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lately i have not been able to sleep and i have been waking up in the middle of the night..it never happens to me...my mom said it could be becasue i am worried a about somethine...but i told her i wasn't...the truth is i am...my dad past away when i was 13...ever since i have been very afraid to get close to anyone...and it been 3 years...aroudn christmas time i meet a guy named christian he is a few years younger than me..(14)...and he is my best friend..we tell each other everything...he keeps talking about how when he turns 16 he is running away...and he said i could come with...but i told him i would not go..iw ant to finish high school and go to college!!!!! i am afraid i am going to lose him..i think that si why i can't sleep at night!!!what should i do..please help! (link)
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wow babe that sucks im sorry you even have to be in that situation.
i think you firstly should talk to christian about this whole thing and see where he is in a year or so to see if he's still on the same page. you should also think about mayvbe seeing a counsler or a therapist or something and asking their advice because even though you asked it on this website we can only do so much, and we're not actually apart ofyour life to help you cope with it.
i hope you can figure things out, and it hink the only way youcan really do that is to talk to someone. good luck! and if you have any other questions leave one in my inbox
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im going to six flags/hurricane harbor on friday in chicago. its going to be hot out so im planning on wearing my swimming suit, but i was just wondering what to wear over that..i was thinking soffees? but idk, ive never been there before. also, do you wear flip flops or tennis shoes to a place like that? thanks in advance for everything! (link)
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no offense (even though you probably will take offense) but this is probably one of the stupidest questions i have ever heard. who the frig cares what you look like at 6 flags? its not a fashion show its an amusment park. think for yourself and please ask a real question on ehre next time instead of "should i wear flip flops or tennis shoes in chicago?"
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I'll start by describing myself as I have been described by people:
I write amazing songs on guitar. I'm the best actor in my high school's theater company. According to many I'm the smartest kid they know. According to a similar number I'm extremely attractive. They claim that I'm also one of the nicest, easiest-going and can hold stupid and intellectual conversations with anyone equally well.
Okay. I'm not an egotistical selfless son of a bitch. These are things people have said to me. Here's something that bothers me: I have never had a girlfriend. I've never even been on a real date. Ever. I came close a few times, but then one girl decided to tell me yes when she really meant she didn't like me that way, and then another got as far as telling me what to tell her dad when I came to pick her up, but then changes her mind an hour later, because. No real specific reason, end of two or three weeks of getting to know eachother and whatever.
I keep trying. I generally don't like to approach girls like that unless I make eye contact and float a smile across once or twice and have one returned. Everyone else says that works, and then you go talk to them. I can't even make eye contact.
So, am I just an unlikely kid who should shut up and stop bitching and moaning, or is there some insight anyone might have here? I'm inclined to believe the first one, really. (link)
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babe dont even worry. youre not the only one. even though im a girl, and apparently the only one on this page that is in the same situation as you (or something like it). im not sure how old you are so i cant relate to you, but still. you are just in the wrong place at the wrong time.
personally, i think school is a shitty place to meet people. my school is tiny and i know almost everyone and most of the guys are either horny beyond belief or my friends.
you just need to be patient and wait for the right girl because when you find her, you'll know it, and it'll be worth the wait. you sound like a cool dude so either try to find a girl somewhere else (restaraunt, party, bookstore, movie theater, concert, waterpark, etc).
and NO you shouldnt stop bitching and moaning because if you do then you will have given up all hope for the bitchers and moaners out there who also dont have dates!
ohh and i just saw at the heading that youre 16. alrighty then im 15...not much difference...and there is my little relation. i havent had a real boyfriend either except for this kid in 7th grade but really, does that count? we didnt even do anything.
anyway good luck to ya
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my eyes are weird. one of them is a little higher than the other and both of them are a little close together. my brother said that i wrong saying that was because i spend too much time on the computer (like 5+ hours w/o breaks). he says that too much computer time only causes nearsightedness/farsightedness/alter in 20/20 vision which i used to have. :( i have slightly worse eyesight now but dont wear contacts b/c of my horrible allergies. i dont like glasses. he says reading books/etc w/o much light does this. (link)
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it does.
wheres the question?
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Alright, well im 14 years old. And i've been with my girlfriend for awhile in which i extremely love, i've kissed her before, just little pecks on the lips and cheek, but what is the best way to have a long kiss with your girlfriend? Like, just kissing for awhile, is there a certain way that girls like guys to kiss?
Can't wait for an answer. :-)
Thanks. (link)
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touch your lips very softly to hers with your head tilted, and then press a little hareder and hold it.
then you can obviously let go and breath.
have fun!
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I'm a pretty girl, I'm not trying to be cocky but I'm proud of my looks. When I'm out hott guys check me out, wink, smile, or wave at me all the time. However, the only boyfriends I can get are losers. What do I do? (link)
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well for starters maybe you shouldn't go around with an air around yourself that you're hot shit. people can see that. especially guys. act yourself, act natural, and dont look in the mirror every 10 minutes. if you stop caring about what you look like, and concentrate on how you act towards those around you than you'll send out a better vibe and attract more decent guys. then again if you send out that decent vibe and attract a good guy, don't obssess about your looks to him or anything like that or he will think you're stuck up.
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me & my friend.
were 14. we act grown up, more then most girls are age.
we really wanna like makeout, at her party. like, i wanna make out with this guy, that likes me & i like him & my friend wansta makeout with her bf.
but we dont wanna have everyone be like, HELLO SLUT GET A ROOM. yano?
so what can we do/say to them? (link)
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Well it seems like you already think youre more grown up and more mature than other people your age so what does it matter if they think youre sluts? if theyre more immature than you it really shouldnt matter what they think and they can just suck it up. if they dont want to see it, they shouldnt watch.
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13/f .. This is my 8th grade year of cheerleading , but we don't have to try out to be on the team or anything , but I would like to make LaSalle Cheerleading, and you have to be required to do some flips and toe touches. I would like to know how to get a toe touch down , like a good one .. I got one year ... And would I look incrediably stupid if I decided to start gymnastics? I'm not flexiable at all && I can't even do a kartwheel. Thankss =) (link)
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not doing gymnastics and being the most unflexible person at tryouts would make you look even more stupid, so i'd just do it.
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isnt it possible to get toxic shock syndrom if u leave a tampon in for more than 6 hrs? and has any body heard of the Divacup and would u recomend it for menstral cycles? (link)
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well it depends on how heavy your flow is, but yes you should usually change your tampon every 6 hours. some people leav e it in for more, but i see no need for that, if you leave it in that long when you pull it out its going to look like a loofah! but if you do leave it in for longer than 7-8 hours yes you can get TSS and its pretty serious but if you realize that your tampons still in take it out as soon as you remember and you'll get better. and i have no idea what a Divacup is! sorry
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Well, every single day, i'm left all alone at my house. My mom goes to work, and my brother is at camp, and my other brother is in the army.
Since i cant get a job, and my friends can never hang out, i was wondering, what are some fun things that I can do while i'm alone. (link)
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when im home alone i usually watch tv, excersize, listen to music, check myspace, read a book, paint my nails, play with my pets, clean my room, take a shower and stuff like that. maybe if there are some things you're not allowed to do when other people are home you can do it when youre by yourself (blast music, eat junk food, etc). :)
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i am just wondering... do most people shave all down there or just their bakini line? because i am thinking about getting my bakini line done. do they just do right next to where your bakini line ends? does it hurt real bad? is it healthy?
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i just shave my bikini line, and trim. i dont feel i need to shave the whole thing because having pubic hair is part of being a woman, and when you shave the whole thing off it seems weird and prepubescent. and its not healthy but it isnt unhealthy either, its just something people do.
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out of opinion, would you say that 5'4'' was tall or short for a 15 year old girl?
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short
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i didnt know where to put this question but im going to wax my bikini line and what should i do to make it so it dosnt irritate me and if it does irritate me how do i get rid of it? (link)
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yea you can use creams like the person below said but it also helps if you put aloe vera or soothing strips on it.
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What exactly is a crash diet? I know they're bad for your body. Is it when you eat nothing at all? I'm thinking of going on one, for just a week..I know it's bad, but I am seriously desperate, and there's no way I'm going to stick my finger down my throat. What are some things I could eat that will help me lose weight? I know lots of water, fruit. What else? (link)
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yea crash dieting is what desperate people do to "loose weight". this is a very bad idea and you will not loose weight, you'll gain it. when you suddenly stop eating your body thinks its being starved and stores all the food you ate that day, or the day before, for fat. your metabolism slows down and everything just kind of stays where it is. so dont do that unless you want to gain weight.
as for food just eat organic things and cut out meat. eat vegetables, soy, protein, fruits, water, vegeburgers, etc. also just excersize a little more, it doesnt take much.
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Hi.
I want to go on a diet, but not a strict one. So I was wondering, if I drink nothing but water and eat KIND OF healthy, will I lose weight? When I say kind of healthy, I mean like no candy or junk food. (link)
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yea it would help. its not going to make you loose weight though, you could be the laziest person int he world but still eat healthy. you have to actually get up and excersize to loose weight. im not saing this to be discouraging, but it's true and if you have your heart into this than do some excersizing too and that will really help.
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i dont have many friends. i have one best friend and then my other best friend is my cousin. usually i just sit at home on the computer at night and i feel so geeky and like a loser because everyone is out partying and stuff i mean thats what your suppose to do when your 16 right?! so why arent i. my brother has a girlfriend (hes 18) and he always has people come over to our house to hang out and they probably always see me here and think wow she is a loser. i wish i could invite people over but there is nothing to do! i just dont know my brother only plays poker with them and stuff. plus i dont have like any guy friends! and my best friend has a ton and sometimes she wants me to hangout with them with her but then im always scared and make up an excuse because im shy and then i think it will be awkward. when i do go with her though its boring and i get mad because she always flirts with the guys even when she has a boyfriend and i feel left out and out of place. i just dont know what to do the summer if half way over and i want to live it up!! =) im leaving to go on vacation though next tuesday so then after that i want to have fun or even this weekend! im never invited to parties either is my friends really so thats not an option and its not an option to throw a party either. i use to be so busy when i was in 9th grade and now im a home-body! =( i never do anything anymore i just want to get out! even my parents are like go downstairs or something go out youve been in the house all day! i would but i never have anything to do. what do you guys think i could do to help this situation? ..i dont want to join a club or sport either its just not me! i just wish i had more close friend that i could go out with and have fun! i have other friends but they are always soo busy...
people say im so pretty but ive never had a boyfriend and im really not good with guys..i have no confidence around people i dont know!
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dont worry about it chicky, at least you have your best friend. thats all you need right now. you should do something to try to be more outgoing join something new, and if you dont like people at school join something OUT of school, maybe with your cousin like a dancing class or something, and then you can have the confidence with your friend and it'll prompt you to be more talkative and you could meet some cool people there (or cute guys). try to be positive about it, and who gives a shit about what other people think? just be who you are and try not to be as shy, and maybe you'll meet some new people.
good luck sweetie.
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Well, I had cancer when I was little. I was 3 and dignoised with Luekiema ((i know i spelled that wrong..) and the type I had was ALL. Very cureable. Well, Lately, I have been throwing up in my mouth, and bruising without hitting myself on anything. It's been happening for maybe 2 weeks? But what is confussing me is the doctor's said I had a 99.9% chance it won't come back. But I'm always at risk to get another kind. WHat I am expeiencing now sounds like the cancer I had. But well, I'm not sure if it's even cancer at all. Can you guys help me, is it cancer? Do I need to see a doctor? (link)
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i would see a doctor, because if it is, how you speak of it, it seems easy to cure. if its not, well its better to be safe than sorry. it couldnt hurt any and i would definitely go if i were you.
i hope its not though
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i dont have alot of money to go out n by new clothes n new jewely.im 13 n my mom doesnt give me money. does anyone have any fahsion tips for old things or makeing jewly?? Thanx (link)
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as for clothes i would just say to mix and match things, cut things up and try to make them look different, sew buttons and beads on them, just be original. see if you can find some antique jewlery from your grandma or something, even though its old people jewlery they can have some cool things sometimes. you can make your own jewlery just go to a thrift shop or something get different strings and all sorts of cool things just be creative and just try to work with what you got!
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Im am kendra and im 13 years old and i am on my period today. everytime im on my period i cramp and i don't tell my mom because she overreacts like when i was 10 and i first came on it she got so mad because i messed up my underwear!! im still cramping and as i type i cramp and cramp should i tell her or not (link)
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i would definitely tell your mom. she needs to know if youre in pain and should understand since shes a woman too, shes obviously had cramps when she had her period. just tell her its been bothering you and if maybe you could have some ibuprofen or something, just try to get her to understand it from your view and hopefully she will.
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I'm thirteen and my eyes are really small, and my lips are very big, which is not a good combination. Is there any way to make my eyes looks bigger and make my lips look smaller? (Without surgery please, haha) (link)
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hmm well if you wear makeup you could try showing off your eyes. wearing eyeliner, and mascara (dont forget to curl your eyelashes) will make your eyes seem bolder, and dont wear anything on your lips to bring the attention to your eyes and maybe that will even it out.
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