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i kno this is long but wut do i do? ok...i went out with this guy for alittle over 2 months and little did i know he was talkin 2 another girl on the phone and he was lettin her wera his hoodie at school...well his friends FINALLY told me but they waited til the day we broke up to tell me..he was bein told that i was with my ex bf all the time and i wasnt i dont care for my ex anymore...i really care 4 him and i kinda wanna be wit him ya kno...i kinda felt like he was talkin 2 sumbody else but wen i asked him he told me he would never do me wrong and that he cared about me to much and all and he lied to me about her it was like one excuse after another...well that weekend at a football game i dressed up all cute to get his attention and my cousins friend was there and he walked with me and i think it made him jealous...he told my friend we was goin 2 get back 2gether but he needed to think so im givin him his space...he told me that he wanted to talk to me all tha time and see me whenever he could but he hasnt put much effort to it ya kno...i really like him and want us to get back 2gether so what do i do?
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OH MY GOD! He talked to another girl on the PHONE and let her wear his HOODIE????! What an adulterous asshole. Wait...where was he being dishonest? Talking to someone on the phone and letting them wear their hoodie is not cheating. Oh noes, he has a friend who happens to be a female. Unless he was kissing her, messing around with her, ect. I don't see what he was doing wrong. I think you're taking this way too far. ]
First you need to have a long talk with him.
Let him know that the rumors about you and your ex are totally false. You both need to learn to trust each other and keep the friends out of your personal business. Not that you shouldn't have friends, but someone is spreading the rumors and I doubt its a stranger.
Make sure if something comes up again that either of you wonder about, you can ask each other and get it straightened out. :) ]
if that stupid retarded guy ((like them all..)) won't put much effort into you,...i got 2 solutions. 1 *YOU* make an effort, or else it'll never happen. miracles are real, but you gotta put so much effort it for you to get one. or 2. Just be friends. Plain and simple.
You should be mad at him for that,...maybe a little cuz he didnt tell you. But my best friend's boyfriend, we're real good friends and i take his crap all the time in like a playful way. and i wear his sweatshirt and stuff. i used to talk to all sorts of guys on the phone, girlfriend or not,..i was pretty much friends with everyone. so you should/'ve chilled. that all i got to say! ]
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