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Lately ive been so stressed , its not even funny... my best(guy)friend who i kinda like, I dont even know whether or not anymore got a new gf and shes like my friend and she told me that if i wasnt ok with it that she wouldnt go out with him but what am i supposed to do be like no you cant when i know how much my friend likes her... i couldnt do that to him now i dunno i dunno whether i feel like i want to cry or what, im thinking if i try to like a guy and get a boyfriend i wont be stressed about it anymore and crap like that but i dunno i do like him but im so happy for him at the same time cuase he likes her so much and i cant find anyone to like or who i thinks cute, and i cant stop thinking about it, and today i saw him kiss her, whats my problem why i cant i just be like no i dont like you you have agf whos my friend and now who likes you... ugh something inside of me just wants to break... :( anyhelp...
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Trying to date other people will not get you over him, just be honest with him and tell him how you feel. Tell him your not trying to break up the realtionship, but at the same time you get hurt when you see them kiss, maybe he will understand and be less flirty with her in front of you or maybe hell even have a deep secret he has to tell you, either way if he really cared for you as a friend he would understand what you have to say, and not take it as an insult.
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I know what it is like to have bite your tongue especially for the guy you like. I know you dont know what to do. Maybe if you didnt so much as concentrate on him but yourself. If you concentrate on yourself then you wont be thinking about him. Your fried offered to give him up and i know that you cant let her do that. I had a friend who dated my other friend and i tryd to break them up b/c i liked the guy. Well i succeeded but i lost the guy and my best friend. Dont do what i did. I knwo that you just want to break and that is nderstandable. But you should look around at people in your school and find someone you find attractive. Or go to the mall and see you find anyone hott. This is your life you have to make yourself happy or you will always just be miserable until you meet another great guy.
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i know this is hard but what you must do is stay friends with them both do not act like you are jealous. There is no way you can break them up so don't think about it. You are going to have to try and find someone else and if you can't you will have to stay single. Just stay friends with them both and let them get on with it. Besides he picked her not you so you have to accept the fact that he picked your friend and leave them if it hurts you to see them together then walk away and don't look at them when they are kissing. i know this is not great advice but its all i could think off you could try and get close friends with another guy. hope i helped lv sweetcornxxx
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Ugh, please learn to use some sort of punctuation. This was hard to read and VERY hard to follow. Now, you need to stop being selfish. Your friend obviously cares about how you feel, but at the same time would you like your friend keeping you from someone you like? Just get over it. He liked her and not you. I'm sure there will be a day that a guy likes you, but you don't like him and go for someone else and he's upset.
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hey love,
It is good that you are mature enough to not throw a fit when the guy you like is going to date your friend. I think it shows that you are a caring person since you want them both to be happy. Just remember what goes around comes around. You will find someone that you like eventually, no worries. As for your guy friend, maybe you should try to distance yourself from him a little bit so it will make the transition eaiser. I used to have a HUGE crush on my best guy friend all through middle school (3 years) and he always liked my best girlfriend. Trust me, I know it's hard. Be careful in what you decide to do because you do not want to end up losing both of them as friends. Who knows if their relationship will even last. If they start to have problems, he'll start coming to you for advice and he might end up liking YOU. I suggest just waiting it out, and continuing to be the good friend you are. Don't let anything inside of you break! Good luck =) if you need anything my AIM sn is: airy red rose
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Hey, yes. I know how your feeling. It's hard to be happy for them. But I think you need to talk to both of them seperately and just let them no how you feel. Everything will work out for the best. Good Luck! x0x Allie <3
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"Guys come and go, but friends are forever" It seems to me, you're jealous, you're probably saying either "Gosh tell me something i DONT know." or "Psst! WHATEVER! I'm the least jealous person ever!" But i mean, expecially with something like this, i have this problem, but i've learned that they wont last forever. you missy, need to get out there for a while and meet some new people and do some new things! he'll come to you! ;) Dont worry 'bout some silly boy! Y'all have just known each other for so long, i mean it's bound to happen. Just get out there, have some fun, and whenever they break up make a move or something! i hope i helped you in your time of need!
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