basically i joined a sixth form college a couple of weeks ago and for the first few days this guy would look and smile at me all the time, would always make an effort to speak with me and seemed geniunely interested in what i had to say, would jokingly tease me all the time and would constantly try and impress me, plus all his friends would always tease him when i was around. then afterwards he just seemed to pay less attention to me, and he suddenly became really shy whenver i tried to speak to him- he's started hanging out in the same group of people as me but i now have to make more of an effort to sepak to him as he is always with other people.
i really like this guy, but now im really unsure as to how he feels about me right now, how should i deal with this???
Well I Think Its CLEAR That He Likes You. Sometimes People feel Confident, And Then All Of A Sudden They break Down Into Shyness. Sometimes People Feel More COnfident Around Certain People. And Since He's Hanging Out With Your Crowd They May HAve Told Him That You Liked Him And Now He's Nervous :] Just Go Old School And Get One Of Your Friends To Ask Him If He Likes You :] You'll Be Surprised of How Effective It Still Is :] Hope I Helped :]
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I am in seventh grade I am going out with this girl that really likes me and I like her but alot of stuff has been going on and her friends make fun of me behind my back Say stuff to her about me and I have heard other stuff but. How do I break up with her!? Through a note or something? HELP!
you shouldnt break up with her!! are you trying to break up with her because of what people say?? thast so mean! You Shouldnt Be Worrying About Those Ass Holes if You Truly Liked her Youd Give It A Chance Instead Of Breaking Her Heart because of Stupid Talk!
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Every day's an argument with my boyfriend, and it's only on ONE topic: my really good friend who happens to be a guy as well. I think that makes him uncomfortable. We've talked about it before, this has been going on for weeks. I've tried to make him understand he's strictly my friend and nothing else, and that's it.
Example: I went out with my guy friend & a few other girl friends, and we saw a movie my boyfriend wanted to see with me. He spazzed the fuck out saying that I went against my word when I didnt promise anything. Everyday's a fight over my friend. I can't do it anymore but I'm not gonna drop my friend over this since they didn't do anything to me or him.
well he's jealous. this means he really really cares for you but he doesnt know how to express it. what you need to do is talk to him NOT ARGUE but talk. say "look,____ is my friend. i would NEVER think of him that way..i love you too much to ever do that to you" that would be really good to say. it'll help things work out. arguing doesn't do jack. you may not realize this but going along with the argument is making him think that you DO like ur friend. just calm it down and TALK it out. Hope I helped :]
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i ate like 3 or 4 fiber one bars today, i had one for breakfast, one for lunch, one when i got home and one after dinner, i never had them before and they were really good, haha.. whoops, i didn't see all the calories in them, but anyway, should i not have ate so many? because i got a really bad stomach ache.. just wondering if that linked it to my stomach ache.
haha FIBER!! FIBER makes you go poopy :] Thats Why Your Stomach Was Upset. Cut back To 3 A day though. They Help Your Digestive System And Is Good For Keeping Your System Clean. Therefor...Helping You Lose Weight. 2 in 1!! :] Hope I Helped :]
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and i'm not exaggerating, there's nothing there- i have hips, started my period, etc. and my chest is completely flat as of a 10-year-olds. im 110 lbs, almost 5'6, and i'm really starting to wonder if i will ever get them. is it possible i'll just stay flat-chested the rest of my life and have the chest of a man? as you can imagine i'm really starting to hate and feel completely self-conscious about my body, even though i wear padded bras, etc. i can't do that my entire life and i'm starting to be really really concerned because i've been waiting for them to grow for about 6 years now (some of my friends started developing as early as age 9.) now every single girl my age has them and as much as people tell me i'm "just a late bloomer" and i "still have time" well guess what? i have a woman's body (hips and all), but absolutely no chest what-so-ever. every. single. girl. i. have. ever. seen. or. met. has. boobs. my. age. not only that, but all other signs of puberty are there. so how can i accept myself like this or continue to wait it out? my mom started developing when she was in junior high, and i'm in TENTH, yes tenth grade. i can't even go swimming because guys and girls will plainly see my non-existant chest and it will be it's completely repulsive. please help if you have any advice at all i would really appreciate it :(
thank you
p.s.: (sorry if this is really long), and please don't give me answers if you're gunna say something like "you're only 15 stop being so god damn impatient", it's easy to say coming from someone who's not in my position, believe me. when you're surrounded by people who all have something you don't and are supposed to have, it's a bit destructive on your self esteem.
Well, I Can't Really Relate Cuz I Started That Shit When I Was 9. But My Sis Did!! She Didnt Get All That Shit Till She Was 16. Oh And Believe This, You Might Be Flat Chested Now but In A Few Months You Could Just Start Growin At once. And Plus. You Are never Just Gunna Have NO Boobs. SOMETHINg Will COme. No Doubt. Dont Worry You WILL Get Them. My Friend Was The Same Way!! It Was Funy As Hell To See Her Complain But The Next Year She Was Bigger Than Me XD
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a guy asked me if i wanted to try smoking with him and i said sure because i like him a lot. and so we were walking to his brother's apartement and he started making out with me really randomly,,he was going a little too far and i told him to stop. he got really mad and started yelling and then he walked away. wht am i supposed to do, i dont want to ruin our friendship!!!
okay if he did all that shit he's either not your friend or he had a major hormonal problem XD. what you need to do it try to talk to him. if he gets smart with you or doesnt wanna talk to you them leave him alone. you are better than that
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i bleached my hair about five weeks ago and i'm really sick of it. anyone who is experienced with hair or who has personally done this before, is it too early to dye it back dark?
Wait About Another Week. And A Color NOT To Dyw It Is Purple :] I Mean I LOOOVE Purple To Death But It Fades Horribly And Will Make Your Hair Look Like Shit Lol. But Yea, Wait About A Week And Then You Should Be In The Clear. Hope I Helped :]
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ok so last night i went to a party and i met this REALLY hot guy who is 17, after a while i drank a little bit too much and this morning he sent me a text saying that i was the best he ever had, need to do it again soon. and im pretty sure u know what im talking about when he said best i ever had, considering i woke up in his room...... what am i supposed to do????????????????????????? should i see him again??
Urm Hm..What You Need To Do First Is Go Get tested O.o I Think You Can Do This Wihtout Your Parents Knowing. Go To The Nurse And TAlk To Them About It At School. Second Of All. Yea Go See Him Again But If he Tries Anything Then Kick Him In The Nuts XD
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What does this quote by Benjamin Franklin mean?
"Without freedom of thought there can be no such thing as wisdom, and no such thing as public liberty without freedom of speech, which is the right of every man as far as by it he does not hurt or control the right of another; and this is the only check it outght to suffer, and the only bounds it ought to know."
I think I have a general idea, but just thought I'd double check.
Also, what are some controversial, memorable topics that this quote applies to? The more the topic stands out, the better. Specifics cases and stuff would be helpful, if possible.
Thanks!
OKay i think it measn : without the right to think how you want..you cant really be wise...for u cannot speak your MIND if you dont have the right to speak, which everyone has the right to do. and you should be able to speak and think how you want as long as it doesnt affect some one elses right to do the same. and im not too sure about the last part
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I like this guy at school, and he likes me, he asked me out at the start of the year like 2nd day of school and i said no because im not the most confident person around guys. I gues is how i would put it. He told me a couple of weeks ago he still has feelings for me and that he loves me. Then he asked me what i thought of him i told him i do like him to and yeh from then on we got closer. He is now my boyfriend. Im a shy kind of person and im happy to admit that but it gets the better of me. The other day after we said goodbye and hugged, he kissed me, i froze, and kind of stepped back. I didnt expect him to kiss me. the next night he asked me whether i think of him differently because of what happened but i dont. i love him just as much. But he asked me why i stepped back. i answered "i wasn't expecting it, i gues." he didnt mind. but since then we hug and stuff but we dont kiss. I Havent kissed any one ever before and it kinda freaks me out. He always askes me if we could kiss. I always say yes but i chicken out when it happens at the last minute. I dont know why. It gets really awkward. I want to kiss him but ive never kissed someone before and i just chicken out :( hellpppp...
I DID THE SAME THING!! the way i got over it is that when my bf tried to kiss me, i closed my eyes and just kinda charged my face at his lol. Or try to hold his hand first and when you guys get ready to kiss make sure you are holding his hand and then squeeze it really tight before you kiss him :] me and my boyfriends firts kiss happened this way n i kinda reccomend this also : we were just randomly saying "nyeh" and then we kept getting closer every time we did and then all of a sudden i kissed him and ran away XD try that :] hope i helped :] Good Luck!
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Could the flu affect when a woman's period comes...like delay it?
Yes. It Could Either Delay it or Extend it :/ If You Get Your Period During The Time You Have The Flu You Are most Likely To Have Your period For A longer Period of Time. Hope I Helped :]
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I know this isn't about sex but i didn't no what to put it under lol.
So I think Obama should have never became president
I think hi is an idiot.
So i want to know people who did vote for him why you did what were your reasons?
Cause if you think hes ganna pay for your bills and provide for you hes not.
I just wanna know everyones reason for why they voted for him or why you didn't vote for him.
Also a lot of people including me, Think he manly won cause he is black and i think if that is true witch i think it is i think thats wrong.
My resons are because I think racism is wrong and if people vote for him only because he's black just means your being racist. Now you might note be but your basing your decision on the color of his skin i and i think thats horriable.
I bet if he was a white man he would not of one or he wouldn't of one for the reasons he did.
PLEASE DO NOT TAKE THIS OVENSIVLY IM JUST SPREEDING MY OPINION ON WHAT I BELIEVIE AND I WANT TO KNOW WHAT PEOPLE BELIEVE OR THINK.
well personally obama isn't an idiot. would you rather mccain be in office?? and old man that falls asleep at meetings? someone who can never even remember their speeches? that old man can't do anything. he could barely talk haha. but u have your own opinion. but alot of people hate him because he's black they are making plans to kill him already. alot of people voted for mccain just because hes white and they didnt want a "negro" in office!! People voted for obama because they believed he could help us change. they believed that he could bring change and good to this country. NOBODY not even you knows what he's capable of. you do not know if he can actually change us. we just have to wait and see :]
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What's YOUR view on long distance relationships?
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It's Pretty Hard :/ I tried That And Its So Complicated. You Can't See That person Everyday, You Can Probably Only Talk To Them by Phone Or IM. You'll Just Be Longing To Meet Them One Day..And They Could Have A Gf/Bf In Their State Along With You! They Could Be Lying To You And Just be Incredible Liars!
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I am a 15 year old female, and I am on a diet. I just started a couple days ago. My goal is to loose 50 pounds in a year. I was wondering what are some exercises that will be easy for me since i am now back to school. I am usually really tired and don't want to do anything. I get home at about 5:30
ALSO by loosing 50 will it get rid of love handles?
First Of All, Drink Lots of Water. Second, Basic Jumping Jacks And Crunches Do ALOT! Here Are A Small List Of Good Exercises That Will Help:
Jumping Jacks
Crunches
JOGGING IN PLACE!! (This Way You Wont Have To Go Running Off Somewhere)
Lunges (if u dont know look it up lol)
Line Jumps
Good Stretches:
Calves
Ham Strings(back of thighs)
Deltoids (back and front of your inner shoulder)
groin (inner thighs)
Hollywoods (back and glutes)
Hope I Helped :]
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sorry for the longness.
okay so theres this guy in my school, and hes a grade higher than me. i've liked him since i met him last year. he's pretty popular but doesnt show it, (isnt cocky) , and i REALLY like him but i feel like im way out of his league ?! or hes way out of my league? which ever way it goes. hes a really good friend, and i cant tell if he likes me or not. and since hes in a grade higher i dont get to see all the time now, and we dont get to talk to much anymore since hes busy, but i have a hugeeeee crush on him, well its more than a crush,
but i dont want to tell him i like him, cause its kind of embarrassing, and i feel like it would wreck our friendship . what should i do ?!
thanks in advance.!
btw im almost 16 but very mature for my age.
Well First, Ask Him To Hang out Often. Then During Those Hangout Sessions Start Acting A Bit Cutesy And FLirty But Not Flirty Flirty, Subtle Flirty :] Its So Easy To Do. You Do It When You Act Shy Around A Guy All The Time. You Start Kinda COvering Your Face And Laughing Hi Pitched And Changing Your Voice :D Happens All The Time. Just Start Doing That When Your Hangin OUt And He'll Gradually Show Whether He's Into You Or Not. Or Just Txt Him One Day And Say "Just A Question: Would U ever Date Me?" Or Somethin Like That :] Hope I Helped :]
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so i have this friend, who is kinda wierd at times, but i luv her anyways, and she always texts me, and invites me place, sometimes a lil too much. Then she became friends with this other girl , who im sorta friends with, and is OBSESSED with her, and wont leave her alone, and is being all cliquie and annoying with her. And having all these plans and stuff without me. And then when i try and be a little rude to her shes like "why r u in such a bad mood?" which is not at all what i want her to think. SO how do i either break them up or join in?
and please dont say "if she was really your friend she wouldnt do this."
Ooo I Have A Friend That Was The Exact Same :/ What I Did Was Frequently Call And Hang Up, Pretend Something Was Wrong, Start Ignoring Her When She Walks By Me And Things Like That. It Actually Started Working After A Couple Days She Started To Come Around. Oh And Another Thing, Get Another Friend And Just Like Invite Her Everywhere And Talk About Her And All That Stuff. Your friend Will Start To Get Jealous Lol. Or All Of A Sudden One Day Just Run And Jump On Her Back And Shout "I LOVE YOU!!!" Lol :]
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I really want snakebite piercings (the lip peircing on both sides of your bottom lip). The problem is, I'm worried about how much it will hurt. I do have my ears, nose and belly button pierced, so it's not like I'm a piercing virgin. How is the pain compared to getting your nose/belly pierced? Is there anything I can do to make it less painful or maybe even afterwards, like tylenol to help? Also, how do you brush your teeth afterwards, like the bottom? Thanks!
Okay Your In Luck Because I Just Pierced My Lip Yesterday. Just Get Some Ice And Put It On Like A Millimeter Away From your Bottom Lip. Keep It There For Ehhh..Five Minutes. I'm Too Shy About Pain So I Didn't Keep It On Any Longer Than That. Itll Feel Wierd Tho. Put The Needle On The Place you Want It Pierced And Shove It Through. I Felt SOMETHING But Honestly I Didn't Even Know It Went Through XD Put Ur Finger At The Other End SO It Won't Hurt When The Needle Penetrates The Last Layer of Skin. :] It Doesn't Really Hurt Much If At All!! I Pierced My Nose Also And Piercing your Nose Hurts Worse :D and What you Need To Do Is Put Small Studs In There At First. The Skin Needs To Heal Before You Put An Actual Lip Ring In. It'll Be Easier To brush your Teeth With The Studs In Anyway. Hope I Helped :]
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19femaleee.
i met this girl in may, through a school even that we had. she was really nice and we got along great! well i hadnt seen her for awhile and then recently she texted me and then we ended up hanging out, just us for the first time. it was sorta awkward though, we ran out of things to talk about. i asked her about everything! and then she just asked the same questions back. we're suppose to hangout again on saturday, im looking forward to it but i dont want it to be a silent night, with both of us staring at each other ahah. we're thinking about dinner, movie or bowling. all would be fun i think! i just dont know what else too talk about though!! i feel like i just ask her about the gossip going around her school lol and it might get kind of old. any ideas?
Just Talk About Random Crap. A Good Thing Would Be To Talk About Something You Saw On TV That Usually Generates Other Conversations :] Compliment Her On Her Clothing. Like "Those Are Awesome Shoes" Or Something. Even If You DOn't Go To The Same Schools Or Whatever You SHould Gossip About Whats Going On In Yours :] Like "Theres This Guy Named...He's Sooo Frikkin Ugly Oh My God.....!!" Yea Things Like That. She May Not Know Who Ur Talking About But It'l Still Be Entertaining. Conversations About Clothes And Things Like That Always Last A While :]. Hope I Helped :]
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sorry iv asked a lot of questions bout this girl but i want things to work out. so like we have established that we like eachother in texts but how come in person she doesnt act like it at all? like is it because im like not out yet or something?
PS im a girll
Okay This Is Actually Pretty Simple. If She Likes You Like She Claims She Could Just Be Nervous In Person. Im Like That With My Bf Sometimes :] We'll Have This Real Passionate Type Conversation Over Txts And The Truth Is Were Both Kinda Shy/Embarassed About It The Next Day :] That's Probably All It Is. SOmetimes Me N Him Actually Dont Even Say ANything To Eachother Cuz We Think We'll Sound STupid >.< But Don't Worry :] Just Talk To Her About It And Take What I Said Into Consideration Lol. Hope I Helped :]
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Female 15, Softmor in High school. Seth (my best friend/crush) is 18, Senior in High school. We live in USA, VA.
Me and Seth have been besties for 2 years now. My crush on him makes me wonder if it'd ever work out, when were out & about together people always say that we look like a couple. He doesn't know I like him, yet. I know there might be issues like: Maturity, Age/legal stuff, ect. But we are so close... I can't help but wonder, a few people say the odds are I've fallen in love. Not only that, his younger sister Lily keeps telling me that we look like a married couple >.< and of course he always responds with a half-smile on his face. Does that mean he likes me back?? So, my two questions are: 'Does he like me?' and 'Would we even last?'
Thanks ahead of time, I'm grateful for it. -Gabriella
Psh You Better Get That Lol. Well What I'm Saying Is That I'm A Huge Hopeless Romantic Haha. I'm Always Dreaming Of The One I Will Be With Forever And He Just So happened To Be My Best Friend. And He Admitted After A While That He Also Liked Me :] So We Are Dating Now. I Say Don't Wait For Your Friend To Make The Move..Make The Move Yourself :] If He Smiles At What His Little Sister Says, He Might Not Even Be Knowing He's Smiling He Could Just've Started All Of A Sudden Because He LIKES The Fact That She Thinks That :] I'm Pretty Sure he Wants TO Be With You, Love. You Just Have To Make The Move :] Hope I Helped :]
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