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Q: does anyone know the website when you put your weight and height and it tells you if you are at the right weight or over weight? thanks
http://www.am-i-fat.com/

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Q: Hey.

I am leaving all my friends next year. So I made a slideshow of like 100 pictures--- it takes about 5 minutes to go completely through. And so I was wondering, does anyone know any songs like that? Like leaving friends behind or something.

I'm more into 60s, 70s, 80s rock. But anythings good. Thanks!!!

I would suggest "Graduation" by Vitamin-C. It's cliche, but it's so perfect. It makes me smile everytime I hear it as I reflect on old memories.

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Q: My teeth are a little discolored. Not from smoking or coffee or tea, but they are a little yellow. One problem: I have braces. Can I use something to whiten my teeth now or do I need to wait until they're off?
Yeah I got braces, and my orthdontist said to definitely wait until they come off before I try any teeth whitening. It make sense though, right? because all around would be white, but where your bracket was would be a different color. Make sure you're brushing twice a day with regular tooth paste and once a day with a cavity prevention paste. I got that when I first got braces from my ortho, but I'm sure there's stuff available at your local convenience store.

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Q: Which part of America would you reccomend moving to?
There's so many beautiful places in America that it would be nearly impossible to say exactly where you should move to. I would say that it really depends on the kind of weather you are looking for. For warm weather year-round, Texas is great. For coastal weather, California is good. For cold weather, maybe New York. If you are moving from a different country, maybe you should research where there is a high population of people from the same place as you.

good luck- :)

Q: Ok. For around two weeks EVERY night I've been having bad dreams. And it sucks.
It'll either be a new dream, a dream I've had before, or a combination of a couple dreams.
I've had this one for 3 nights in a row, seriously. I walk into a room, and look in this mirror. And there is this half-dead ten-ish year old girl with a bloody KNIFE standing behind me. But when I look behind me she's not there, she's only in the mirror. Then there is this other one where I get put into a coffin and I'm buried alive.

So...
Would there be a reason that this is happening ??
What can I do ? I HATE it....
Nightmares can happen for different reasons. You may be eating unusual foods late at night or you may be under a lot of stress. These things cause your body and mind to be off-balance. You could try playing some soft music while you sleep, or you could buy a CD with a variety of peaceful sounds (like a waterfall, etc). Try calming yourself down before you fall asleep also- think of something wonderful, like a fun vacation or your friends.

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Q: Is DDR a good way to exercise? lol thankss.
Yeahh for sure. It's gets your heart rate up and increases blood flow to your muscles. If you played for 20 minutes everyday, that would really be a great work-out!

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Q: I've been looking for Las Vegas ariplane tickets and hotels but I honestly don't know where to search online. I want to find one that comes all together. I don't know if you might understand what I'm trying to say but I just need help finding an airplane ticket and a hotel for Las Vegas. Can anyone help me out? Thank you.
http://www.hotels.com
http://www.orbitz.com

These are just a few. You can get a lot more websites be simply searching "hotels in las vegas" on google or yahoo.

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Q: Well I'm going to Las Vegas for about 6 days. I'm leaving tomorrow and coming back on friday. I have no clue how much to pack. How many shirts, pants, shorts, socks? It's just something I'm not good at. So if you have any ideas on how much and anything else that I should probably bring that I'll probably forget lol. Thank you everyone!
7 Shirts (2 or 3 Long-sleeved)
4 Pants
2 Skirts
2 Shorts
7 Socks
2 Hoodies/Light Jackets
8 Pairs of Underwear
3 Pairs of Shoes (that will match outfits)
Neccessary Bras/Camis
2 Sets of PJs

Don't Forget Toiletris =]

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Q: i love basketball and i have kinda planned my life around but one thing ive noticed is how all the pro basketball players taht r girls r flat chested its odd to ask this question but im wondering how to prevent that and how to stop your boobs from sweating?!? Please Help
Thankssss
Women that are in really good shape tend to have little to no fat on them at all. Breasts are made of fat, so no fat=little boobs. I really don't think you can prevent this because I'm sure you want to be in good shape as an athlete. Also, try baby powder to prevent sweating on your chest.

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Q: Can you shave your legs using soap and will it give you razor burn?
It really depends on the sensitivity of your legs. My legs are extremely sensitive so the freak out whenever I do not use a sharp razor and shave gel. Yours may be different, however. Be sure to use a good brand of soap, like Lever 2000 or Dove, if you are going to.

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Q: I was looking at my feedback but I forgot which question I answered so I went back and checked. As I was looking I noticed someones answer and I didn't know if it was true.

I don't want to embarass anybody so i'll just describe the situation. One girl stated that she hasn't had her period in 4 months and was wondering what she should do. Then this one girl answered:
If you have oral sex then there might be a chance of pregnancy, but if not, then it is probably just still irregular. It takes up to two years for a period to regulate, and if you have had your period for over two years, then you should tell your mom or a doctor.

Is it true you can get pregnat from oral sex?





&&thanks
Alright, getting pregnant from oral sex, this is how it would have to go.

Girl performs oral sex on boy.
Boy ejaculates in girl's mouth.
Boy and girl make-out, thus, exchanging the live sperm.
Boy performs oral sex on girl.
Sperm goes into vagina.

Crazy? yes. Possible? mm.. its extremelyyy unlikely.

However, sperm can still live in the air for awhile, but it is still so unlikely.

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Q: first im not sure u got my question and i reaaly like the dresss in ur pic
Im 18 male and i crosdress in the most girly things my sister has . Of coarse i do it when she is out with her freinds. I wear her panties bras and dresses . I usally end up masturbating and eating my own spearm does this make me gay .. i dont like guys i like girls but i also enjoy wearing thier clothes
Hmm.. I'm not wearing a dress in my pic haha but thanks.

Crossdressing is something that men will do when they are trying to figure out who they are. You are at the age when most men have determined whether they are gay or straight or bi. This is not neccessarily a problem, but I think it important for you to determine who you are so you can start living life to the fullest as yourself. Eating your own sperm is rather unusual, but it does not make you gay. If you are fantasizing about eating other males' sperm, then you *may* be homosexual.

However, if you are positive that you like girls, then that is good because you are close to discovering your sexuality. Maybe you wish you were born as a female? But you are still attracted to the female sex? That's okay.

I think you really need to find yourself. Discover who you are. Experiment with your crossdressing, and find out what works for you.

good luck- :)

Q: any tips on how to get a smaller waist??? thanks in advance :)
Crunches, crunches, crunches. Get a set system down of exercise. You could do 20 crunches in the morning and then 20 at night. Also, swimming and jogging are excellent ways of toning your overall body. Be sure you are also safely dieting (eating more fruits and whole grains rather than junk food). Get lots of sleep and drink lots of water, in addition, so that you have the energy to exercise.

good luck- :)

Q: Does any one know where you can buy a john deer hat?
I've seen them at a store called Spencer's. Or, you could just order it online:

http://www.johndeeregifts.com/category-category_id/217397

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Q: how many holes are there in ur vagina?
Haha. Women have one hole for urination, one hole for sex, having babies, and your period, and one hole is your anus.

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Q: I need some help wit a essay that I have to write, its 250-400 words on how to save money or anything finicially that will help teens. I don't have a clue where to start, can someone please help me.
In my computer class in high school, we had a guest speaker come talk to us about saving money as a teenager. She suggested a few things:
1) putting a dime away everyday, don't touch this jar, and the money will add up fast.
2) Track what you buy one day. Then use that list to see how you can reduce the amount of money you are spending. For example you can say, I didn't really need to buy 3 cd's, just 2 would have been fine.
3) Open up a bank account. The interest gives you money for doing nothing.

Hopefully you can use these tips for your essay, or maybe these tips inspired some tips of your own.

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Q: Recommend me good books to help me build knowledge, please? I am not very smart so no hard novels like Shakespeare. Thank you!
Lord of the Flies, Oedipus, Antigone, Crime and Punishment, All Quiet on the Western Front, Grapes of Wrath, Macbeth, Boy's Life. All excellent books that are at a high school reading level and above. I would also like to applaud you on your efforts for wanting to gain knowledge, dang I wish I was like that haha.

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Q: Is there any way i can make my hair lighter without highlighting or coloring?
Sun, sun, sun. If you want your hair lighter faster, then use a product (like Touch of Sun). I use this product and it really works. Some cheaper brands can turn your hair more orangey so be careful. Also, too much chlorine can dry out your hair and turn it weird shades of blonde.

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Q: I'm in this acting camp, and this week is Spirit Week. The past three days haven't been too hard (Monochromatic Day, Twin Day, Goth Day) but tomorrow, Nerd Day, I don't know what to wear. If I could have some ideas, that would be greatly appreciated. (Also, along with clothes, please give good accessory ideas, and hairstyles). Please, if you could, answer by tonight. Thanks in advance!
Put your hair in two high pigtails. Wear capris (or folded up pants) with striped toe-socks. Wear flip-flops or sandals with your toe-socks of course :]. Wear a collared, striped shirt. Then, if you have suspenders, wear those, but if you dont you can hook two belts to the loops in your jeans that go over your shoulders to create the illusion of suspenders. And then finally, wear big glasses. You can even find your parents' old ones and take the lenses out. Have fun!

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Q: so I was listening this song and I love it so much, but I don't know the title, or the band..

here are some lines I thought I heard in the song:
Lyrics there has to be a better way to break this spell

If the fire burns out will it ever light up again

That I deny

I call this a better way


if you know this,
thank you!! I'll rate you
Hey if you're ever wondering about lyrics to a song, all you have to do is type them into the google search, and it will very likely come up with the results you need. You can try typing in the lyrics with quotes around them, and that has worked every time for me. Based on doing what I just said, I came up with the results: Unrequited Love by Chasing Victory.

hope this helps for next time- :)

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