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no to sound weird,
but my aunt died a few weeks ago..
is there anyway to see or talk to angels?

i dont know
if there is
but if there is i would love to know

thanksss =)

quigi board!!!

works for me

sorry for your loss!!
--ashley

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Okay. we had this dog since 12 years. and last 5 years. my dog follow my mom every where. i mean every time. she goes upstairs then dog follow her upstaris and when she go back donw she followes. she just a baby anymore. she getting old to so i not understand why our dog act like this. she be like cow sometimes she will know storm be coming she want come in. and so fast. llike she hear u open door she just run in.. anyway anybody knows? even she on phone she follow and she in bathroom she wait right out side of the door.

im not sure your dogs wierd haha

try walking it yourself insteed your mom
even if hes old try playing with him
everyday try to spoil him with your love

just try bonding with him mabie he feels like he needs to be with her to feel protected. or mabie hes trying to protect her?

try to make him understand he doesnt always need someone by his side

im not really good with dog advice but thats what i would do
theres really nothing rong with him he just has that habbit dont worry bout it too much
--ashley

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whenever my boyfriend touches me like on my boobs or something my facfeels really hot why is this? jw

its called blushing hun

--ashley

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So yea. I'm getting them removed on the 10th of May. The party will be allllll about eating food stuff that I wasn't allowed to eat while I had my braces on for 2.5 years (caramel, gum, carrots, etc.)

What should be on the menu? =)

I'm looking for stuff that people with braces used knife and fork to eat (pizza,sandwiches,etc.)

Thank you =).

GUM
and lots of it haha ALL flavors! =]

caramal coverd apples?

try looking up the list of all the foods you cant eat braces and have all of them at your party

mabie get a ;ist from your orthadontist

--ashley

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i'm best friends with a group of 4 other girls. tonight they are all having a sleepover .. and like i wasnt even invited. they are always bugging me to go out with them, but they never ever tell me about the plans or invite me, they forget or something. i cant stop crying i am always the one left out, i always have been. what should i do?

next time if they tell you that them 3 are doing something be like, "oh i was thinking of inviteing you 3 to do that today! haha lets all meet up"

other stuff like that, thell get used to it and wont forget ya next time haha

good luck and i know your in a though spot.

is this doesnt work just ask "hey why wasnt i invited??"
there your best freinds! talk to them!!
--ashley

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hey. ok. sorry if this is long. i am 14/f. so today, i started going to a new church. two of my best friends go there, so i started going there. well, when i got there, we did activities and stuff in youth group, then we went to the regular church service. well, in the youth group there is this guy i'm changing the name so.. we'll call him.. Jacob. well, at first i thought he was really really stupid and imature. but then when we went to the room where they hold the regular church services, the kids were suposed to sit in the front row, and the adults in the back rows. well, i sat down by my friend, we'll call her.. Jacy. so we sat down, but she couldn't sit for long cause she had to light the candles. well, Jacob came over and sat by me. and Jacy and i were talking and then i looked at him. like i said, i thought he was really stupid. but then he goes "you have really pretty eyes" and i am such a sucker for that kinda stuff! i love it when guys are all sweet and stuff. and i was like "thanks..." cause i didn't know if he was serious or joking. then he goes " most guys don't notice stuff like that, but i do". so thats when i kinda started liking him. then at the end, it was the time when you "Greet your naighbors" kinda thing where you shake hands, give hugs and say "good morning". well, i went and shook some ppls hands, and i was talking to Jacy. then Jacob comes up behind us and he pats my shoulders and then he gives Jacy and another girl a hug. then we go back over to our bench where we were sitting and Jacy and we were talking again. then she turns to talk to someone and Jacob walks over by us. at first i just look at him, but then i look away and then he goes "do you want a hug?" and i was like "sure" so we hug and he was like "welcome to church!" and i was like "yeah.." cause i still wasn't quite sure bout him. then tonight i went to sunday night church and Jacob was there. we had to make a poster for the pastor because she had surgury and we were making a welcome back poster. well, he was flirting with me, and i didn't think i was but all of my friends were like "you guys stop flirting!" in a joking kinda way. and i was like "what the heck?!" and infront of him Jacy goes "you guys should go out!" and i was like "no" and he was like "ewwww" and that kinda dissaponited me cause i like him, but he was sayin eww. but then the rest of the night he kept flirting with me. so do you think he likes me? or is he just messing with my head? he said that he has a girlfriend, but we all think hes lying. and i said to jacy "do you think he likes me?" and she goes "idk, he does that a lot sometimes". and that kinda made me sad too. and all of my friends think he is weird. they don't really see him like i do. i just don't know what to do. any advice on what to talk to him about, if you think he likes me or not, or ANYTHING!!!! any advice will be great! but i need advice by this wendsay cause i'm goin to wendsay night church. thanks!!!!!

i think he likes you, but he was imbarest cause of your freinds and when she said you guys should go out and you said no he probly felt he had to say something like that too.

good luck and take chances!!
--ashley

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My friend has been through a lot. She has family problems, and a past that haunts her. Shes shy at first, but she definitely warms up. She is always there to help you. My friend once said she always trys to help others, but when she is depressed she wont tell anyone, and i mean anyone whats wrong. How can she do this? I have told her my life. i tell her everything. I love her, because she is always there for me, and she is like my therapist. But i am concerned, because she told me she used to cut. I really want her to share with me, but she says she doesnt know how to. Advice?

defently dont be mad at her shes in a tough spot

dont ask her whats rong (even though you want to help)
just comfert her, take her shoping etc make her have a good time
do that till she comes to you for help.

tell her "im here for you if you want to talk"

and then dont talk about it, just let her know you are there for her and be a good frind, have sleepovers etc.




if you are REALLY worried that shes hurting her self and its something serious (more than just the blues) you need to tell her parents that she needs help and shes hurting herself.
she may be mad at first for telling
but freinds are there for eachother and you letting her be depressed and hurt herself isnt being a good freind.

for right now just pretend how it was before all this, go get your nails done together do anyhting fun and talk about boys......

i know it doesnt sound like much but shell come to you, if not you need to talk to her parents that shes needs help!

--ashley

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what are some websites that sell clothes like delias or urban outfitters?

wet seal
forever21
charlotte russe

--ashley

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there's this girl I know who makes tote bags and sells them. it's a really cute business and it's going really well for her. I was wondering if you could give me any ideas about something like that to sell. thank you

pillows!!

like decorative pillows not sleeping pillows.

pilows are easy to sew and make
or buy a plain colored square pillows
and sew sequences,patches of fabric,glitter,beads
etc.

there cute and every home has pillows for beds, couches chairs...

be creative!

--ashley

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I really need a new haircut. Right now my hair is very long and has long layers. My face is in between a round/heart shape and my cheeks are kind of pudgy. What are some hairstyles that could work for me? I'm willing to get a shorter cut, especially since it'll be summer soon, maybe bangs, i have no idea..but what could flatter my face? I also am big boned (in other words, my body shape isn't really thin) so i also need a cut that could maybe flatter my body shape a little. Thanks!

i love hair questions!

you should cut the length to about right near your bust line and layer it more, make the ends choppy and have bangs that are to both side about up to your jaw bones. cut your bangs at an angle so they curve into your face. They should be reasting curving in your chin and jaw.

style it by takeing volumeize moose and kinda run your fingers through your hair with it and scrunch it a lil for volume and shape.
--ashley

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okay so i have a real problem lying to my mom..i have no problem going behind her back and doing stuff but lying to her face is just so hard. so when she confronted me about drinking at some parties i had to just come right out and say that i did. and now, of course, she doesn't trust me, and probably won't let me go to this one girl's graduation party (i'm 15 by the way). so what can i do to make her trust me again? i already agreed to not go to any of her parties during the school year but i REALLY want to go to her graduation party. i'm trying to be good and helpful so is there anything i can do to gain her trust back you think? maybe helping around the house and staying home more weekends?

thanks for any advice!!

you should tell her that you wesent thinking and that ALL teens drink at one point its part of growing up!
tell her that u ammited it and you wont do it again

suggest carpooling with a responcible freind that your mom knows well and trusts to go along to watch out for you. (not saying your not responcible just so that your mom will feel better)

tell her you learned your lession and tat you reasearched about how achol is bad for a teens body and what it can do to you.
*wink wink*
=]
hope i helped
--ashley

adults apreate it when you dont lie to them so remind your mom that do matter what "mistakes" you do you will always come to her for help!

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Ok tomorow is my friends get together with the most popular guys in the 8th grade and im in 7th. I know this guy wants to make out with me whcih im a liitle freaked out but thats not what im worried about. I have no idea what to wear. I have these really cute shirts but i can't decide. Please pick your favorite!

http://www.hollisterco.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/product_10251_10201_328235_-1_12648_12635
but this is in yellow

http://www.hollisterco.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/product_10251_10201_333643_-1_12622_12552

http://www.hollisterco.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/product_10251_10201_332640_-1_12647_12635


Be honestt!! hurry please
and thanks ahead!

i REALLY like the 1st one! its casual and looks like you didnt try hard yet it looks simle and dressy!! its cuuuteee

haha the 1st person said the last one the 2nd person said the 2nd one and im saying the 1st one
haha sorry its a hard decison but i would totaly go for the 1st one

the last ones to simple and the 2nd one is just really for like going to school or arround the house you wanna look hotttt =]
but the 2nd shirt is cute just not for this.

hopw i helped
--ashley

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i really need more answers, you might think there good, but they still dnt make sense to me :]

http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=488465

thanx

i think hes trying to say that he wants to make out with you or be your boyfreind but hes not popular or good anough
--ashley

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13/f
5'1
118.8 lbs.



about how much am i over weight? and what are good excersices to lose weight???



THANK YOU!!!! :]

your not over wieght!!!

but if you have a lil pooch in your stomach like i do just start eating heathyer and to crunches everyday, that will turn the fat into musle without really looseing any wieght.

but dont try to loose wieght i know sometimes you may look at your tummy in the mirror and say your fat but your not overwieght, your like perfect

im underwieght and trying to gain wieght without being unhealthy or getting fat hah my docter subsribed "boost" for me it tastes bad and not really helping
ur lucky

=]
--ashley

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a ton of bricks would hurt more than a ton of feathers right? i know its the same weight, but the bricks are harder, and have more force??

yea fethers are light even thought both are a ton but bricks are pointy and rigged and chippy, feathers are softer

but both 1 ton would be....death defying haha
--ashley

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Would anyone be able to tell me if the song "Candyman" by Christina Aguilera has been, or will soon be, featured in a movie?

Thank you!

omg candyman is by christina????

i thought it was by aqua!!!
haha
well no i dont know but i luv that song haha
its a good dance song.
--ashley

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i am fourteen years old and i am a 32A, i got my period in october. is there anything i can do without pills surgerys or medication of sort that can help make my breasts bigger naturaly?????

i know exactly how you feel!!!!!

ugh everyone all my freinds have boobs exept me but the only thing you can do is wait

wait
wait
wait
wait

its so not fair
everyone tells me "dont worry your still a teen your not done growing."
but the truth is i DONT WANNA wait haha

so were just gunna have to wait i know it sucks but ohwell

wait
wait
bummer
--ashley
hey mabie one day well me mad scientists who wll envent a potion to get faster growing boobs!!!
haha well just eat healthy and thats all you can do. =]

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Ok so I'm usually a fairly polite kid to adults (exceopt my parents but w/e) Ne way, my b/f and I have been together for about a year but his mom hates me. She often says harsh things hidden under sweet comments and I know my b/f hears her but never stands up for me. I always want to rebel and say something back but I'm not sure. Is it better to take it and show her I'm a good person? Or talk back and show her I can defend myself? Please help.

when she says something rude you should me muture about it but also stand up for yourself, hadel it like an adult mabie say something like "ouch" to show you dont like it.
have a talk with her away from your boyfreind and say this in the niceest way possible
"i really dont like it when you say tose rude things to me, and i want you to know that you may hate me but im trying to be nice, im trying to get to know you, im trying to like you, but your not coopaperating, i just want you to handel this a little more mature, if you dont like me then fine, but saying those things isnt going to help the situaltion. i really like your son and he likes me, and that not going to change so if i were i would suck up the fact that were together and at least try to be a little nicer. ive takeing in your comments for too long and its bothering me, just tell me why dont you like me? what did i ever do to you?"
after the conovostation even if shes really mad let her cool off and when you leave to go home give her a hug and say c-ya to show that you really care and that your not the wicked wich.

or mabie for now just keep takeing them in, pretend you didnt notice what she said to show that it doesnt bother you, she might stop, but if she deosnt i suggest you talk.
--ashley
=]

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about 20 minutes ago, i went to the bathroom, and there was so much discharge! enough to fill up a bottle cap, no joke!
in my underwear i saw a whole big glop of it, and hanging from my vagina was a long string of it
i am so worried right now about this this is new and has never happened to me before...
im also in a foreign country with my dad, no mother, so thats really awkward
could it have been the traveling that caused this? because i have no idea and im worried i have an infection

ps: fourteen female>virgin!

your perfectly normal lol no worrys!!!
some days its really light
some days its really heavy (in your case heavy)
every girl discarges all the time it could have to do with periods,foods you eat, working out, etc. anything causeing to have a heavyier amount

just mabie ask you dad to take you to a near by store to get some pannyliners, thats all. i mean you have to tell him what happend haha

if your too imbarest mabie just do your own laundry so your dad doesnt have to see the stains but its natural he will understand if you asked him to pick up some liners.
--ashley

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how can a girl cum? and what happens then?
i mean i know how it works with guys
but what about girls?

well you have to be 13 or older on this website and i can tell your not cause this is the most immature question.

butttt

people have to learn these thing eventualy
so here it is....

what do you you mean h o w does a girl do it?? it just happens you get excited. what happens then??? umm nothing you cum have an orgasm or just go change your underwear if you were wearing any haha

--ashley

reading back on this i didnt mean to sound so rude i apolize, but comeon use this website for advice not sex questions you dont need to be worrying about.

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