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HEY!! U can call me Nikki Im from that little water state. Im fifteen and a sophmore. I can connect with most teens and their problems but also i think older people need to be open to advice from younger minds as well..so give us a chance. =] I like helping people and giving advice is the one the best ways to help. Ask me anything, i may not always have an answer but ill try. I put in thought and time on the question being asked, something id like people to also do for me. So tell me little pieces of your life and ill see if i can try and put them back together. ;]
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my friends 16th birthday is coming up and my family is going to las vegas my brother and dad are going for the SEMA car show.. aand my mom and I arent going to that show so we thought that i should bring my best friend as her sweet 16 present from me and stuff.. do you think thats a good idea??
if so how can i find out if she would want to go without her being suspiscious of it being her present.. ???
First thing to do is ask her parents. Dont bother getting her excited and her parents saying no. If you dont want to ask her parents, have your mom call and ask. If they say yes, then heres the plan. While talking to your friend, bring up the idea of you going, dont tell her that your family is definitely going, say that you guys want to go. Be happy and excited about the "idea" and then say Oh wouldn't be so cool if me and u went. Dont mention birthday. Then talk about things you guys could do in las vegas and she'll be happy and what not. If she agrees and says yeah that would be, then thats how you know she would like to go. Besides, who wouldn't want to go to las vegas with their Best Friend. and your a great friend for inviting her. hope she can go. good luck -ask me if you got any more questions.
my best friend max told me a huge secret about himself a long time ago and i swore not to tell anyone. i messed up big time by telling steven because steven has a big mouth sometimes. a few days ago i was talking to max and i told him that i really dont like steven because hes annoying me a lot. then max told steven that i think hes "gross". he was just kidding of course but what if steven gets mad and decides to tell max the secret i told him a long time ago as like payback or something. that would guarantee max hating me forever. what do i do? help!!
Tell max that it was just a slip up. Everyone messes up, tell him that you understand if he ignores you for a while, but if hes really you friend than he shouldn't hate you and stop talk to him forever. I'll say it was wrong of you to tell steven, i mean at least tell someone who isnt a big mouth. But everyone does it, well I do. Sometimes you just cant help your self and sometimes you dont realize you even told. Just remember that max is supposed to be your friend, so just apologize, explain and you should be fine. If he doesn't talk to you for a while, give him some time, then start talking to him again and he'll get past it. Ask me, if you have any more questions. :)
okay, so there is this guy that of my friends were talking about and he seemed really nice.. and they were like omg you and him would go good together and they said he would deff. like me...
...so i was talking to other people about him and i found out he is my ex's neighbor and they hang out a lot and my ex told him stuff about me (they said it was good stuff that he told him but idk)
and everyone is saying that him and i would make a great couple and everything but...we've nvr met sooo...
do i try to hang out with him and get to kno him or do i just forget about him?
---he's the same age as me but he's not going to my school next year---
thanks!!!
You, some friends, him, and some of his friends should hang out. Not just you and him though, because that would be taking it too fast, because you dont even know him. You might like him, he might like you, and if you do go out then you can make it work somehow even though you wont go to the same school. Getting to know him isn't a bad choice, you guys might end up being really good friends instead.
Ask me if you have ne more questions.
My boyfriend and I have lost the passion in our relationship. We both are trying to get it back by becoming more "friend like" and holding off on everything physical. Do you think that will work? What else can we do?
Start off like how it was in the beginning. Friends, then friends who flirt. Do fun things together. Go on adventures even if its an adventure right down the street, because the two of you can make it an adventure. Make him see what he likes about you on the inside and besides just the outside. and Show him the same. Then you guys can go at your own paste and bring back the more romantic things, even the simplest things like dinner and a movie, renting a movie and watching it on the couch together. Just have a good time.
there's this boy he's like way older than me but i consider him as a bro he really isnt tho. everytime i c him i give him hugs.every single girl in my school likes him. when i give him hugs and talk 2 him they get mad. everytime he sees me he gives me huggs or calls my name. idk if i like him or consider him as bro wat yah think
He could be a really good friend. (like a bro) Or you can be like every other girl and like him. If he likes you back then okay, maybe you guys can date. If he doesn't than that might make one of you two or both feel awkward. Give it time and you'll realize if you like him as more than that. Just remember that even friends flirt, and it doesn't necesarily mean anything.
so, my best friend, can treat me like DIRT.
i mean horrible. she's just sooo rude! what do i do? i mean i love her so much, and shes amazing. but when shes rude i dont know what to do! i just take it. beucase i NEVER want to loose her. i NEED HELP!
15fem.
Tell her straight up, when she is rude. Be like that was rude and your being rude right now. Some people just dont know when they are being rude, annoying, or etc. Or your friend may be moody and just takes it out on you. People say people take their frustrations out on the people that care for them. Dont stop being her friend, talk to her about it.
I am 13 years of age. I have been put in a situation where I could have sex. I really like the guy and I think he likes me. I am not sure if I should have sex with him or not. I really want to. I need advice. HELPPP!!
Nope. What happens if you get pregnant? You shouldnt take that risk until you know you can. If your ready and willing to then I guess no one can stop you, but you dont want to do this and then have everyone know and think bad things about you. So think it through, and make sure this guy likes you, but overall I say no, your too young.
I was born with a born disorder that makes me underweight. With the help of medicine that my doctor gives me, I weigh 110 pounds at 5'10".
I want to know..would girls think that I am ugly? Please be honest.
Thank you.
It depends on the girl. And just because you are skinny doesnt mean you are ugly, you could be really hott. Some girls like skinny guys. Some girls dont. Just be happy that there is a lot out of a lot of girls that would like you, if you understood that. Lol.
i know we all hate these questions but...
ive had my period for 5 years and hit my growth spurt and everthing, but im still only a 32A. it sucks. my mom is a bigger B cup so i heard youre usually around your moms size? i know they say you dont stop growing until youre like 18 but i only have a little over a year till then and it seems like i would have grown by now?
please dont give me the "just love your body and be happy" crap i just really want to know what my chances of still growing are.
There's still a good chance of you growing. There's a small chance of just staying the same, but i doubt that. Growing large... probably not. Give it time.
I'm friends with this guy. He called me and texted me for hours with one of his guy friends. I put my phone on silent and was trying to sleep. I woke up a few times to check it my phone and noticed that there were 15+ text messages and calls. I had two voicemails. Both were screaming and cursing at me for not picking up my cell phone because they wanted to make plans. Basically my phone was flooded with them. I can understand he was upset that I wasn't answering, but to yell and curse? I'm a female. I'm not one of his "guy buddies" and no one deserves that. This isn't the first time it happened but he swears he was drunk. Should I just end the friendship? Or is it worth another chance? Thanks!
You should keep being his friend, but if he does that too often than no. Tell him next time he calls late that you are trying to get some sleep and you'll talk to him later. It seems like maybe he might like you and when you dont answer he gets upset because he wants to see you. Or he's a drunk cornball who just said the wrong things and didnt mean it. Definitely worth another chance though.
well ive been with my girl for 2 1/2 months and she just told she loves her ex what should i do wait or dump her straight???
Dump her. If she loves her ex and not you then why be with her. If she loves both of you that is a risk of being with her too, because what if she cheats. You can have her pick over you or her ex. If she only loves him than I say end it because theres no point in wasting your time with someone who doesn't love you and theres plenty of people out there who may be waiting for a person like you to come into their life. You should also consider just a break from eachother to give her time and space to think it over and you can think about somethings in the mean time too (other girls). Good luck with that. Use your head and your heart. Feel free to ask me ne more questions. -peachy
all the boys here is a 34A in boob size big for you in a 14 year old girl thanks a lot.
xxx
34 double A .. no way is that big. Thats small. I would say normal size is 36B. So your kinda far from that. Give it time.
im a 17 year old female and im dating this girl and i really liked her .. i have for a long time.. i asked her out twice but ashe turned me down.. now she asked me out na di said yes.. it has been two weeks sice we started dating but i hate talkin on the phone with her.. caus eit gets so boring you know.. but i love hanging with her and holding her im my arms.. why do i get bored on the phone?
Your conversation could just suck and its boring or your conversation is fine but you cant stop thinking about seeing her again and holding her in your arms.
I am a 13 year old girl who is 150 pounds and 5'7. I know I am of normal weight, but I have a stomach I would like to get rid of. I'm trying to lose 15 pounds and I heard not eating bread rice and pasta will help you loose belly fat? Is that true? What foods can help you loose belly fat? What exercizes can I do *besides crunches* to lose my muffin top? How long and often should I do these exercises
Definitely exercise. Crunches definitely. You should try stretching and doesnt matter what part of your body. Its simple. I would say instead of timing yourself on the crunches set yourself a number that you think you can do in a day. Wether it be all at once or at seperate times. I reccomend breaking up that number like 500, then you do 100 every 3 hrs. for example. Then you'll have 8hrs to do those 500. Set something up like that. Eat healthy. and Lightly. Instead of 3 meals have 6 but make them light meals. I'm eating lightly right now and its made a difference. Have cottage cheese. You can have it with fruit, as a dip, in a sandich, you can do many things with it. Tuna is healthy too. I eat half tuna and half cottage cheese sandwiches. All you can taste is the tuna. And if you dont like tuna (which I dont) juss suck it up cause its worth it. Ne more questions just ask me. -peachy
okay im 5'8 and i weigh 150 pounds. i want to lose at least 10 pounds this summer. would it be healthy to lose 10 pounds in 2 months? to have a good body, what should be weight be? please dont tell me 150 is fine because its not for me and i need to lose weight...so yeah. so is 10 pounds a good goal for 2 months?
I would say to lose about 15 but 10 is good too. You can lose that in under two months by the way. I think you can lose that weight in 1 month. As long as you lose the weight the healthy way then yes losing the weight will be healthy. Ne more questions you know who to ask. -peachy
On AIM, how do you "link" your screen names (I think thats the term...not sure though)
I have the 6.1 version on IM, so I'm not sure how your supposed to make it so that you link them
Linking IMs means being able to be on two of your IMS at once...
So how do you do this on the new AIM
sign on. go to edit at the top. then press settings. then wen settings come up it should go to the buddylist tab but if not press buddy list. and at the bottom it was say manage linked sns.
14/f
how much sleep should i get?
and could stress be causing me not to be able to sleep??
thanx in advance
Teens dont need that much sleep but its best with it. You should get 8 hrs of sleep but most teens get 5/6 hrs. That should be good, but then again it depends on you. Stress could be causing you not to sleep, but also eating. If you snack late at night or drink soda then you'll have a hard time falling asleep. So eat right, relax, and if that doesn't work try some herbal teas that help you fall asleep like Sleepytime. Or get sounds that are soothing to you. Or try drinking a glass of hott milk before bed. Hope I helped.
ok so i have this pool party im going to on wednesday, and well i might get my period then. now like i have never ever ever used a tampon before. so im like reallly really really really really nervous and scared. i have been to tampax online and read how to use one but im still really confused. like im confused on where i put it in? and it says you have to like slant it or put it on an angle...but like does it face my butt or my stomach? how far do i push it in? how do i know if its in right? if its not in right and i go swimming will this have some problem? so just clarify on where i put it in and stuff. im just really confsued. thanks!
Well let me start off by saying ASK MOM.
But I'll explain any way. Take it out the package, obviously. Then make sure you dont push it while its in your hand. Then umm squat. Theres only going to be two holes, the right one and the wrong one. The wrong one being your butt. lol So put it up the right one. Basically just push hard. If you go slow then its probably going to hurt since its the first time, so make it quick. Like a quick hard shove. When it feels like a pencil just went through a piece of paper then you got it and you'll understand what i mean when you do it. Then push the bottom of the tampon that is supposed to be pushed and then your done. Then pants up and stuff, close the toilet seat and sit. If it hurts then you dont got it in right. If it dont then your finished. Good Luck, and just relax like dont be tense and nervous.
I was wondering how old you have to be to work at a tanning salon?
Anyone know??
Theres different ages for different tanning salons. I would think 18 and older. Some may be 16 and older though. Ask the specific place.
Help me! My mom is too overprotective! She told me that I can't get a boyfriend until I'm OUT OF COLLEGE! How do I tell her that I would be WAY TOO OLD by the time I'm out of college to get a bf?
Well it depends how old you are now. If your like 15 and under then your mom is going to say that. Obviously she cant control if you date or not because you'll an adult at 18. And even before you reach adulthood, how could she stop you, the most she can do is ground you, but I think you can date whenever you want. But just remember that your mom feels like shes just trying to protect you, so take her advice sometimes even when its not about this.