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for years i've been seeing these "gray swirls".. esp. when i get out of the shower, but other times too. i cant see anything except these gray swirls. kind of like when your tv isn't working? know what i mean? i get really dizzy when this happens and it lasts a few seconds and i cant see anything. ive gone to doctors and they like im crazy. my regular doctor told me to go to an eye doctor and i did, and they thought i was crazy. i want to look it up on the internet and stuff, but what do i search.. "gray swirls" haha that wont work.. whatever.. im probably just dying or something.

does anyone else have this or know what it is?
thanks.

Maybe it is because to watch TV to often.

Hope for the best
~*~Brianna~*~

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Do you think that it is wrong to talk to an ex while dating someone else? I am with this guy right now and he doesnt trust me so he went into my cell and checked my text messages and found that an ex had been text messaging me. We are in a big arguement now about weather or not its ok to talk to an ex. Please help

I think it is perfectly normal to talk to your ex, me and my exboyfriends hate each other though but if you guys are still friends, then it is alright!

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I have a coworker that I am very interested in getting to know. I have heard from several people that he is interested in me too but the thing is we are both shy. We make eye contact and smile at eachother but that is as far as it goes. There has been several times where I have come close to telling him how I feel and asking him out but I am too shy when it comes to situations like this. We dont know eachother personally but we have been working together for about 2 years now and I recently began feeling this attraction toward him. I know I should just say something but I would get nervous. What should I do?

Pratice in front of a mirror. Hope for the best!

~*Brianna*~

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okay i hav known this guy for around 3 years..we were friends and then he got all these girlfriends and (we still were friend but not as close)...now the past 2-3 weeks he has been acting reall sweet..and he just changed from kinda caring about me to ..like whoa he cares alot...and now i like him again and i dont know if he likes me or not how do i found out if he likes me?...i really dont want to ask "do you like me" or have a friend give him hints..because then he will think its ot true that it is just a rumor...so how do i find out? ..thank you..

Try asking a friend to ask a friend of his if he likes you??

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hey I really like this guy sooooo MUCH! its like scary lol we talk on the fone A LOT and stuff, but he is not that handsom he is kinda fat and im really skinny, wen i saw him i was lke ewwww and so was every1 else. He is tall and I am short but he is really nice and sweat. I dont know if i shuld go with him or not! he is really nice! if it helps im 13/f PLEASE I WILL RATE HIGH!!!

Well if you really like his personality then what is on the outside shouldn't matter. Hope for the best!

~*Brianna*~

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okay well i got a boyfriend a couple weeks ago and he broke up with me because he was moving, and he told me to go out with our friend. so i went to the dance with him and brought him camping and we went out for a couple days. then he broke up with my and said it was because our friend likes me. whats wrong with me that people are always breaking up with me because their friend likes me?

Nothing, you are just very likable. Try instead of going out with the person who you were told to go out with instead go out with a totally different guy. Hope for the best!

~*Brianna*~

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I was surfing aimlessly on this icon site that I have a username on and I came across this icon: http://iconator.com/icon.php?IconID=273873 it has a picture of an AE Shirt and then it says "We don't wear your clothes so why do you listen to our music". Okay, I shop at AE, Aero and what you so called "punk kids" would concider to be "preppy". Now answer me this, why is that they feel that your clothing style needs to match your taste in music? I shop at those stores and listen to hardxcore bands and I enjoy the music. But why do all you "punk kids" feel the need your taste in clothing also has to match your taste in music? I used the quotations because I do not like to lable people. Lables are for soups, not people.

No way does your clothes ave to match you clothing I like music that makes me jump up and dance, but most the time I'm still in my pajamas ( witch right now I am wearing ). Hope for the best!

~*Brianna*~

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Hey, im 16/f. I have a boyfriend back in Florida but im on vocation In Dominican Republic. Every summer i come to DR, but about 2 summers ago i met this boy and we liked eachother we kissed and stuff and after i left we talk a bit on the fone. last summer i came bakk and we went out wit my cousin and their friends and he kissed and he told me he loved me n stuff but i never siad anythin back....he told my cousins that he loved me and he wanted me badly. This summer im here again and i found out that he has a girl, i have a boyfriend too. But every summer that i was here i told him that i had a b/f but that never seemed to stop him. What i want to do is have this guy completly i want to play hard to get and have him want me even more. That were i need help, i know i could do it cuz iv done it b4 but i want more ideas. whant him to just want me. I promise i rate high. Thanx

I don't mean to critisize you but what your doing is wrong you are hurting him, your boyfriend, and the guys girlfriend. I f you want the guy in DR then you should break-up with your boyfriend in Florida. If not then you should just let the boy be happy. It probably hurts him when you keep on turning him down. Hope for the best!

~*Brianna*~

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Hi, my mom's moving to this house, and my bedroom is really small, so I have to use a daybed. We're trying to ocean theme the room, so I need ocean bedding for a daybed, and I can't seem to find any. I've tried Google, but all that came up were things describing hotels oceanside with bedrooms. It didn't really get what I meant, I guess. So does anyone know of any websites I can go to or any links to ocean bedding for a daybed? Thanks so much.

x3 Erin

try typing in "ocean type bedding for daybeds"
in google it will work maybe... Hope for the best!

~*Brianna*~

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i've met guys when i'm just hanging out at the beach or mall or whatever before... but it's only because they approach me. the guys that approach me are usually older and way too experienced for me and too pushy and "fast". i'm pretty shy so when i see a guy i like i don't know how to approach him. how do just start conversations with random people. but not just coming up and being like "you're hot... what's your number?" cuz thats kinda stupid. no offense to anyone who does that. thanx.

Well try walking back and forth iny our mirror pretnding it is a cute guy. Then next time you go to the mall or beach you won't be afraid to say hello. He will probably carry on the conversation from there. Hope for the best!

~*Brianna*~

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i've been playing softball since i was about 4 (T-ball then) and now im 13. i recently tried out for a travel team, but didnt make it. i've always been a great athlete and great softball player. im totally upset i didnt make it. what can i do to make me get over the fact that i didnt make it? .. ps - im gonna go to mostly all the games because my twin sister made it. please help. its kinda stupid but ive always been told not to cry about little things like this :-/

Well sorry about soft ball, but what about track, basket ball, football, swimming,or even tennis. There are some many sports out there don't give up because one turned you down!
Hope for the best!

~*Brianna*~

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hii well i dont play ANY sports at all, and i know that i need extracuricular activites for college, though. i want to be in clubs, but my friends are in clubs that are boring, and im really shy around people i dont know. do you have any tips for what to do about clubs, or anything else that could help with extracuricular activites? thankss!

Maybe if your good in school try a math club, science club, or try an art club. Hope for the best!

~*Brianna*~

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I am 13 and a girl who has never had a boyfriend and I think think this is my chance.There is this boy who has gone to mostly every school I have gone to(were in the same grade).But I think he likes me.Its like he has been drooping clues like he stares at me all the time with this serious look on his face,he saved me one time(if thats what you wanna call it)because I was walking and I wasn`t waching where I was going so I was about to bump into the wall then he said somthing to me then that made me look up,and his friend heeps on looking at me.So how do I figure out if he likes me without talking to him and can you give me information on how to tell if a boy likes you.

Well he has given you alot of clues. Maybe ask one of his friends. I would give you more but he has already given you those signs. I think he probably likes you! Hope For the best!

~*Brianna*~

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how do you nkw your boyfriend is cheating on you?

Well you can find out by calling him constantly, keeping tabs on where he is, and snoop around his room. If you find anything give him a chance to explain though. Hope I help!

~*Brianna*~

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Ok, I just learned that my boyfriend has had sex with ohter girls before we started to date. I dont want to do anything with him, but I just feel so disgusted. Im 14, and He's 15 and I cant believe he would do that. Im afraid of what he might try to do to me. He's hasnt ever tried anything before but I cant help to feel disgusted, my friend thinks I can do better than him and give him up since he lied to me so much, but I stil love him. Should I break up with him?

Well if you don't feel comfertable around him I think you should break up with him. Hope I help!

~*Brianna*~

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ok, well here's the deal. my bofriend and i hav been going out for about...3-4 months. and i love him,but i dont no if its because HE says he loves me every few minutes im with him. ive thought about breaking up with him, but wen i told my best friend she said "he loves you too much. if u broke up with him, it would kill him" and hes tried to make out with me, but i rejected him. wat should i do?

You need to tell him how you feel, and ask if you can just be friends. Tell him that if he is going to hurt himself because of that then tell him you will never talk to him agin.

~*Brianna*~

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Hey Bri!!! well I could do that but I have already tols him that I like him!!! Yeah well, I thought about him mentally abusing me wouldn't I know if he was or not?? lol
WhItNeY tUrNaClIfF lOl

Yes you would know. Try really expressing your feelings like try to write a poem of how you feel it dosen't have to rhyme, or try just a letter with how he makes you feel. Don't be afraid to give the poem/note to him! Hope for the best!

~*Brianna*~

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I'm moving schools this summer. I went to visit my new school, and very few ppl were nice to me. Everyone else knows that i just came from a privite school, so they hate me and treat me like garbage. I no that all privite school students are different, and i know that i am! I really don't care what other ppl think, but i really want to make friends at my new school. How can i show them that i'm a normal person and not a snobby rich student they think i am? I really want to make friends their, but it's so hard when they don't know the real me. How can i show them?

Well first If your new school dosen't have a dress code then wear what you feel comfy in. Show off the real you be yourself and in time you will be rewarded with friends! Hope for the best!

~*Brianna*~

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yeah so i asked a question earlier but i need more help.

so i asked about me and my guy friend, well, this is about what all those teachers have been thinking. im gonna tell you all the times its happened and i just want you to tell me why they think this stuff.

Alriight the one time, me and him were talking and i said in my girly voice, "_ _ _, YELL AT HIM!!" about his friend because he burped and it grossed me out, so he was like, "Yo, don't burp thats gross say excuse me." and my math teacher walked by and smiled and shook his head at us
The other time, my teacher was talking to the lunch aid and i was talking with my friend like i always do, and he was like, ughhh im gonna throw up.. and i was like, do it that way, and i nudged him, and hes like, ill be fine just let me use your arm as a pillow, and he rested on me for like 10 seconds but then got up and smiled at me.
Another time, i wrote about this one, with the whispering and my science teacher, but ill write it for people who havent read. [We were whispering and my teachers were talking and my friend said something weird so i got a surprised look on my face and sat up straight and slapped him lightly, and she looked at us all weird ((the one teacher)) and my other teacher((my math teacher)) whispered something to her, and shes like, aww]
Then today, we were walking into our farewell assembly and he was sitting a row in front of me and he stuck out his hand and said my name and i was like, hey _ _ _ and i slapped his hand and 3 other people he talks to were with me but he only did it for me and right away out of the corner of my eye i see my science teacher whisper to my LA teacher.
Then afterwards, i was at my friend ((a different ones)) homeroom and we were talking about how were playing manhunt on wednsday and she was like, you not gonna do anything with _ _ _ are you? and my teacher was standing right there and his mouth dropped open but he didnt think we saw it.
Then me and the friend im talking about were hugging and my LA teacher was right there and she was smiling at us.

why do they think all of this crap, like that were going out and stuff, cuz we arent.

WEll maybe your friend likes you, and that is what all the teachers think. Hope for the best!

~*Brianna*~

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hi im going away with school soon and i want to lose some weight. im 10st 7lb and want to get down to around 10st or less. what are some good tips of losing weight.
thankz xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx ♥

Try excertising daily, and try the atkins diet.
Hope for the best!

~*Brianna*~

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