Question Posted Thursday September 27 2007, 4:31 pm
My boyfriend's ex has been so mean to me lately sayng they're going out and this one person told me I shouldn't believe her because she lies soo much and she is just jealous. My boyfriends mom also told me that shes bad news and that she's been giving them a hard time lately.
Well.
Apparently, so many people have told me today they were making out. So apparently he is cheating on me. I really liked this guy but I guess it was fake. What should I say to him? I'm really devastated...
TheTeenGirl answered Saturday September 29 2007, 6:17 am: I really hope that your boyfriend didn't cheat on you, but if you know this girl lies, then you should really tell your boyfriend how you feel.
Tell him that you've been getting a lot of the same stories from different people and it's upsetting you to hear and have no idea what to believe.
An idea that might work is if your boyfriend denies making out with this girl, he should tell her this to her face in front of you so that you will be able to see her reaction to this.
And the next time she confronts you or tells you another story, you should just say, "I really don't care, so leave me alone" and then walk away. If you really feel like they did do something, then maybe you are better off ending it. Just be careful, because you really don't know whose lying, just go with your gut.
xstarxbaby22 answered Friday September 28 2007, 7:41 pm: you have to options that i can see one is to sit them both down together and ask them out right if anything is going on between them,you should be able to see if one of them are hiding somthing,if he is not cheatin on you them ask him not to see his ex for a while tel him you dont trust her,or you can just dump him and find someone who isnt a cheat. [ xstarxbaby22's advice column | Ask xstarxbaby22 A Question ]
blackrose13 answered Friday September 28 2007, 6:14 pm: isnt this
elcee?
it says in the bottom on the site
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then it says that you have children etc.
then your questions are
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