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me and my friend meet a few guys at an amusement park and my friend and the one guy hit it off right there... but his friend likes me and i dont like him like that i would rather be friends with him... and i'm crushing on someone else.. and i think that person feels the same way... what should i do? should i tell him that i like someone else and i think he's digging me too, should i tell him that i just want to be friends... i dont know.... can you help me?

oX'confused (link)
Be honest with him.Don't give him the wrong signs by making him wait.Tell him, that you like another guy, 'n that you would like to be friends.(in a very nice way)Hope I helped.Good Luck!
-tori


Could u plz give me some pick up lines 4 a good conversation.I mean whenever i speak 2 my bf we like dont know what to speak about.Plz advice.*Will rate if anser.* (link)
I don't think you should use pick-up lines.He's your boyfriend 'n I'm sure he'll love you no matter what you say.It's like saying " I have nothing to say to you, so I'm gonna use lame pick-up lines" hope I helped!Good luck~!
-tori


My mom and her boy friend Daniel really have a connection between them. Do you think they might want to get married someday? (link)
Yeah, sure, they might get married..if they truly love each other.You should ask them, or your mom.'N it can also depend on how long they're dating.Hope I hleped!*rate*
-tori


how do you rate other peoples columns? if you tell me and i understand it i will rate....5's!! xox Emily
((i just picked a random catergory)) (link)
You get an answer back 'n you're gonna see the #'s 1-5.You click one of them,'n you can also leave a little comment.(1 is worst,'n 5 is the best) *rate*
-tori


Well you see, me and my boyfriend will be going out for a month in 2 days. I like him and all but I don't feel anything anymore. He's away on vacation and my family might meet him there. Should I break the relationship off now or go out with him a little longer and see how I feel? *

(I will rate you!) (link)
I think you should break now, cause you're not being honest with him if you don't feel the same way for him as he does for you.But hey~ that's my opinion.Hope I helped, 'n I hope it works out!*rate*
-tori


i've been dating this guy for a little over 2 months now.... i like him so much... and i think i'm begining to fall in love with him... my dad HATES him... he's never done anything for my dad to not like him... my dad always said "i just want to see you happy" but ever since he found out about my boyfriend he's been really mean to him and it hurts me... i don't know how to get him to like him... my boyfriend means alot to me and it hurts me so much when my dad starts saying things about him... my boyfriend is really nice and he would never do anything to hurt me. i don't know why he doesn't like him!!!! HELP ME TO GET MY DAD TO LIKE HIM! (link)
You need to talk to your dad.Tell him it's really hurting you when he says things about your boyfriend.'N don't forget to ask him why he dislikes him so much.Then you'll know why he dislikes him.Hope I helped~Good luck!*rate*
-tori


OK i need sum advice! Theres this guy on mah street who i use to like n stuff.But at the time he didnt feel the same so i got over it.But now he likes me and he's kinda bugging me b/c now he likes me. I'm 13 and he's 14.And it sux cuz like whenever my older brother who is 15 has a guy friend come over the guy who likes me always starts talking to the guy n asking him who he's there to see! And im getting real pissed i dunno what i should do!! PLEASE help!!
(Alexia) (link)
I think you need to talk..to the both of them. 'N tell your brothers guy friend that he doesn't need to be so watchful.'N tell him that nothing is going on between you 'n that other guy.Good Luck!Hope I helped~!*rate*
-tori


If a person is 14, do u think their 2 young 2 have sex? (link)
Only if you think you're ready, don't just have sex cause everyone else is doing it.But in some ways...yeah, it is too young to have sex.Hope I helped!*rate*
-tori


im 13 and a girl and i want to do alot of things like make out with guys and maybe in a year or so have sex with a guy. but 1. im scared im a bad kisser. 2. i dont wanna get pregnant and 3. i havent found the right guy to do any thing with...what should i do? (link)
I don't think you should rush things.You find a guy when you find a guy.Everything comes in time.So be patient.'N if you're only 13, I wouldn't be thinking of having sex the next year.Make a wise choice about that.Hope I helped!
-tori


I like this guy, but that guy likes my sister.However, my sister doesn't like him, but she likes a different guy.But that that "different guy" likes me.It's a triangle! ahh!Please help me..what should I do?
*Confused* (link)
Okay, well, before I say anything...DO NOT RUIN YOUR RELATIONSHIP WITH YOUR SISTER!! A relationship with your sister is way more precious than a relationship with a guy.Do you like that "different guy"? If you do..then go for him.'N try to get the guy that likes your sister to understand that she doesn't like him, 'n that he has a better chance with you.Hope I helped!Good Luck!*rate*
-tori


hey i'm 15, female! There are these to guys...Tyler and Matt...and there both awesome...i've known the both for a long time...and i dated Matt for bout 2months and we broke up for the summer and then me and him made a promise that we would get back together when skool started...well i hadn't see Tyler since like a couple months ago and then i saw him bout a week ago and we have been hanging out alot lately and i told him bout me and Matt..and really i have to choose which one i wanna be w/...i mean there both great and they both give me wat i want....and my mom told me that i wasn't alound to see Tyler cuz his 17..well i'm almost 16 in Dec...and Matt's 15..and i'm older then him...but i was talking to Tyler last nite and i told him bout me and Matt and stuff and he told me that i had a lot of courge to tell him that and that i need to choose and that no matter my choose he will always still be there for me...and matt on the other hand i don't know how he'll act..i jst think he would be really pissed and probably would never talk to me again and i jst don't know wat to do or who to choose or how to decicided who i want!?? What should i do? plZe help A.S.A.P (link)
Try to go with Matt first,'n if it doesn't work out with him, then turn to Tyler.He said no matter who you choose he'd be by your side.Hope I helped!Good Luck!
-tori


i kind of like my friends ex boyfriend. i would never ever do anything wiht him but i felt that becasue she was my friend i shoudl eb honest wiht ehr and let her know how i feel. She freaked out adn started yelling at me adn even when i tried ot explain that i didnt want to liek him its jsut somehting oyu cant help and that i would even block him off my buddy list if she wanted me to she still was really amd or something. was she right to be mad? and should i have jsut kept it to myself and not told her? also is there anyhtign i cna do? (link)
No, it wasn't right for her to be mad at you.If he's her ex-boyfriend, then she shouldn't care if you like him or not.She should be over him.It's only showing you that she still has some feelings for him.'N no, I don't think you should have just kept it to yourself.You were just being honest with her, and there is NOTHING wrong with that.Just keep trying to talk to her 'n try to explain to her that there's really nothing wrong with liking him 'cause he's her ex-boyfriend.If she doesn't try to listen to you...then she's not being a very good friend.Good luck 'n hope I helped!*rate~!*
-tori


Hey i just got back from a vacation and i met this really great guy well anyways he was so cute and i never got his email or anything. i dont kno how to get over him any advice? should i try to find him with the info i kno or give up? (link)
Well, it depends on how much information you have to find his phone # or his e~mail.If you really like him, don't give up.Good luck 'n hope I helped!
-tori


I'm 13 and i'm havin a lil bit of guy trouble.Ok there is this really cute guy i know but we havent really seen much of eachother.Well the thing is when i was in 3rd grade i really liked him but then i moved when i was starting 4th so i never got to really talk to him again.Now it's summer '04 and im goin to start 8th.So one night i was stayin at my friend's house and he had told her to call well we were havin too much fun to call him so she gave me his sn and we started talkin to eachother online.It turns out that he liked me in 3rd grade also so he asked me out & i sed ok but then we broke up cuz we weren't sure if it was going to work out.But he always asks me how my love life is so the other day when i asked how his was he sed bad so i just went ahead and asked y is it....he answered cuz i broke up with you.is that really believable????He has also been talkin to one of my other friends and telling her that he likes me and everything but i don't know if he really does or not.I mean i kinda like him since we've been talking to eachother but does he really like me too?plz help. (link)
I would give him another chance.I think he really likes you.'N also, you're onlay 13, you have the rest of your life ahead of ya.There will be more guys than just him.Hope I helped!Good luck!
-tori


i like someone very much.but i moved from his school last year. i have his phone # but i dont know if i should call him beacause my bf thinks that he might of moved. what do i do??? (link)
Call him!! I mean, if it ends up being someone else other than him or his family members..then just say you dialed the wrong number or something.If you like him very much, then go for it!Good luck~!!
-tori


Hi I am a 16 year old female I have a boyfriend but in a way I think he might be cheating on me because one of his best friends will either call me or talk to me on the internet and tell me all kinds of stuff about my boyfriend and when I talk to my boyfriend about it he denies it all. And his friend is even telling my best friend about it all. My boyfriend and I have a long distance relationship and I'm not sure what to do. Should I break up with him or talk to him some more about what his friend is telling me? (link)
Personally, I think you should ask him again,'n if he denies it again...then I think you should drop him.If it happens to turn out that he wasn't doin all that crap, then try to apologize.If he doesn't forgive you, he doesn't deserve you.But hey~ who said life wasn't about takin chances?!?!So, I guess it's a chance you have to take.Good Luck!!
-tori


okay.. i love this guy.. hes perfect.. *like for me at least* hes the sweetest, hottest, funniest guy i know.. he makes me wanna be beautiful.. and well i dont really know if he likes me.. i mean we ALWAYS flirt and like yah.. so what should i do.. juss stand in the corner or tell him how i feel.. i mean i really do love him, hes perfect for me.. what is yer advice for me?
verry confused,
mwAhz1563 (link)
I think you should tell him how you feel, I don't think you should "stand in the corner" and watch. If you think you really love him, then go for it.Good Luck~!!
-Tori


ok i met this girl lets call her megan through one of my other friends while i was out of town well we started talkin on the phone and now i have noticed there is kinda a lil connection between us but i have never seen her but like she really likes me and like one of her friends called me up to tell me that she really aproved of me and megan going out and that megan really likes me which to me seems all ok but the thing that worries me is that she is a year younger then me (i am 15) and that all my friends don't really like her atleast the ones that know her they all think she is like a bitch and stuff but i hold my friends opions very close to me cause alot of the time when they tell me somethin it's trueand i may just not be able to see it so do i go with chioce A. meet her then ask her out B. just go ahead now and ask her out without ever seeing her or choice C.just forget about the whole thing

Gabe (link)
Gabe, you should just follow what your heart tells you to do. Okay, your friends may be right a lot of times, but that doesn't mean they're right ALL the time.So if you really like "Megan" then you go for it.Good luck~!!n I hope I helped.

-tori


Well me and my boyfriend have been goin out for 3 months starting tewday...and i have this problem with cutting ( my wrist ) and i havn*t told hym untill yesterday....and he got really mad at me and said i either have tew stop cutting or i have tew brake up with me cuz e doesnt wanna risk losing someone he really loves......but i think he is just running away from the problem.....wat dew u think he is doing (link)
I think he really cares about you..a lot.My friend's girlfriend cuts herself too, 'n he gave her that same choice 'n she chose to stop, so now they're still together. Hope I helped, 'n I hope you make the right choice.
-Tori


Should i let my friend come up my shirt..? hes always like bringing my boobs up.. were not goin out but we flirt a rly lot.. Hes always hinting.. He really wants to.. Shuld i let him!? plz help i have no idea wut to do
(( im 13 )) (link)
Okay, if you're 13, then I don't exactly think you're ready to go through that kinda stuff, but if you're ready, then that's your choice.If you want him to stop, then just tell him that you're uncomfortable with it, 'n that you wanna be a 'lil more older to be doing that.Hope I helped~!!!
-Tori




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