
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you're better off not doing it. sure, it's fun as hell, but it just creates more feelings for the person. from a girl's point of veiw, of course. if you made out, maybe there are some unresolved feelings. i had break-up sex, and it was great. BUT, you might feel a little bit used after it, since you guys aren't together anymore. or she may feel like that, even when it was her idea for the booty call. only have your "one last night" if it feels right. you said you want to, so do it already. :)
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wow. she sounds pretty deperate and she knows that you'll probably be the first one to do what she wants. Call her and ask her what it is that she expects out of the relationship that you now have. Tell her that you feel as if your getting mixed signals and that your confused. Be honest. If you still have feelings for her then ask her if she has the same feelings for you. If she doesnt, shes a waste of time and an all around BITCH!
Goodluck :D
-Sally
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If she's calling you for sex, that's probably all she wants. She's not worth your time. Move on and find someone with a lot more heart to give you because this girl obviously doesn't have a heart. Just don't waste your time and tears on her.
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Psh Im sorry hunny but you are her booty call. Find someone who cares about you. And makin out? Yeah, not exactly what I'd call "broken up". But since you seem to want to then you might want to let her know if it is really "one last night" or the beginning of a bunch of "one last nights", because you dont want to find Ms. Right and then have your ex over there wantin you to come over and make babies with her! NOPE! Let her go, even if she is a babe.
Hope it Helps!
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Melanie
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Don't do it. Let go of her. Thats the best thing if you do have sex again that only creates feelings again and probably stonger. Get a new partner and move on.. Trust me you'll be glad you didnt have sex again.
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