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well ive been with my girl for 2 1/2 months and she just told she loves her ex what should i do wait or dump her straight???
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ditch her bro. even if you stick with her she'll try to start getting chummy with the ex little by little and she's leave you S.O.L.
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You can't have a serious or healthy relationship with someone who loves their ex. So talk to her and give her a chance to explain herself before you dump her or do anything else. In my opinon there are different types of love. There's a difference between the way you love your friends, your boyfriend, and your family. There's a difference between loving someone and being in love with someone. So ask her what she meant when she said she loved her ex, and take it from there. Sometimes it's just better to break up or give each other some space so you can both think about your feelings and where your relationship is headed (if you want to stay in a relationship with her)
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Do like Jack said- just wait. Give her one chance to explain herself. If she doesn't seem to want to explain- I say dump her. She's a skanky hoe and still loves her ex. She obviously just wants sexual relationships. Find a better girl who will treat you right.
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Talk to her about whether or not she loves you or if she wants to keep the relationship going because you cant have a healthy relationship with that in the way.
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Dump her. If she loves her ex and not you then why be with her. If she loves both of you that is a risk of being with her too, because what if she cheats. You can have her pick over you or her ex. If she only loves him than I say end it because theres no point in wasting your time with someone who doesn't love you and theres plenty of people out there who may be waiting for a person like you to come into their life. You should also consider just a break from eachother to give her time and space to think it over and you can think about somethings in the mean time too (other girls). Good luck with that. Use your head and your heart. Feel free to ask me ne more questions. -peachy
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i think you should wait this out. If she is consistantly telling you she loves her ex talk to her about how it bothers you when she tells you that. Talking about it is best. I mean it is normal for people to still have feelings for their exs especially if they were dating for a long period of time and got extremely involved. But if she is hanging around with the kid and still speaking about how much she LOVES him then you should tell her that this isnt the best time for you guys to be dating until she works that out. good luck.
brittni
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Wait. See what happens. If she continues to say she loves her ex [I think to you- you didn't really say], ask her why she's doing this. If something seems wrong, like she's wanting to hang out with him a lot or she's always talking to him, don't be afraid to dump her. She should focus on her current boyfriend.
--Jack
(15/m)
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