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lost in confusion.....
About 2 years ago in the eighth grade, I really liked this guy named "Kenji". On the very last day of school I decided to tell him how I felt, and I did it the most possible way I knew: I asked my friend who was also good friends with him, to tell him. To my surpise, he also felt the same way. And so, during the summer I was waiting in anticipation to see him again, and when freshmen year rolled around, it seemed as if he had forgotten completely. He never talked to me; I never heard from him. And so I decided to do something, to give him a friendly note. Much to my shock, he hadn't a clue who I was. That just completely shut me down, and it took me an entire year plus another summer to get over him. And just now, to add to the confusion, my friend says that when she had talked to him, he said that he had liked me too and still likes me, when I thought he was just ignoring me that whole time. I knew that I was completely, utterly and offically over him, but after hearing that,some of those feelings came rushing back. I'm so confused, but at the same time irritated because I had only found out now. I don't know if I should still consider being with him, or just move on completely.....
i am 15/f.
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You need to go see *&* ask him for yourself. because, i'm not saying your friends are bad or anything, but where i live, everyone talks behind everyones back, even if they are your best friend. rumors are also a big problem. so you never know which way the truth lies. so go up to him and casually ask! i hope i helped
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Well I guess its possible he got you confused with someone else at first, but he really does like you. But you gotta talk to him yourself, don't make your friends do it, that always confuses everything. Oh nad please don't let yourself worry so much over guy, a year or more is way too much to spend heartbroken over a guy, yes guys are hot and can be really cute, but not worth that much time of misery, because I guarantee most guys don't mourne over girls the same way, mind I said most guys don't that don't mean that all guys don't care. I say give it a shot see where it goes, if its not what you need or wan then you make your decision. Be happy, and good luck.
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