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Hey- i'm Emily. I love my friends and most ask for my help with various situations... so I guess i'm good at giving advice lol. I am a freshman, i love the band, and i am somewhat outgoing. Ask me anything and i'll do my best to help. :)
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Is it the stupidest thing to want a baby when u had a miscarriage earlier on in the year, when earlier in your life u had bad things going on with your dad but knowing your mum would give you full support, having the bestest boy friend in the world u’ve been with him for a year and just wanting something to fill that hole in your heart you just want something more to love.. at the age of nearly 15..?
You are only a teen and have all of the options on your hands. If you had a baby, that baby would be on your mind all the time. My mother has told me stories of her friends that had babies when they were your age. They couldnt do things like go with friends because they had to take care of baby. I know, I know, your mom can babysit, but remember this is going to be your baby, not hers.
Good luck though!
is there anything i can do about my scars on my forehead? I got them when i poped my zits.
Well, now you should know not to pop your zits. Neosporin helps get rid of scars... i dont remember them all but there are other things that can dry them out and make them worse so dont experiment with other stuff to get rid of them. Try Neosporin.
*emster*
ok well i have this friend and her boyfriend broke up with her because he didn't feel like them 2 were actually going out anymore, cause she lives 45 minutes away. He goes to my church and like so i seem him alot. Well after he broke up with her he started going out with another girl and my friend,was so mad and she was like i hate him and don't like him anymore. So i thought she was over him. Well a few days ago that girl broke up with him. SO he comes back to my friend and is like i don't know why i broke up with you, i love you and blah blah. well he told me he was going to ask her out again and i was hoping she would say no, but i found out that she said yes today. I don't want my friend to get hurt, again. I don't how to say she made the wrong decision, i don't want this boy thinking he can brake up and get back together over and over again, can u help?
Wow! Tell her how you feel. Don't include the part on how she made the wrong desicion. You know that and thats what matters. Besides she could get majorly mad at you forsayign that. Just remind her how she hated him and didnt like him before. Ask her why she likes him all of the sudden now. Tell her you are just looking out for her.
It was wrong of him to do that, I agree, but if he does it again your friend will realize her mistake and most likely won't ever do it again. It's her job to tell him he can't do that, not yours. Sry if I'm coming on harsh but she will probably realize her mistake if he breaks up with her again.
Good Luck
*emster*
Does anyone know where I can get an extra self for a locker. I've seen other people with them but I figure it would be wierd to ask them since I dont know them. An extra locker self like you know how at school they have those top and bottom lockers. I got a top one and since I'll most likely be sharing lockers with close friends I wanna make it looks nice. PLus does anyone know where I can get a magnet mirorr. and while we're at it any tips/ideas on how I can decorate my locker? =] Thank you so much!!!
You can get locker shelves at stores like OfficeDepot and Staples. I got mine at staples. When you get the shelf they include four black holders that stick on the corners so you can add in another shelf if it can fit in your locker. Since your friends might be in their with you, you could try two shelves. Right before school starts at staples they have locker magnets, magnetic holders, magnet picture frames, and mirrors. To make it look nice you could put some cute small magnets and put pics of you and your buds in there, or you could put in a small hanging mirror on a locker hanger.
Sorry so long lol- good luck!
*emster*
hey whats the best workout to tone your lower stomach? thanx xxx
http://www.toneteen.com
Go here and you can type in what part of body you want to tone and they will give you tips!
Sorry so short- hope I helped some...
*emster*
Hey im gunna move next door to this hot guy and im gunna put in a pool and so i wanna make sure i have a nice body incase he sees me swimming so if you have any diet tips or workouts for stomach, legs, or butt i would appreciate it very much
**THX**
Well since you want to have a fit body you may want to eat healthier. Try trading cheetos for carrot sticks. You can just do a few crunches in the morning or a pushups at night. but don't starve yourself or go to the gym 4 hours a day for this guy... otherwords dont go extreme. anyway just try slimming down on junk food and doing a few exercises.
Sorry so short- Hope i helped!
*emster*
iwent rollerskating one night and i met this guy. he asked me my name and then i asked him his. the next time i saw aat skating he gave me a hug and said hi. then my friend said she had his number and that she would give it to me. i called him and he said he couldnt talk. then i called him the next day and he didnt answer. then from then on everytime i called him he wouldnt answer. on the first day of school i saw him i went up to him and he said he didnt know me and then just walked away. i saw him at a party recently and i said hi and he just shrugged his shoulders and walked away. what is his deal and why is he being such a jerk. i know that he knows who i am, but hes being such ajerk to me. please guys and girls help me out!!!
He probably doesnt know how you got his number and it probably freaked him out. He probably thinks if you found out his name and did all this research on him. Next time you see him try to explain. Tell him your friend gave you his number and you wanted to call and see what you were up to. Thats what I would do. If he doesnt listen and he walks away, you are just wasting your time with him.
Where can I find lyrics to avril lavigne??? I have looked everywhere and i wnated to buy the cd to look at the lyrics but my mom said i hear it enough on the radio. when it does come on the radio though i like to sing along but I CANT because i dont know the lyrics!!!!!!! WHERE can i find the lyrics??????
thanks in advance! :]
Haha you can try lyrics.com and then type in Avril Lavigne. thne you can print out the lyrics, and sing along when she comes on the radio. I love doing that (singing along I mean)...
Hope I helped!
*emster*
HELP! my face is breaking out!!!!! and its not going away=[ what should i do?
thanks*
Try Clearasil face wash. It works... They have diff types to fit your needs like blackhead scrub, acne control, and more stuff.
Sorry so short but I hope I helped.
*emster*
Hey people i was wondering could everyone tell me what they think of a 15 year old going out with a 13 year old girl?
tell me ur honest opinions please
Hey I think its fine. I see some questions on here saying things like, I have been going out with my 17 year old bf (and i find the person writing is 13)so...
I think its ok. Sorry so short...
*emster*
Im starting High School in 10 days. Im excited/nervous but whatever. Does anybody know any school supplies that will be needed? Or could anybody recommend school supplies i should have? Except for pens,notebooks and a backpack because i already have those things?
As in notebook do you mean spiral? Well, my sister also started high school a few days ago and she provided a 'just in case' binder for each school subject. staples and office depot sell for $1 each regularly b4 school starts.
Sorry thats is all I have. I'm sure your teachers will tell you what you need the first day so you will probably be ok.
Hope I helped and Good Luck!
*emsters*
We have mice, ants and rats in our house! My mommy just screamed because she saw a mouse in her closet! I'm deathly afaraid of mice and ants. Is there any way to ger rid of them? We've tried mouse traps and spray to kill ants but they keep coming back! What attracts an ant to a place? Sorry its kinda long but i need help and i rate!!!
Well, they are all mainly attracted to food (all are actually). If it has rained a lot where you live the past few days ants come up and look for a dry home.
Try calling up an exterminator from the yellow pages. I dont know about mice you could look up something called Rat and Mice control in the pages also.
Good Luck!
*emsters*
OK I've tried everything I possibly could to fix this friendship but I can't. She's impossible!! She even signed on to my crush's xanga and left me a note telling me he liked me when it was really her. How do I rekindle this friendship? No smartass answers. I rate 5's!
Ok. A true friend is someone who you can depend upon, who you can get along with, and a person who you can trust.
You can not trust her ot depend on her obviously..she even lied to you. you yourslef called her a bad friend. Apparently there is no fixing this friendship. You can try but she wont be a real friend.
*emster*
My life really sucks. The guy i like has this really popular and pretty girlfriend. All the people at school make fun of me. I do not have alot of friends. My family doesn't seem like they care for me too much. I even sometimes think of suicide.
At school all of the people make fun of me. I am no dork but people make fun of me the way i dress and just plain make fun of me. On my school lacrosse team people always make fun of me. Not to brag but i am probably the best person on the team and yet there are still people making fun of me of the things i do. On my soccer team some of the girls make fun of me too. I do not have alot of friends either. My dad always bothers me to have someone come over and he asks me the number of people i called and its only about 3 because i really don't have alot of friends to call. My family is always yelling at me to. I try to be nice but then my sister makes some smart remark and then my parents expect me to be nice to her. And they think she is like the perfect angel child that does everything right. My sister even sometimes makes fun of me by saying i have no friends. Suicide is also something i think about and life is something i want to take away because it really sucks. Please add some advice to this column. It would really help. Even if it is just about one thing. Please help.
Almost evryone I know has been picked on. The key to it is: ignore it. I know, i know, you may think tht is impossible but its really not. Dont look at them, dont say anything back, just keep on walking or doing what you were before. Don't even acknowledge it. Like, all of the people that pick on people have problems. They are no better than you. I've been picked on and i just ignored it. soon i learned to just block from hearing it. it really helped.
Tell your family how you feel when they yell at you to call friends(dont yell). If you dont do that just tell them "hello, i see them everyday at school...why call when we just talk every now and then all day?"
and about your sis. we all have sibling problems... calmly tell her to stop. if she keeps buggin ya just ignore.
and suicide!? NO way to go... just dont think about it. write down on apiece of paper what you are good at. you have friends, you have talent, you have a roof over your head, you have food. you are equal to every single student, lacrosse player, and sister that you have.
Just remember that- sorry so long i got carried away lol
Hope I helped =)
*emsters*
Hey there! I'm 15 and a girl. Um, there's this guy in my club that I really like, and I think that he feels the same way. Noone else in my club knows this, except me. But last week, right after a club meeting, one of my friends from that club told me that she was beginning to fall for him again. I want to support her, but then I also like this guy a lot. What do I do?
You should probably go up and talk to him. Because think of how you will feel if that girl talks to him instead and they hook up. You might have to wait awhile for him to be back on the available list...
I don't really have suggestions for what to say on whether to tell him you like him or if you wnna hang out (sorry... :/ )
If you think he likes you to then the more reason to talk to him!
My parents are oconsidered the perfect couple at times. recently i was talkign to my uncle and he let it slip that both my parents have been married before! how could they not tell me? what do i do? hurry with a reply b/c i am TOTALLY freaking out!
Wow! i dont blame you for being freaked! unfortunately they werent truthful with you. you need to talk to them. Just tell em that your realtive let the bomb drop on accident. dont get mad or yell just tell them. Then ask if its true. then all you can do is listen.
but what you relative let slip doesnt change your parents love for e/o or you.
good luck!
*emster*
Ok..i know this is sucha weird question..but have any of you people TRIED bloody mary? you kno where you go in the bathroom and turn off all the lights and say her name 3 times and shes suppose to come out?? or maybe i got it wrong..all i really wanna know is that if anyone tried it..and whats the story behind it and what do you do exactly to see her??? pleaassseee reply! i`ll rate high =)
I was dared to do it at a slumber party once. You go into a room with a mirror (doesnt have to be a bathroom) and turn off the lights so you are in total darkness and facing the mirror. And yes as you guessed you say Bloody Mary three times out loud. She is supposedly supposed to appear behind you and slit your eyes and ya can see her in the mirror behnd you.
The stroy behind it is that there was once a Queen of some counrty and some person who hated her came and slit her eyes while she was looking at herself in a mirror. I know that is kind of sick but whatever lol.
And no, it doesn't work lol... I did it and I can still see. :)
*emster*
hi.. i have a twin sister and were idenicle.. this brings us close together and far apart.. she is 14 minutes older than me adn because of that she think sshe can boss me aroundd.. like she will be right next to the fridge and ask me to go and get her a soda or something like that and if i dont she gets really mad.. the otherday she threw a hairbrush at my head and i had a huge lump! dose anyone have any adivce dfor me on how to stop this from going on?
i rate well! =] ***((haily))***
You have two options. You can tell your an adult like your parents and ask them to help OR you can handle it yourself.
Try bossing er around so she can see what it feels like. If she says no she won't then tell her how you feel. It's only 14 minutes for cryin out loud!
If she doesnt listen to you when you talk wait until she asks you to do sumtin. Say no and if she gets mad just ignore her. Walk out of the room. If she follows you turn and tell her she is acting like a two year old (she is)
lol hope i helped!
*emster*
well i go to school and my parents expect me to get high grades like they did or say they did when they were little but with me for some reason i dont get high grades and my parents hav been takeing my stuf away from me when i dont get high grades and i do apply myself to try to get high grades........help plz
Tell them you are doing the best you can do. Don't yell or anything. Tell them you are applying yourself to trying and getting better grades. If they dont'seem to listen study harder and show them. Aim for a grade higher. Like if you are getting a C aim for a B, or if you have B aim for A. Even though they got good grades doesn't mean you will always get them. Grades arent' genetics! lol
You can't expect someone to be perfect- no one is...
Hope I helped...
*emster*
I would like to reward him with a special treat but i don't know any candy this kid likes. do you guys know of anything sweet for a 4 year old? please help! i rate high!
All kids love candy. But some can be allergic to things like peanut butter(reese's) or chocolate. When you babysit the kid ask him what his fav candy is and that time instead reward him with somethign else fun like playing his fav boardgame or watching his fav movie. I do that and little kids (3-4) love it. The next time bring the candy they told you.
Hope I helped! :)
*emster*