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I am known for having like the best parties and whateva, but I have never had a sleepova. I mean like one with more than just cousins. I need serious help. I want to do it when I get out for the Christmas Break. Any ideas', I mean I know I want games, and Like I want my house to be like a sotre from favorite candy, to favorite drinks and food. Imma do it up now. So do I need a theme? What kind of things should I put up? Help Thanks
You dont NEED a theme, but you can have one if you'd like. your theme, if you choose to have one, should go along with the holiday's and season. because you dont wanna pool party in the middle of winter, unless you live in like Calofornia. A good theme for around Christmas would be like the north pole. you could have some like fake snow,...like it kind of looks like cotton, you could but that everywhere, dress up like santa or mrs.clause, get some reindeer, some holiday music, cookies, CANDY, *&* soda. ok, you should have some fun games like truth or dare. you could also watch scary movies, and freak yourselves out. watch some cristmas movies, match around the house pretending to have a little chrstmas paradee.
m/13/7th grade
In a month, I will be moving into my condo and i hope to gather a bunch of kids to have ocasional gatherings and i hope to have both boys and girls. What kind of things do boys and girls like to do? How should i invite them?
You could invite them threw instant messenger, verbally, or get some invitations. Just get some pizza, and some soda, you could play spin the bottle, truth or dare, play basketball, some video games, 7 minutes in heaven, just walk around the neighborhood in the dark, have a water fight ((with balloons, or put the water in cups, or just use the hoes)) get some candy and little sweets, give piggy back rides, jump on a trampolien ((only if you have one))
Hey,
I'm having a Halloween party tomorrow night. There are seven of us and it's in my house followed by a sleepover. We are all dressed up and set to go trick or treating but the forecast is rain!! If it rains really awfully we can't go out (we will if it's drizzle or just light though) as we all already have colds and stuff thanks to this lovely British weather!
My question is: do any of you wonderful people have any wonderful ideas as to what we can do if it DOES rain for the entire duration of the party? We are all sixteen, but please no 'just put on some music!' suggestions because that's boring! We don't mind being a little silly and acting like kids. We have already decided on movies, twister in costume, eating donuts hanging from the ceiling (VERY DIFFICULT!) and hide and seek in the dark. Can you think of anything else?
You can watch scary movies and get yourselves freaked out, prank call people order pizza yummy! play truth or dare, play some other games, play with some makeup, tell scary stories, pillow fights, clean out the fridge, get high off of candy :P
What do you say when a guy asks you out. I'm only thirteen, so things don't come naturally. Do you just say "yes"? But that sounds like when someone asks you to marry them!! I think too much about simple things. CAn someone help mee?!?! Don't call me dumb please because you're just stating the obvious!
I'll rate honestly.
Well, if you like him or want to go out with him you say yes. but if you just want a boyfriend then dont say yes. only say yes to someone you really honestly want to go out with!
this question is for girls who are in cheerleading, good in science, Plays the viola, is outgoing, and has a reputation for being nice.
The reason for so many details is because i have a crush on a girl who is all this and i wanna know what you see in a perfect guy and if someone had a crush on you, would you avoid them or how would you respod when you wer 11 or 12 {thats the age of the girl, not me, Im thirteen so im legal}? Another reason for the detasils is i believe there are steriotypes.
I'm almost exactly like that,...almost, i'm notta a cheerleader but i like messin around doin cheers. i like a guy that isnt real retarded, but thats funny, and whenever does something he gets all serious and is just like, whenever you mess him up "Gosh! Let me fininsh,..." but like in a playful way.
ok...i went out with this guy for alittle over 2 months and little did i know he was talkin 2 another girl on the phone and he was lettin her wera his hoodie at school...well his friends FINALLY told me but they waited til the day we broke up to tell me..he was bein told that i was with my ex bf all the time and i wasnt i dont care for my ex anymore...i really care 4 him and i kinda wanna be wit him ya kno...i kinda felt like he was talkin 2 sumbody else but wen i asked him he told me he would never do me wrong and that he cared about me to much and all and he lied to me about her it was like one excuse after another...well that weekend at a football game i dressed up all cute to get his attention and my cousins friend was there and he walked with me and i think it made him jealous...he told my friend we was goin 2 get back 2gether but he needed to think so im givin him his space...he told me that he wanted to talk to me all tha time and see me whenever he could but he hasnt put much effort to it ya kno...i really like him and want us to get back 2gether so what do i do?
if that stupid retarded guy ((like them all..)) won't put much effort into you,...i got 2 solutions. 1 *YOU* make an effort, or else it'll never happen. miracles are real, but you gotta put so much effort it for you to get one. or 2. Just be friends. Plain and simple.
You should be mad at him for that,...maybe a little cuz he didnt tell you. But my best friend's boyfriend, we're real good friends and i take his crap all the time in like a playful way. and i wear his sweatshirt and stuff. i used to talk to all sorts of guys on the phone, girlfriend or not,..i was pretty much friends with everyone. so you should/'ve chilled. that all i got to say!
For school were only aloud to dress up as super heros(its this red ribbion week thing its hard to explain) wel does anyone have an idea for a girl like me to be? And maybe some coustum ideas (im not buying anything for my costume) just maybe a pic of the hero or some things i can wear or even names of super heros? Please help!!
I'm so sorry! i thought you were a guy saying, something about how to get a girl to like me! i've changed this answer like 12 times. you can be a bumble bee,..a goddess, a football player still, a dead dancer, a pink lady from greece.
About 2 years ago in the eighth grade, I really liked this guy named "Kenji". On the very last day of school I decided to tell him how I felt, and I did it the most possible way I knew: I asked my friend who was also good friends with him, to tell him. To my surpise, he also felt the same way. And so, during the summer I was waiting in anticipation to see him again, and when freshmen year rolled around, it seemed as if he had forgotten completely. He never talked to me; I never heard from him. And so I decided to do something, to give him a friendly note. Much to my shock, he hadn't a clue who I was. That just completely shut me down, and it took me an entire year plus another summer to get over him. And just now, to add to the confusion, my friend says that when she had talked to him, he said that he had liked me too and still likes me, when I thought he was just ignoring me that whole time. I knew that I was completely, utterly and offically over him, but after hearing that,some of those feelings came rushing back. I'm so confused, but at the same time irritated because I had only found out now. I don't know if I should still consider being with him, or just move on completely.....
i am 15/f.
You need to go see *&* ask him for yourself. because, i'm not saying your friends are bad or anything, but where i live, everyone talks behind everyones back, even if they are your best friend. rumors are also a big problem. so you never know which way the truth lies. so go up to him and casually ask! i hope i helped
My question is that I have that rare skin that is called Chicken Skin. It when your skin has little bumps all over your body they are kind of noticeable. Well I was wondering if anyone has this kind of skin and how do they deal with people constantly staring at you like you are a freak or something. Is there any way of getting rid of this kind of skin condition so that I can have normal skin like everyones and not feel like a freak. I don't like to wear T Shirts or anything that will should my skin. I did once in high school and this one guy made me cry in class because he was staring at me and poking me and talking loud in class so everyone would want to look. Ever since then I have been scared to wear T Shirts again because I don't want history to repeat itself. What should I do to over come my problem? But most of all I just would like to have normal skin so I wouldn't have to worry about this anymore.
i kind of have the same thing, but mine isnt as bad as yours sounds. just use lotion, thats what made mine not seem as noticable. or if you wanna take a more effective and expecsive approach, lazer would be the best.
What makes boys voices change? Like i know they change when they go thru puberty ... but what exactly makes their voices change?
i think its the increase is testosternon,...i spelled that wrong, hopefully you get what i mean.
about how long after someones death do they have their funeral?
usually a couple days, no more than a week, or the body will start to,...go bad? i dont know the right termonalogy for that.
Okay, so I'v been really stressed out latly about my parents and so on. Well I have this Wonderful boyfriend! But Sometimes I don't think he likes me..Like the other day..at a football game we went too, I was with my girls and he was with his guys and stuff..I thought we would proabablly hang out more, But I guess not, Does he still like me or is he just trying to avoid me..or is scared to talk to me, or does he not know what to talk to me about? well, Please HELP!!
Guy's are perverts and retards basically. all guys. even the geeks! haha. i think he's being shy, but not like a playful shy like a "Dude, i dont know what to do or say around her..." something like that. personally thats what i think. if he has alot of friends that are girls or he has a couple girls he hangs out with alot, he might have feelings for one of them!
What is your favorite perfume? What perfumes do guys like best?
Well, alot of my guy friends like Lilu
I'm 16 and I've never been in love. I'd just like to know if anyone else out there has ever been in my position, because I really feel alone. All of my friends throw around the word "love" after having a 2 hour bf/gf relationship. But, I'm scared when I'm older that I won't ever have that one person to wake up and want to be with everyday! It like scares me. Had anyone else been in my position?
Your so young most people think they are....i'm smaller than you are and all of my friends that have boyfriends or girlfriends they're like 'i love you!' but it just sounds better than saying 'i like you sooooo much'. you'll have someone i know you will,...dont worry there's so many people out there and i know you'll get lucky and find the perfect or not so pefect person that you'll fall in love with...;)
SORRY IT'S LONG BUT PLESE HELP
Ok where do I start?Let me first explain that as a girl I'm not pretty but I'm not ugly either,I don't get attention from boys especially not popular ones I only get attention from older men and other people that I would so not like to date
But recentley a quite popular boy has seriously been onto me and he tells all my friends and everyone else how much he likes me and how he thinks I like him.He is like really popular and can have any girls in schoool he wants so why me?the thing is I don't actually like him. I mean I want a bf and all cause I've never had one but I'm not that desperate,he's like really sweet and all and my sister and most of my friends like him and think we suit eachother but I just don't see it.I have been trying to come up with plans that can get rid of him but none of them ever suceed and last week I over heard him telling his friend that he was going to ask me out and when he does I don't actually want to say yes but I need a good reason to say no don't I? just incase he asks why I don't want to go all in explaining how I don't feel that way about him so my only option is to say that I already have a bf but I don't like lying so can someone like tell me how to get one and QUICK PLEASE
i think the reason he wants you is BECAUSE he CAN have any girl in the school, but you just dont like him. but dont say you already have a boyfriend,...thats kind of wrong,...i'm single to but, dont be so despreate sweetie! i think you should be like casually "you're a great guy and everything, but i just dont like you..DONT ASK WHY! It's to long." and if he's even worth talkin to afterwards, he'll shut up and be alright with your decision
Lately ive been so stressed , its not even funny... my best(guy)friend who i kinda like, I dont even know whether or not anymore got a new gf and shes like my friend and she told me that if i wasnt ok with it that she wouldnt go out with him but what am i supposed to do be like no you cant when i know how much my friend likes her... i couldnt do that to him now i dunno i dunno whether i feel like i want to cry or what, im thinking if i try to like a guy and get a boyfriend i wont be stressed about it anymore and crap like that but i dunno i do like him but im so happy for him at the same time cuase he likes her so much and i cant find anyone to like or who i thinks cute, and i cant stop thinking about it, and today i saw him kiss her, whats my problem why i cant i just be like no i dont like you you have agf whos my friend and now who likes you... ugh something inside of me just wants to break... :( anyhelp...
"Guys come and go, but friends are forever" It seems to me, you're jealous, you're probably saying either "Gosh tell me something i DONT know." or "Psst! WHATEVER! I'm the least jealous person ever!" But i mean, expecially with something like this, i have this problem, but i've learned that they wont last forever. you missy, need to get out there for a while and meet some new people and do some new things! he'll come to you! ;) Dont worry 'bout some silly boy! Y'all have just known each other for so long, i mean it's bound to happen. Just get out there, have some fun, and whenever they break up make a move or something! i hope i helped you in your time of need!
I'm going trick-or-treating with my friends this year and I have no idea what to be. My friends usually get all the attention, so for once I want to be the one with the cutest costume. Can anyone help me with a costume that's creative, yet cute? Nothing scary or TOO slutty please! Thanks!
you could be like a Fantana or a goddess.
13/m
I would like to dress up like something different this year. I have been...
A pirate
A hobo
a devil
an m&m
A clown
dracula
Grim reaper
Any1 got some Ideas that arent listed?
SUPERMAN! haha, thats what my guy friend's gonna be,... you could be Santa, a dead football player, a pumpkin ((aww lol)), a Greek God, a mad scientist, a striper ((yeah right haha!)) those are some pretty different and goofy ((some)) ones!
okay so im 15/f and i like this guy alot. i think i might actually love him too. hes 14/m, a few months younger than me. but my one friend things im nuts! i mean her perfect dream guy is taller and older than her. While i seemed to always like younger guys.. (not too young though) But i mean shes just like "well are you sure you like him? i mean its okay if you though he was cute but liking him?" and i think its just so frustraighting! and i know i shouldnt care what she thinks about him but i mean... it would be nice to just have her be like more supportive about it. what do you say?? and i'm so sorry this is so long.. ill rate
she's your friend, she just wants whats best for you. she doesnt want you to get into something BIG like i got myself into,...alone. she's just tryin' to protect you from heart break etc.
hey guys im going to a party on saturday and its a bonfire outside and getting a dj... this is kinda embarassing but o well i am not the best dancer out there so if any of you could like tell me step by step how to grind and stuff thatd be great thanks! i know im just supposed to let loose.. but it like doesnt work
15/f.
there's no real "step by step" thing to dancing, you just let your body go, just move around with the beat. unless its like a competetion or something,...my best friend, she's like a dancer, like she's taken lessons, for ballet, modern, jazz, and hip hop she's like a freakin' expert. and that's pretty much what she does in hip hop.