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ok well i have this friend and her boyfriend broke up with her because he didn't feel like them 2 were actually going out anymore, cause she lives 45 minutes away. He goes to my church and like so i seem him alot. Well after he broke up with her he started going out with another girl and my friend,was so mad and she was like i hate him and don't like him anymore. So i thought she was over him. Well a few days ago that girl broke up with him. SO he comes back to my friend and is like i don't know why i broke up with you, i love you and blah blah. well he told me he was going to ask her out again and i was hoping she would say no, but i found out that she said yes today. I don't want my friend to get hurt, again. I don't how to say she made the wrong decision, i don't want this boy thinking he can brake up and get back together over and over again, can u help?
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You could always just try to tell your friend what you think about the whole situation, although there is no guarentee that she will understand and not get upset or mad. I would probably try talking to the guy as well, and tell him not to hurt her, and tell him you don't want him to think that he can't just go out with her, break up, and go out again when he doesn't have anyone else! there isn't really anything else you can do. sorry to say but your friend is going to have to learn on her own..the hard way! if he does hurt her, just be there for her!
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yeah you really need to talk to her. At first she might think that you want him , but she'll eventually realise thats not true. talk to her about how you dont want her to get hurt again, and how you hope she understands. hope i helped
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Ok ok, you need to like sit down your friend and be like "He's only saying that bc he wants you back, he'll prob. end up breaking up with you again, don't you see a pattern?"
I don't know if this will work only bc she sounds like she is really hooked on him. That guy just sounds like he doesn't want to be alone.
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Wow! Tell her how you feel. Don't include the part on how she made the wrong desicion. You know that and thats what matters. Besides she could get majorly mad at you forsayign that. Just remind her how she hated him and didnt like him before. Ask her why she likes him all of the sudden now. Tell her you are just looking out for her.
It was wrong of him to do that, I agree, but if he does it again your friend will realize her mistake and most likely won't ever do it again. It's her job to tell him he can't do that, not yours. Sry if I'm coming on harsh but she will probably realize her mistake if he breaks up with her again.
Good Luck
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