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left out
i'm best friends with a group of 4 other girls. tonight they are all having a sleepover .. and like i wasnt even invited. they are always bugging me to go out with them, but they never ever tell me about the plans or invite me, they forget or something. i cant stop crying i am always the one left out, i always have been. what should i do?
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if these girls are ignoring you or leaving you out; leave them. you don't need them in your life if they don't need you in theirs. Find a better group to hangout with and that are nicer-hope i helped:)
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If they are really your best friends, that's horrible to disclude you. You just need to talk to them as a group & tell them you feel left out. If they're really your friends, they'll care enough to change & include you in their plans. If not, then you need to find a new group of friends who care about you & don't make you feel left out. :)
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next time if they tell you that them 3 are doing something be like, "oh i was thinking of inviteing you 3 to do that today! haha lets all meet up"
other stuff like that, thell get used to it and wont forget ya next time haha
good luck and i know your in a though spot.
is this doesnt work just ask "hey why wasnt i invited??"
there your best freinds! talk to them!!
--ashley
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i suggest you should make a plan to go somewhere and invite them and just have fun.
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Talk to all of them, either as a group or one by one. Tell them how you're feeling about being left out and that if hey want you to go out with them then you at least need to be informed on what the plans are. Because you can't be somewhere that you don't even know about, right? In the meantime, I know it's disappointing to feel like you're the odd one out but try to cheer up, please? Don't cry.
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