Q: I am 14 and never have had a boyfriend nor kissed a guy . Is this bad?

Q: so i sometimes talk alot but in classes i dont talk that much at all.. and when i am around friends it is like i run out of things to say? i have met some new people but i dont really talk to them so they think im quiet, what are some things i could talk about and what are some tips on being more outgoing?

Q: If you were to get your bedroom done what would you do? what color would you paint your walls? what kindof furniture, etc.

and also, I'm 14 and I like the colors pink & black and I love music, punk stuff...I don't know what else. So how would you do my room if you had to. I'm just wondering!


Thanks to anyone who answers!

Q: i was wondering what people thought about student and teacher in a relationship. what do you think about it?

Q: Well me and my boyfriend have been going out for 2 months anda half and all we've done is hug and i want us to hold hands and kiss but his really shy and so ami it sucks lol =[ any ideas and i don't want to make the first move

Q: I am 14 almost 15 and I'm a girl who just started high school this year ya a freshman and this kid mike I met him at my elementary school but only talked to him once so he decided to sit with me and my friends at lunch this year and I have decided I lke him, but I keep asking him who he likes and he says oh a couple people and you dont know them either so I dont think he likes me but at lunch he sits across from me and always laughs at my jokes and flirts with me I cant tell if he likes me or hes just being a guy?? I need some good advice!!!

I REALLY LIKE THIS KID THOUGH!!

Q: kay so in gym we're playing soccer now outside.. well we got to pick out of 3 things and i picked soccer. im 13/f in 8th grade, too. and like i guess i can be pretty competitive.. like i like to play sports and talk to my friends at the same time, but i participate alot. well I've already accidentally kicked 2 kids in the shin in the timespan of like.. a month and one didnt play till the next day and the other got better and played the same period. and the teachers say its good to participate but maybe not be as competitive.. it makes me sad because im honest to god not doing it on purpose.. I guess I may not have too many soccer skills, like I'm bad at faking sometimes, and I always fall for it when other people fake.. but we dont have to be pros since its just gym and having fun outside.. but my main problem is this girl.. i used to be her friend and not anymore now, and like she always complains that im too competitive whenever i steal the ball from her.. and im like "hello, this happens in soccer!" she even said that soccer wasn't a physical game.. when it IS! like in a real game (i've done 3 seasons of rec) like I've like shoved this kid to get the ball.. well like i'd run into him with my shoulder.. and then i didnt really hard and got it away.. in gym to the girl i barely used any of my strength, and just did it to like knock her off so i could steal the ball and the girl complains to me yet again.. its so whiny and annoying.. my teacher even said to tell her to "Man up" haha.. but what should I say to her? i mean also once i accidentally kicked her in the shin too (no shin pads btw) and that happened a long time ago but she still brings it up that her foot kinda hurts, but she doesnt do anything about it but complain to me when i dont really want to hear it.. cause it was an accident and if it hurts that bad she should just go to the nurse. its hard.. i love soccer and other sports and it hard for me to just.. like not really care for what is going on and not do anything. i mean its good to be compettive but not TOO much right? the only people that really complained was that girl so what do I do in my situation? :(

Q: My ex-boyfriend and I were together for 2 years for what seemed like a love that would last forever. We broke up this summer. Ever since he hasn't shown any signs of liking me anymore, and as wierd as it sounds I've asked his if he still has any feelings for me and he says idk. I am still in love with him as i have figured out I always will be, part of my heart will always belong to him. I think about him ALL THE TIME! My friends all say well get back together and that he still loves me too. I'm not saying I want him to admit an unknown love to me or anything, I think I just want to know he didnt forget about what we had, or me... I guess I'm not sure of what i want. We still talk all the time just like we always have, but I don't know what to do. I love him... and I want him to be happy and if that means without me, so be it. Please help! I need him but cant have him!

Q: I'm 13 and yesterday I had the worst stomache cramp ever! I think it was because of my period but what can I do like when it happens again? What should I take? It make my stomache hurt really bad and I threw up. I was almost crying. So any help would be appreciated.

Q: whats the healthiest way to do dry your hair when you get out of the shower; without it frizzing?

Q: Okay so I'm 14f and I've been sad for like ever and now I really don't know what to do. I just sit at home all day doing nothing. Nobody ever calls my mom doesnt take me anywhere. And I'm just ready for something else. Do you know anything I can do when I'm just sitting at home and being useless and feeling dead. I just can't take this anymore. thanks in advance!!!

Q: my friend and i have been friends for a while now but when we came to the middle school a few years ago she found other friends (the popular girls) and now she doesnt hang with us or anything. we are so mad at eachother that we dont speak to one another. i just dont think we will ever be friends again. does anyone know how i should handle this or what i should do?

Q: UMM YEAH...
okay so my best friend is have some kind of problem,
she asked me the other day is it was posable for her to learn all the way from 4th grade work to 8th grade work if she worked really really hard ad studyed alot less then to years?

i dont know what to say soo is it??

Q: 14/f (Not Long)

I just met this guy in high school. We talk all the time in English class and thats about it. We have eachother on msn, and i do make an effort to talk to him but he only always has to go at that point. This conversation we had on msn today:

Me: What do we have for English hmwk?
Him: I dont know
Me: Didnt you copy it down?
Him: Nopee i didnt
Me: Okay, ill get it tomorrow
Him: Kayy byee
Me: Oh, are you leaving?
Him: Nope, i dont feel like talking anymore
Me: Ohhkay...bye...

He stayed on for about 10-15 minutes more. What did that mean? All answers are greatly appreciated.

Q: PLEASE READ (FACT: SORRY ITS LONG) i GIVE YOU 5
--Okay So pretty much all my friends ask me what do you want to be when you get older..
i always reply with a i dont know;;
thay already know what thay want to be
we are 14 15, i cant just pick anything (right?)
anyways i know what id like to be but people tell me diferent!
-1. i want to act nothing big like movie act like some one huge! just like someone off of newport harbor like that kinda of stuff or just be in a movie something good you know
-2. modeler or do there cloths like the hills tv show from mtv
-3. i cheerlead so id like to be come famous cheerleader something like that!
but alot of people say i cant do that!
thay say i cant be come and actor because i havent ever tooken acting classes and stuff like that' and thay say i cant be a modeler or do stuff like thay because i dont live in calfornia and california is where everyone becomes big!
and thay also say i cant be a big famous cheerleader when i know i can do that!
but what gets is what if i dont want to do that what if there right?is california where it happens me and my bestie want to move there when we get older and stuff like that!

and thing you can think of that might help please do! im dyeing over here and ill help back
just any advice would be great thanks for reading for those who did!

Q: do you like george bush?

Q: My boyfriend's ex has been so mean to me lately sayng they're going out and this one person told me I shouldn't believe her because she lies soo much and she is just jealous. My boyfriends mom also told me that shes bad news and that she's been giving them a hard time lately.

Well.

Apparently, so many people have told me today they were making out. So apparently he is cheating on me. I really liked this guy but I guess it was fake. What should I say to him? I'm really devastated...

Q: this is my family and my friends..
its like EVERYTHING i do is wrong. but like, i dont mean for it to be wrong? i lost my best friends (very close) but like what the f?



FRIENDS?

i always stood by him.. and then this girl he liked came up. and i told him i didnt think she was good news. we kept fighting everytime we talked. so i avoided talking to him because i hated fighting with him. :/? so then he says he misses me.. blahblahblah. so it was really stressful so i stoppped talking to everyone for a few days i didnt go on computer.. i kind of dissapeared. he was worried, he texted my cell called it like crazy. so i get on to tell him about something.. and then he was like "congratulations she screwed me over, you were right" and im like you actually think im happy that she f'ed you over? and you can guess how that ended.. massive fight. MASSIVE. in the end he was 'FK OFF' "im glad you left." "im glad youll stop coming on." "i'm glad youll be leaving." that was the most.. massivest and horriblest conversation i ever had with him.. now he hates me. :l ive known him since '05.


FAMILY

my parents dont live together.. i see my mom maybe 6 times a YEAR. i live with my dad.. i do everything i help around the house.. i clean up after dinner. just those things that arent important.. but need to be done.
so randomly if i forget to do something.. my dad just SCREAMS at me because i forgot.
my nephew left the door front door open.
and im upstairs doing my homework
and my dad literally SCREAMS at me 'WHY THE FK IS THE BLOODY DOOR OPEN?'
expecting me to know when I'M upstairs.
and hes downstairs about 2m away from the door.




everything i do with my family is wrong even though i try ALWAYS to make it right.. im like the mom because my mom doesnt live with us.. she refuses too. teen's usually go out and party. i havent gone to a party since ever. ive always been home. helping. i asked my mom to come back and help. and she refused, she made excuses.
so when i mess up once, just ONE single time. i get the lords shout over it. and now, ive gotten it so much. i get massive tears in my eyes. i feel like crying. i feel like dying. i feel suicidal.


i used to be strong.. but then everything in my life just fell apart.. i moved like 5 times in less then 2 years. my family split up. i lived with my mom. learnt a whole new language because i lived in a country that didnt speak english. i moved with my dad. i felt life without a mom. i felt life without my brother. i felt life without my dad. and no matter what. i dont feel like home.



am i fkd up?
whatsadfdtsafy
what do i do.
im seriously like dying here..

Q:
I feel like sometimes I'm losing my friends because we have over 1,000 people in our school so we like to experiment with new friends and see what suits us. My friends love me, but I wanna give them something to remember me by. I don't want them to think of me as sort of a quiet down to earth girl, I wanna say/do something that will make them wanna be best friends and have sleepovers every week and be BFFs. I don't want you saying "your friends won't leave you if they are really your friends" but thats really general. With 1,500 kids in the school, they might get bored of me and we could lose our friendship. I never know what to talk about in conversations and I can never think of something and I feel like I need to open up more and talk more and they will feel more comfortable around me. Sometimes I feel like they feel tense around me and I want them to feel like they can just talk to me. So are some good convo's you talk about with friends that are specific not just like songs and movies, and what are ways that will make my friends remember me and never want to leave me for another friend? Please help!!

Q: Ok there is this other guy i like, he is also in 8th grade and i just found out he is goin out with a 7th grade cheerleader. but idk what to do bc i like him and he liked me last year but i turned him down. :( and now i am startin to like him but idk if he still likes me. And i want to tell him how i feel but he has a gf now!!!! what should i do???
Thanks bunches!!!
XOXO

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