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what should i do if im still in love wiht my ex-boyfriend and he likes me too but he doesnt really want a girlfrined right now and i want a boyfriend right now and there's this guy i kinda like and he asked me out and i said yes all i can think about is my ex but we dont talk that much anymore maybe once a week he doesnt know about my new boyfriend! my ex go's to a differnet school too so its kinda hard to talk to each other but we still like each other! i dont know if i should stay wiht my new boyfriend or what! please help

woahhh that sounds really familliar to a situation i was in and all i have to say is donnnt go to the ex boyfriend... if he doesnt want to have a girlfriend right now but he says he likes you thats just leading to trouble it means he does like you, but he still wants to hook up with other girls also. the best way is to move on.. you liek your new boyfriend right? give it sometime then soon youll forget about your ex and everything will work o ut

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ok im 13 and a girl obviously! well before the summer came i was really good friends with the guy i like and i think he liked me but watever. so anywayss the skool year began [8th grade] and now we dont even talk to each other anymore and my friend who is his ex told him i like him and he doesnt like me and i dont think he even knows who i am and to top it all off hes popular and im not but my bffl thinks i m popular b.c i know half the girls that are po. b.c im on the cheer "squad" and i talk to them . but anyway i need help with this problem i want me and him to be friends again like we were before the summer!

okay, first of all sorry for not answering this sooner i didnt see it in my inbox! this is a tough situation, but you dont want to seem obsessed with him so dont do this to much but if you see him in the halls just be like "hey ____* and see what he says. if he stops to talk make up casual conversation and if he seems like hes willing to talk to you you could bring up a fun time you had in the summer like, hey do you remember when ___ i was thinking about that the other day... and that could get him to remember how much fun he had with you. but, if he just is like umm ok and blows you off dont even waste your time on him... hope i helped

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Its not working...i went to photobucket and i found the one i wanted....oh how do u do it whenn you go to column settings?

okay, well get the URL.. depending on what picture get they might or might not have it... click on it once.. then click on it again and if it sais URL below it copy it and go to column settings... and where it sais background image URL paste it in there and it can be your background... if you need help if it doesnt have a URL just leave some more love

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okay i like this guy and he has a girlfriend we talk every night & day and im pretty sure he likes me too. we kind of mess around all the time and i just want to know what i should do i mean i've told him im not going to mess around with him until he brakes up with his girlfriend and he said he would but he hasnt what should i do?

i would deffanetly wait untill him and his girl break up beacause if he cheats on her with you your going to get a bad name.. and also you dont want to be his rebound girl and his bootycall crawling back to you whenever his girl isnt around.. if he says he would cheat on his girlfriend with you.. and if you guys end up going out.. how do you know he wouldnt do the same to you in that situation? just think about that and take extra caution and if its meant to be everything will work out.

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I saw something with photobucket and I was wondering if you had to be a member to get the stars and stuff.

nopee, you dont.. just type in 'stars' and then click on the one you want untill you see the URL for it and post that in column settings :-) hope i helped

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how do you get backgrounds,like with stars or hearts? something like that. I tried to do it but it didnt work and i dont know where to put it.Could anyone help me out? thank you!

hey, you can go to www.photobucket.com and pick a cute little starry thing get the url for it, go to column settings and in the part where it says background URL put it in there... sorry if it was confusing, if you need any more detail drop s ome in my inbox

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ok so the holidays are coming up and i need an idea on what to get my very best friend in the whole wide world ! help? by the way you probably know me i go to your school

when my best friend moved away i got her a picture frame that said forever on it and a realy cute picture of both of us. it seems like someting little, but it really means a lot and its origanal and no matter what she'll love it :-)

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ok so their a BIG looser in my class and i know that some people don't like her but how can i get her to be nice to me (i tried everything, she hates me so much)i need her 2 be nice to me again (i'm so sad she doesn't like me)

uhmm, even though shes mean to you kill her with kindness at all times even if she says something rude to you.. i've learned you cant hate people who are nothing but nice to you. tell her you like her shirt. that she looks cute today. say hi to her in the halways... little things like that can make someones day.

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I straighten my hair with a flat iron at night, but when I sleep on it and wake up in the morning it looks greasy. I don't have time to do it in the mornings i already wake up early enough... any suggestions?? thanks!

hey something that really works wonders is baby powder... put some right on your head where the area looks greasy and rub it in and you cant even tell... i highly reccomend it!

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Are contacts hard to take out? I'm thinking about getting them. Any advice on what to do lol?

hey, i got mine a few weeks ago. at first there a bitch to get in and take out, but just keep doing it and now it takes me like 10 seconds. you just slide the cotact to the outside of your eye and pick it out haha. oh yeah get up like 10 minutes earlier before school until you get the hang of it because i was always late because of that for like a week

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O.k Well my best friend is a total whore... i mean like shes the type like if you have a dick .. shell suck it like after an hour of knowing you.. i confronted her about it like.. why have you changed so much (because she was never like this)The Other night i said some
things to her i maybe shouldnt have said..

but i meant them she told me i was never on her side, and i never helped her through anything meanwhile when she broke uph with her boyfriend i was there, through everything and when other people called her a whore i was there through it allll!!!

Well I Told Her i hoped she got pregnant and, shes a f****** whore, and a slut, and guys only want you for a#$ soo yea, i was pretty mean she was probably crying...

But today i was thinking am i just jealous of her. I mean shes a whore and she gets all the guys she wants, i always thought that if you havent done a lot of stuff with guys they'd want you more, am i wrong... AM I JEALOUS?

i think you mite just be a lil jealous because shes getting a lot of attention but for the wrong reasons. but i just read ur additonal info and karma came around and bit her in the ass. dont turn into a whore and if she changes you could be friends with her again or something i had that problem with one of my friends haha but now its all good. just give her some time to change and if not screw her

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anyone know any mental pick-me-ups for someone who feels really depressed? (foods, activities, etc. don't tell me to "count my blessings" or "see a therapist" or "love myself" or something.)

i like going for walks it just is some time to yourself to think about everything and get away.. try it and tell me if it works for you!

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is there any STORE (not online) that sells seven jeans or other designer jeans like them (citizens for humanity, true religion, etc.) for 60 dollars or under? if you know anywhere, that'd be great, thanks!

umm well it all depends on where you live, but you could try a place where they sell old high class stuff thats where i found my seven jeans and they were only 50 dollars but i dont know if you have any stores like that but i hoped i somewhat helped =)

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what are some good stores that sell cheap clothes? clothes that are pretty and something a teenager would wear.. any suggestions?

try charlotte ruse, theyre clothes are cute and i absolutley cannot think of the place no one has mentioned yet... this is really bugging me but ask me a question tomorrow and ill remember it..

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If you had to pick one over the other, would you pick diamond earrings or a pearl necklace?

earrings--http://www.tiffany.com/shopping/item.aspx?c_id=WEB1&c_it=52U4&start_id=66&CategoryId=501&category=Diamonds&

&&&

necklace--
http://www.tiffany.com/shopping/item.aspx?c_id=WEB1&c_it=57I5&start_id=91&CategoryId=66&category=Jewelry&

well i saw those and im totally jealous your so lucky haha but i would pick the earrings because when pearls go out of style or something then you can still wear the earings and to special events more =) yea hope i helped

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Ok I am in High school and I have 3 freakin rumors going around the school about me and my best friend. This girl is telling me that me and my best friend are lesbian lovers, which is so not true, because I am straight, and now I have people talking about me, and also I have another rumor which isn't as bad, but that one is that I am going with this boy, and that I am a slut. Its going around the whole school, and it upsets me, and makes me want to cry. I don't know what I should do. I haven't had these problems, til I met this one girl.

ive had problems like this before the best way to handle it is to lay low and dont make a big deal out of it. that way new drama will come along and your rumors will be a thing of the past. it worked for me =) p.s i dont thnk you should talk to that girl anymore she seems like a bitttch and is really immature for saying that.

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ok my best friend is moving and it is realy hard because we have been best friends and neighbors forever what can i do =(

same thing happend to me.. but whatever you do, talk all the time and keep your friendship other wise it mite slip away before you know it..

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Okay, I went out with this guy right, and we broke up and everything and then we went out again and then we broke up again but i still really like him and now he has a g/f and we used to talk all the time and now that he has a g/f we don't talk ne more and i really miss it and everything and i don't know what to do should i just forget about him and move on or should i try talking to him again?

HELP

i was in this position before and i think you should back off because of his girlfriend but that will give you time to move on and explore all the other people out there. it sucks because you still really like him and when you see him and his girlfriend together it kills but once you find someone new it wont even affect you. it'll be hard but in the end itll be worth it

hope i helped

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Can someone give me a cute little saying about missing someone you're in love with, and knowing you don't have a chance. Either one will do! I want to put one in my AIM profile.

i know it seems like a million years ago we dated,
but it wasn't.
maybeyou're over it,
maybe it doesn't mean anything to you anymore,
maybe it never did.
but it meant a lot to me.
[ you ] meant alot to me.
&& you still do.
- - THE O.C

The first person you love...is the one you will always love...x3

break my heart, its okay...
its not like i still love you or care about you or anything
its okay, its not like i think about you
all the fucking time

The truth is, i gave my heart away a long time ago
and i never really got it back.
-sweet home alabama-

even though we're through
i remember all the laughs & hugs
the kisses and the i love you's

Do you realize what you are to me? What you’re always going to be? You’re the love of my life...everyone else will always be second best. There will never be another you

I’m so afraid you’ll find someone new and fall in love with her…. As fast as I fell for you

Just when you least expect it you start thinking about how he makes you laugh and how you feel when you’re around him. You realize after all this time you still care about him a lot more than you thought.

Lately, i`ve been remembering all the good times we had together, you have no idea how much that scares me because i know if i forget all the bad times, the time you broke my heart, all the nights you made me cry, i know if i forget those times, i`ll fall in love with you all over again, and i know my heart can`t take that.

sorry theres so many, i just didnt kno what kind you wanted haha well get back to me and let me know if you like any of them and if not sorry!

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