Question Posted Saturday September 19 2009, 1:20 am
14-f
ok so last night i went to a party and i met this REALLY hot guy who is 17, after a while i drank a little bit too much and this morning he sent me a text saying that i was the best he ever had, need to do it again soon. and im pretty sure u know what im talking about when he said best i ever had, considering i woke up in his room...... what am i supposed to do????????????????????????? should i see him again??
CrazyStylist answered Saturday September 19 2009, 6:20 pm: If you want to see him again, go for it. Just know that he doesn't care if you are passed out or in a blackout. He probably prefers it.
Makes it easy for him.
So if being some boys easy mark is something you enjoy, sure... jump right on that. [ CrazyStylist's advice column | Ask CrazyStylist A Question ]
xosodapopx3 answered Saturday September 19 2009, 4:56 pm: Okay sweety you are only 14!!! you should not be drinking alcohol, especially as much as you do. Its extremely dangerous! This guy is 3 years older than you, and probably doesnt care about your needs or feelings, all he knows is that you give him what he wants and he wants more. You should really stop partying with alcohol, and get tested. You could be pregnant and/or have an std. You dont know this kid, he could be infected and so can you. Please talk to your parent/guardian about this, its a serious matter. You are so young, you dont need to be partying like this and getting wasted. Please talk to someone you trust (an adult.) This needs to stop. [ xosodapopx3's advice column | Ask xosodapopx3 A Question ]
TheRandomJuggalette answered Saturday September 19 2009, 12:51 pm: Urm Hm..What You Need To Do First Is Go Get tested O.o I Think You Can Do This Wihtout Your Parents Knowing. Go To The Nurse And TAlk To Them About It At School. Second Of All. Yea Go See Him Again But If he Tries Anything Then Kick Him In The Nuts XD [ TheRandomJuggalette's advice column | Ask TheRandomJuggalette A Question ]
christina answered Saturday September 19 2009, 7:44 am: Hmmm.. 14, drinking, and having sex...?
No. You should not see him again. You shouldn't be drinking or having sex. A 17 year old boy shouldn't even be touching you. The sex may not have even been consensual because you were drunk & obviously don't remember.
Go get yourself tested for STD's, AIDS & pregnancy. Who knows if he protected himself. Stop drinking, stop going to parties, and stop having sex. You're way too young to be doing any of that. Have slumber parties with your girlfriends. Christ. [ christina's advice column | Ask christina A Question ]
Roxy07 answered Saturday September 19 2009, 6:56 am: I would say not.. it's disgusting that your having sex at 14. You have barely grown up!
sia answered Saturday September 19 2009, 5:55 am: let me get this straight, your 14 you got drunk and had sex with some guy :S i dont judge you but your alittle too young to be having sex.Im only saying it for your sake.looking out for you. i mean imagine you got pregnant are you mature and old enough to be put in that position??your not legal yet and he could get in alot of trouble for sleeping with a minor!just looking out for you thats all [ sia's advice column | Ask sia A Question ]
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