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worst friend ever
so i have this friend, who is kinda wierd at times, but i luv her anyways, and she always texts me, and invites me place, sometimes a lil too much. Then she became friends with this other girl , who im sorta friends with, and is OBSESSED with her, and wont leave her alone, and is being all cliquie and annoying with her. And having all these plans and stuff without me. And then when i try and be a little rude to her shes like "why r u in such a bad mood?" which is not at all what i want her to think. SO how do i either break them up or join in?
and please dont say "if she was really your friend she wouldnt do this."
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Ooo I Have A Friend That Was The Exact Same :/ What I Did Was Frequently Call And Hang Up, Pretend Something Was Wrong, Start Ignoring Her When She Walks By Me And Things Like That. It Actually Started Working After A Couple Days She Started To Come Around. Oh And Another Thing, Get Another Friend And Just Like Invite Her Everywhere And Talk About Her And All That Stuff. Your friend Will Start To Get Jealous Lol. Or All Of A Sudden One Day Just Run And Jump On Her Back And Shout "I LOVE YOU!!!" Lol :]
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Well shes you best friend you dont want to break things up unless she starts being rude and mean and just well a bitch but i dont think shes at that point so just try to fit in make plans so all three of you can hang out stay closer to ur bestfriend and be the first one to start the convo and have them join in and when they make plans first ask if you can join in or just tell your friend how you feel leftout and how you feel its kinda unfair because you two were always hanging out and now your kinda being thrown to the side im sure she will understand :)
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If you try to "break them up." you'll wind up friendless. It will backfire on you in ways you couldn't begin to realize. If your friend is being clingy and an all out pain in the ass to the other girl that person and she alone needs to address the matter.
Don't get involved as it's not your place and will end in them dumping you. As far as getting included goes invite them both somewhere or in a group and go from there. You can also say to your friend "Let me know next time you're going out with X. I wouldn't mind coming."
Your friend still likes you but right now has found somebody new. The novelty will wear off and I'm sure things will go back to normal if this girl can't take her always in your face style. You could also be blunt and tell her you feel discarded. Maybe that's the only way she'll realize that.
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