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i ♥ giving advise .. ANYKIND! so dont be afraid to ask me. i love this site and im on it all the time so your questions will get answered pretty quickly. Some things about me .. my name is candace and i live in georiga. I love hangin out with my friends and doing stupid stuff. My favorite color is green!! green rocks! my favorite places to shop at are 1) american eagle 2) abercrombie 3) hollister 4) aeropostale 5) old navy ... these are the places i shop at the most but i do go other places sometimes! my favorite animal is deffinatly a monkey! they are soo cool. i have monkeys all in my room (fake ones of course!). well if you want to know anyhting else, just ask!

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Ok well it all started when me and my friend ( chelsea ) was sitting at lunch and matchng people up with good couples she matched me up with this new boy michael in 8th grade ( im in 7th ) i didnt know who he was and when i did find out who he was I LIKED HIM .. ALOT .... and i found out he had a girlfriend in 6 grade but she was cheating on him so I told my friend to ask him out for me and to tell him his girlfriend was cheating on him ... he told my friend he didnt know who I was and he would ask his girlfriend about the cheating thing... so then after that, the next week or so ... my friends dared me to say hi to him and i was really scared but i managed to choke out a fast hay and then the next day ( today ) i got caught throwing food and i went to turn in my tray and he said haha you got caught throwing food and he just smiled and laughed ( i didnt care that he laughed @ me i was just happy he talked to me )then i told my friend to ask him out for me and she said he said he didnt know who I was ( but he really does because i wrote him a note and all saying I like him and blah blah blah ) ... and then today after school my friend said she talked to him and he said im OK looking ... but honestly i dont think he knows who I am because before that he said is she that short fat girl and my friend was all like no she is tall and skinny so he said Ohhh she is ok .... so does he like me r not my friend said he was flirting wid me when he said that thing about me getting caught throwing food signed ~!~ confused ~!~

i think that you should start talkin more before you go out. And dont get your friends to talk to him, do it yourself! i did that before (get my friends to ask him) and it just mad the guy mad. Guys like it more when you go up to them yourself instead of all of you friends. So my advise is to talk to him and then later on after yall talk for a little .. then ask him out if him and his girlfriend have broken up .. but if they still go out .. i think you should respect that and not ask him out until they break up. hope this helped you! let me know how things go!

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i like this guy and i think he likes me too, but he has a girlfriend .. what should i do?

i am in the same situation .. i think that you should talk to him and see how he feels!

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Okay so me and this kid have been going on again off again. We always end up breaking up beacause he obviously cant control his hormones,and i always end up taking him back. Well weve been split up for a while now and he wants to start dateing again. I know what could happen but i still like him. what should i do?

I dont think you should go back out with him because if yall have went out so many times and still break up, then i dont think it was meant to be. Hope this helped!

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(14/f)
The problem is I have this boyfriend, who i care about a lot.. but.. i think he im starting to not like him like that anymore.. there are some problems.. like he wont talk to me or anything!! hes like the shyest person in the world when hes around me and i hate it!! cause when hes with other people hes like crazy.. how can i make a break up... so we can still be friends or at least talk to eachother..??

i think you should tell him the truth. tell him you think yall would be better as friends and you want to see where things will go with yall as just firends. Hope this helped!

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Pfff.. I just realised how BORING my life is!!! I wake up at six, go to school, come back at 4, do homework, go on the computer, sleep. What a nice life eh??? NOT!! its just soooo boring! i have nothing better to do. Any ideas?

I was the same way last year, so my advise is to just maybe go outside when you have nothign else to do and play some sports with friends or something. You can also do some school activitys to take up time. Hope this helped!

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(14/f) Everyone thinks I make all my boyfriends up because they don't go to our school.. I don't understand why they'd talk such crap about me behind my back or why one of my 'friends' doesn't even believe me.. it makes me feel like they think I'm not pretty or nice enough to get one and so I have to make one up! Someone please help me.. what should I say?

when you are around yuor frineds, you should call your boyfriend and let them talk to him, and on weekends you and your boyyfriend could go to the movies while all your friends are there. But you dont have to prove anythign to them, if they dont believe you thats their problem! But i hope this helped you.

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My best friend and I got into a fight because she lied to me about why my boyfriend broke up with me. She actually told him she was in love with him and stuff like that.. since she KNEW he also liked her. And the reason she did that was to get him to break up with me.. all because of jealousy! Well.. she finally told me the truth.. AFTER she knew 2 other people told me. She thinks im mad at her for causing him to break up with me.. but im mad because she lied.. I tried to tell her that.. and she got really defensive and blocked me. Everytime i try to talk to her at school, she walks away from me.

She and I have been friends for a few years now. I hate for our friendship to end like hers and her other best friend's did. How can I talk to her? I tried appologizing and all she said was .. "Mhm Im sure you are". How can I make her realize we are both better off with each other?

first off, you dont need to appologize to her, you did nothing wrong. She should be appologizing to you. If she wont talk to you and always blocks you out, i dont think she is a true best friend. Maybe you should try to talk to her again and if she does the same thing, then just try to find some more friends to hang out wtih and maybe later on, she will come back and appologize adn things will be different. hope this helped!

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Ok, this boy and I have gotten to know each other pretty well over the internet. And just the other day he found out what I looked like. He had said I was pretty but I wasn't sure if he was just not trying to hurt my feelings. He says I'm not his type but when he told me what kind of girls he liked, it was exactly me. I'm not just saying this, it's VERY true. He can't really say I'm not his type because he hasn't gotten the chance to talk to me in person. By the interenet, he says my personality is awesome. He considers me a good friend. I hear that in school, he talks about me a lot. Saying I'm really cool and one of his friends. He trys to find out who my friends are in his classes so he can talk to them about me. I don't know what to do. I have only said hi to him once in person. When he sees me at school, he stares a little bit and starts talking about me to my friends. I don't know if he likes me and I just want to give everything time. I really need help. THANKS! I'll rate GREAT!

~ Stuck on Him ~

i would say talk to him. Im in the same situation sorta. me adn this boy used to go out adn when we broke up, we quit talking. And i still like him, and everytime he sees me he stares at me and he talks about me to friends sometimes. SO next time i see him, im gonna talk to him and see what he feels. I think you should do the same and talk to the guy in person and hang out with him some and see where things go. hope this helped!!

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hi...my name is anna. i like this guy who is a year older than me. hes really sweet, quiet, hillarious........and to my knoweledge hasnt have any-very many g/fs. everytime i see him i cant speak or anything. i saw him the other day and i ran. how stupid am i. I RAN!!! i couldve done anythingelse but no....i ran. i was wondering...like what do i do? i met some girls who sit with him at lunch. they know him so well. and i dont. im sooo jealous. i cant stand the madness of having a b/f but i think hes rite for me and im so clueless. thank you soooooooooooo much!

i think that it would be a good idea to talk to the guy. There is this guy that i used to go out with and we quit talkin when we broke up, and i still like him alot but im scared to talk to him. So im just gonna get up the courage and talk to him. I think you should do the same. Just get to know him some more. Hope this helped! lemme know how things go!

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I've started using a gothic appearence. (I dressed in black a lot and use dark black make-up on my eyes and either brown or red lipstick.) Nobody even understand why I'm doing it. I'm sort of doing it as an expirement. (Sorry if I spelled that wrong.)It freaks out my teachers, classmates call me a vampire, my boyfriend acts scared of me, and my parents don't like anything about my new look. All I've changed is how I look. I don't want to lose my friends just for the sake of looking gothic. But, if they can't accept how I want to look, are they real friends? What should I do? Advice please!

im a prep so i dont really know how you feel but they arent true friends if they cant accept you as you are. Talk to them and tell them that you want to dress like that and that they need to like you the way you are. hope it helped!

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I really like this kid and he says he likes me. We talk on the phone all the time and he says how much he likes me, and he always ends our conversations with, I love you. One problem, he has a girlfriend but he doesnt want to dump her because he doesnt want to hurt her. I really like him what should I do?

im in the same situation rihgt now. i like this guy and he says he likes me too but he has a girlfrined. just let him break up with her, but until then dont say i love you or anyhtinga nd when he says it to you be like "you have a girlfriend so please dont say that" .. hope this helped you!

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hey! awesome site!

I'm 13 and at my school there's this guy that i like and he likes me too.His friends and my friend have been snooping around him and asking him all these questions. He said that he WAS going to ask me out but hasn't yet. He acts really shy around me and when i try to talk to him he kinda says a few words and leaves.I can tell that he likes me but he's gone to Mexico for this week and the next! I need to know, what should i do! I like him A LOT and have known him since kindergarten! Help me PLEASE!

you should tell all your friends to leave him alone and stop pressuring him and maybe he will ask you out when he gets back. Just go up to him when he gets back and be like "i think your cool and i like you .. and i was just wondering if u liked me too" .. i was in that situation before .. all my friends were in our business so he didnt ask me out right away, but then we went on a tripa nd spent all day together and he asked me out at six flags that day. Hope this helps you out!

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Okay- Ready?
I am going to make like a powerPoint for my boyfriend!
Like with all of our pictures, and little things offline that say stuff like "I Love You" and things like that. We have been together over a year. Do you guys think that that would be cool? like with all of the memories and stuff??

:)

What do you think?
or anything else i could do to it to make it even more AWESOME!!

*-KeLs-*
Thanks!

that would be a great idea! thats so cute! you could also write under every picture what yal did that night ..((like where yall went and all)) hope this hlped!

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there is going to be a dress up day at school on s. patricks day and we have to wear a st. patricks day shirt i love good luck bear from the carebears selection does any one know where i can get a good luck bear shirt???

you should look online or go to the mall at pac-sun .. they had one there before!

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Ok well.. i know this is a really odd question.. but what do you wear under a skirt...?? like i dont know what to wear under them.. i have a bunch, but i never wear them because its like, i dont know what to wear under?! any help??

if your shirt has a low cut in it or a v neck .. then u wear a tank top under it that matches and looks right. but if its just like a t-shirt then you dont need anyhting under it!

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well lately my friend has totally been flirting with my boyfriend.She knows she does it but she just shrugs it off.I hate it!!like we will be walking in the halls together and she will come right between us and rather close to him i might add.i dont wanna ruin our friendship, but me and this guy really love each other.we've been together through thick and thin.Please help me and i hope this wasn't to long.

you should tell your friend that you dont like her flirting with youur boyfriend and if she is truely your friend then she will quit, and if she doesnt then she isnt a true friend. And you need to talk to your boyfriend about it too. hope this hlped you!

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couple of nights ago i had sex with one of my best friends we were really into the moment and we did it without a condom i pulled out way before i came and she orgasmed and the next mornin she started her period. i know im prolly being paranoid but i always hear theres a chance of a girl being pregnant even if the guy didnt cum so if anyone knows how high the chance of her being pregnant is please tell me thank you.

no worries as long as u didnt cum. hope u and her still stay friends.

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How do you avoid a person that likes you but you dont like them back, not even as a friend. But it feels awkward to be around this person! And he just keeps followin you around and asks you if you like him or not and when i say NO then he asks me again and again and he wont stop until he heres the answar he wants but i wont give it to him! NEED ADVICE!!!

u need to tell him you dont like him as a boyfriend, or even a friend and that he needs to leave you alone.and if that dont work ... do somethign meean to him and then he will be mad at you! lol. hope this helped u.

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Last night I was over at some friends house and I was the only girl and there was three boys (I'm 19) and we were drinking and they must have got drunk becasue they grabbed me and flung me onto the bed and started having sex and I didn't want to! Now this morning I won't stop bleeding! PLEASE HELP...oh my god I don't want this to happen to me I'M A GOOD GIRL!

You need to tell someone about this .. u ahve been raped. I have never been in this situation ebfore but i know that if you told them no and they did it anywways, you can sue. If you are still bleeding, you need to go to the E.R. or either to doctor. And dont go to those guys house no more, and if u decide to, i would take another girl friend with me! hope this hlped.

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My best friend in the entire world is going out with a guy that I liked..At one point in time I liked him and he liked me..but I never went out with him because my best friend liked him.. I dont know whether or not I should tell her this because, well they look really cute together, but the thing is, is that I think I still like him..
Clueless here..I dont know what to do..

If i was you, i would just let the guy go because my best friend means more to me than some guy, and i would think your best friend means the same to you. so would you rather have you best friend or a guy? i would choose my best friend. hope this helps you!

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