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Friends
I'm friends with this guy. He called me and texted me for hours with one of his guy friends. I put my phone on silent and was trying to sleep. I woke up a few times to check it my phone and noticed that there were 15+ text messages and calls. I had two voicemails. Both were screaming and cursing at me for not picking up my cell phone because they wanted to make plans. Basically my phone was flooded with them. I can understand he was upset that I wasn't answering, but to yell and curse? I'm a female. I'm not one of his "guy buddies" and no one deserves that. This isn't the first time it happened but he swears he was drunk. Should I just end the friendship? Or is it worth another chance? Thanks!
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You should give him another chance. Everyone makes mistakes, that doesn't make him a bad person. Maybe he was just drunk. So don't breask off the friendship, if he does it again then it's up to you whether to give him another chance. You are right though, no one deserves to be treated that way.
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You should keep being his friend, but if he does that too often than no. Tell him next time he calls late that you are trying to get some sleep and you'll talk to him later. It seems like maybe he might like you and when you dont answer he gets upset because he wants to see you. Or he's a drunk cornball who just said the wrong things and didnt mean it. Definitely worth another chance though.
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Your right. No one deserves to be treated like that. I don't think that you should totally end the friendship. It sounds like he likes you...
When he's being like that, don't be overly nice to him. Tell him that he doesn't own you and that you aren't waiting by the phone at his every beck and call. That's ridiculous. Let him know when he isn't so heated that he doesn't need to call you and yell at you like that.
Let him know when you are going to sleep and won't be available. When you turn your phone on silent, send him a txt saying "I'm going to sleep and turning my phone off" If you were already talking to him, that is. He seems apologetic about it, so give him a chance. But if he keeps doing this after you asked him not to, ignore him for a little while. Let him know that you do your own thing and that you will make time for him on YOUR watch, not his.
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