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Hey, My name is Ryan, And I will be your shrink for the day, I have 18 years of life experience, trust me I have been through it all, loss, births (no I didnt give birth silly), Parents divorce, my own bad relationships, I have fixed heaps of relationships, basically, I'm the one who will lay it out straight! if you dont want the answers everyone seems to give like those stupid answers that never really help, then come to me, I condone the realists approach, the ways that REALLY work :D so ask me about ANYTHING..
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im in love with this kid who ive lost my virginity to and i just started going out with him like 3 days ago and we got into a fight because my friend wanted them to leave her house so he went outside to sit so i followed him and he was really being mean and told me to leave and that he wasnt gonna come see me anymore (he lives in another town) so i went upstaries and started crying and my mom picked me up to take them home and i just got out of the car cuz i couldnt take it anymore. i love him so much and hes being so mean to me and i dont wanna call him and he hasnt called me, i dont know what to do. im so confused. i love him
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He used you, I'm sorry to say.. He really is not worth it.. dont Cry for him.. Your just showing that he is winning.. Don't let him win.. Be strong.. next time you see him.. don't make eye contact.. don't speak.. Don't even think about him! just walk past him.. act like you dont give a fuck.. even if you do!
and yeah.. 3 days is a bit soon to jump in the sack with someone.. you shouldn't be so fast off the trigger.. if they wanna have sex with you.. tell them if in 6 months you are still together.. you will have sex... if they stay with you for at least a month.. its ok to go ahead and have sex.. it shows they respect you.. and that they are willing to wait for you.. Good luck with the future
I like this guy and he likes me.. Well we have ALOT in common and I admit im pretty popular.. so anyway, He's not the hottest/most popular person ever. I like him and I swear im not conceited!! But its like I feel like if I go out with him then I will ruin my rep.. I dont really care but my friends are like "OMG HES SO HOT!! I LIKE HIM NOW." Im not like that.. I go for personality.. but what do I do?? Do I go out with him of save my reputation?
A relationship biased on looks is stupid, You need to be able to love the guy/girl or its not worth having the relationship.. If there is no love, there is no respect, no respect can lead to people being pressured into things they don't want to do... So date the guy.. and if your friends make a big deal about it.. tell them you really like him, and their support would be excelent insted of them putting you down...
Hope I helped! :)
I'm 14 and I've never made out with a guy, but I think something might happen with this kid this weekend. I don't really know what I'm doing so does anyone have advice? Is it weird that I've never made out with anyone?
I was 12 when I made out with someone for the first time.. actually.. I was 12 when I kissed someone for the first time.. I'm 17 now so back then kissing was a HUGE deal.. now its all sex, and drugs, and alcohol.. todays youth its totally fucked...
In answer to your question.. No, Its not weird, its totally cool that you havnt.. good luck on the weekend...
and a bit of more advice.. dont call him a "Kid" it makes you sound like a pedofile..
i have a horrible sunburn.... i mean horrible! it doesnt even look that red but it KILLS! for example, i went to bed at 10pm and i woke up at 12 not being able to sleep bc it hurt so bad! what can i do! when can i start going to the tannign place again?
If your saying you got a sunburn from the tanning salon.. You can't go there again.. If you are getting a Sunburn from the tanning salon you should really not go there.. But if you must.. when the sunburn has healed ie. No more soreness or heat.. also to quicken the healing process use carrot lotion stuff.. heals it so fast its not funny :D
I am so confused with math. We're doing addition and subtraction of positive and negative integers. Can anyone please answer the following problems and explain how you got that answer? I rate high!
-20 - (-10) =
-35 - 16 =
There's also a sort of word problem one too. Tell me what the math sentence would be and the sum.
Start at -6. Face the negative direction. Move backward 2 units.
Please help!
-20 - (-10) = -10
-35 - 16= -51
Start at -6. Face the negative direction. Move backward 2 units. = -4
Thankyou, Come again
Edit: *Pokes that guy whom just beat me!*
Edit2: Girl whom just beat me rather ;)
does anybody understand anything about 1st 2nd and 3rd quartiles? I have no idea what im doing.
umm, no sorry
hiyas,
erm sry could u explain to me what a g-spot is? my bf is always cracking jokes about it and im always ha ha ha, and what not. seriously, im quite lost...
Lol, Sure.. Its cool.. I understand.. I didn't know what it was at one stage too.
There is a spot inside the vagina that is extremely sensitive to deep pressure. It is felt through the anterior or front wall of the vagina about five centimetres from the entrance.
The spot is called the G spot or Grafenberg spot after the first modern physician to describe it.
When properly stimulated, the G spot swells and leads to orgasm in many women.
It is probable that every woman has a G spot. The researchers found one in every woman they examined. "It is the homologue of the male prostate," they said.
At the moment of orgasm, many women ejaculate a liquid through the urethra that is chemically similar to male ejaculate but contains no sperm.
As a result of stimulation of the G spot, women often have a series of orgasms.
For many women, it is difficult to properly stimulate the G spot in the missionary position. Other positions such as the one with the woman sitting astride on top or the one with male entry into the vagina from the rear ("doggie style") work better.
hope that information helps.. I know some is unrelated but.. oh well :)
my sister and i have always gotten along great...until last week when she came home...shes 21 & im 14 btw..anyways, she became the first to find out about some "not so good" stuff ive been doing and told me i had to tell mom..I DONT WANNA! she said if i by next week shes going to!im so mad @ her! PLEASE HELP! i dont want my mom knowing and i dont want to loose the awesome relationship w/ my sister either!
What have you been doing?
Btw.. Your mum WILL find out.. They always seem to.. So if she finds out some other way.. Its going to be really bad for you, if your honest, and just come out and tell her.. you will see it wont be all that bad!
Ok so there is this guy that i really like. And i really wanna tell him i like him, but i don't want to risk the friendship if he doesn't like me back (even though everyone says he does) what should i do?
so tell him.. If he don't like you back.. what will change? all that will change is that he knows you want to go further.. and you know he doesn't.. easy
hurry i need advice quick wut does it mean when a girl is going to "play" a guy???
It's bad.. It means she will flirt or even start dating a guy with no intention for love or anything further..and will even cheat.. she is tricking him.. using him if you will.. if you have been told a girl is going to play you.. be warned ;)
PLAYIN IS FUN!! :D
I am turning 15 in less than a month and lately ive been looking up information about female masturbation. I masturbated the 1st of march for the first time ever. Well i dont know if sticking a magic marker in your vagina is masturbating...but anyway. Today i worked up the nerve to finger myself. It felt weird. Yesterday when i first ever masturbated i thought it felt really good...and i really want to have an orgasm...i just dont know how. I'm not comfertable with large objects in my vagina, only the size of my index finger. So my first question is " How do i get an orgasm with nothing bigger than a magic marker or my finger?" and my second question is "how come the morning after the first time i masturbated i felt really sick?"
Sorry this is so long...but i really need to know. Thanks everyone.
No.1 Most female orgasms are clitoral.. so try stimulating the clitoris.. play with the clitoris more than actually "fingering" yourself.. after you start getting really turned on, you should get wet giving you enough lubricant to get 2 fingers in.. then you have to explore yourself, but don't forget the clitoris (its an important factor in the female orgasm), and find your g-spot.. its like a fleshy spot on the inside wall of your vagina about the size of a 5c peice.. (varies between women) it should be just inside toward the front, not the back.. hope this all makes sense... just keep playing with your clit, and SOFTLY massaging your g-spot (if you manage to find it, if you dont, dont worry, its very illusive, most women cant find it)
HOPE THIS HELPS :D
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i like this boy for a while but he never knew. today i walked into my class and he strait out tells me he found something out..so i asked what and hes like "you like me.." and i kinda got all nervous and wwent to the bathroom and when i come back hes like teasing me..like saying "oh. why wont you turn around..?" and cutsy stuff like that.. by him being so forword does that mean he might like me? or am i just crazy and having wishful thinking?
He definately likes you... good luck
I doubt anyone will know the answer to this but here it goes... I was working on a car for my friend. Its a cabiretta (OLD CAR) and i had to replace the starter, the battery, steering column, and the rimes, wheels, and tires. We turned on the car and it was working earlier after i completed it BUT now when we try to start it the car will not turn over. I know that the starter is good because its brand new, and so is the battery.. IT was working about 15 minutes ago.. NOW it doesnt turn over.. who knows the problem
OK.. I know this may be a bit late.. like a few months late.. and you prob fixed it by now.. but its your ignition.. the easiest way to fix it is with a starter button.. easy.. or you can replace the whole key and barrel :)
well im currently going out with this guy i like alot....but last friday i hung out with muh ex boyfriend and i think im starting to like him again...and im really confused cuz im having mixed feeelings right now...what should i do??
slap yourself, you already have a boyfriend.. you can't betray him for a past fling.. It's wrong.. just put your ex out of your mind.. who hangs around with their ex's anyway?
What stocks should I buy?
mine. buy mine.. ok.. I dont have a company yet.. but I will.. one day :D if someone will invest in me that is
ok im new to this here, but i am getting frustrated with getting only crap for advice. im 24 and i dont really have much of a drive. i mean i have my times but you might as well put it on the calander, its not that often. anyway my bf- fiance thinks that hes not doing it for me, but i tell him its cuz he beats me to it. when i am in the mood its great, and even when im not, he still makes it wonderful. i dont know what to do.. please i need real people to help with this.
What exactly would you like to know? Go to my column, and click "Ask Question" and It will ask the question to me.. In the question provide the specifics of what you would like to know and I will answer to the best of my ability..
P.S. I know I may not be very old.. (17) but I have a great deal of Life experience for my age... after all I do get 667$ a week after tax... (about 850 before) not that that matters -_-
i hear constantly about 14 year olds having sex... this is scary. what has the world come to? one day people will be having sex at 8 and then people will finally realise there is a problem. i dont see why 14 year olds have sex when they are so young... at 14 i was like, gross, why have sex? i'm 17 now and i am a virgin... i am proud of that and i like it coz guys respect me and i know a guy isn't going out with me for sex. what i want to know is why do girls lose that respect at such a young age? and how young were people when they lost their virginity???
- confused
I know exactly what you are saying.. I have heard of 13 and 12 also.. its wierd... at that age I never ever thought about sex.. it was like.. kissing was the thing... I never kissed someone till my first year of highschool.. sex was like.. totally out of the question.. I'm also 17 now and also a virgin.. (male :O THATS DIFFERENT HUH?)I'll be 18 in July and still dont plan on going out and having sex with the first girl I meet just for the sake of it.. and no.. I am definately NOT gay OR bi! but yeah :)
My best friend Anna and I both like the same guy, Dan. We are both really good friends with him and he flirts with us and other girls a lot. The problem is that he told me that he didn't like Anna, and only wanted to be friends with her. Then he told me that he always is really good friends with girls and then they end up liking him.
I told Anna this and she is really upset and I'm not sure how I should do. I still really like Dan, but it sounds like he doesn't like me because of what he said about his friends falling for him. I was about to ask him out, but now I'm not sure if I should.
why do guys flirt with girls and expect that the girl will never like them? Shouldn't they know that the girl will end up liking him?
He is obviously an obsessive flirt..
And if I were you.. I wouldn't go out with him.. it can ruin your friendship with Anna.. If you like someone.. and a friend you know likes them too.. you should ALWAYS step aside.. ALWAYS! (relationships normally always end bad... etc)
hi, it may seem a little early to be talking about swimming but can you people pretend it is summer?! okay i cant purchase regular bikini bottom because of the hair..down there. i have to wear shorts and i really dont want to! every time i shave it gets bloody and itchy and burny. ive tried using a fresh razor and waxing, and using baby oil...lots of shaving cream..stuff for sensitive skin, conditioner, stuff for bikini area...etc and they all seem to irritate it. and i have really sensitive skin and that makes it worse. someone said to use bikini touch but i used the other one that is not for bikini area but just like it and it hurt! someone help please!
Use the one for the bikini area.. duh.. its formulated for it.. so it shouldnt hurt.. if it does.. try laser hair removal.. once its done.. you never have to worry about it growing there again.. EVER..
Hello! My boyfriend is thinking about getting his penis pierced, and I was just wondering how long it will take until we will be able to have sex? Also, if anyone has had it done, how bad does it hurt? Thanks!!
It will hurt like hell.. kick him in the nuts as hard as you can.. and say times 10 and you know what a peirced penis will hurt like.. If its done incorrectly,, he may never be able to have sex again (could cause erection problems) and if he doesnt take care of it.. it could get infected badly.. which could incur.. I dont wanna say this.. but... loss of penis.. or.. a penisectamy aka amputation of the penis..