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Hi, My name is Bailey. I am 15, and I know that is young, but I think I can offer good advice, or at least try my hardest.Feel free to leave me anything in my inbox.
If you rate me, could you give me feedback? I like to hear what you thought about my response, and if you think it was helpful or not.
Also I check my e-mail everday, so if you don't want to ask a question on this site, feel free to e-mail me and I will respond as soon as I can!
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yesterday was me and Scott's one month! but we didn't get to see each other...do you guys think you can date someone who you never get to see? i mean does it work? i have only seen him once since we've been dating. i hate it because his parents hate me and my parents hate him because of what happened this summer...and so we have to sneak around all the time..i hate it so much. and all his little friends hate me because of rumors people started about what happened this summer so like none of his friends know were dating i hate hiding it he says he loves me but i don t want to be a secret you know? if he really loved me like he said he would tell his friends..right? i mean i don t know i am so confused i want people to know were dating i mean i love his so much and I've told all my friends were dating...i don't want to be his secret you know? i haven't talked to him about it and i know if i did he would just get mad..so what should i do i need some good advice xox
Well I have been dating my boyfriend for 4 months and I have only seen him 9 times, but we make sure that we talk every single night. And we talk for hours, and it is really the key part of our relationship. Just being able to communicate with eachother. I don't know about you and your boyfriend, but if you guys have good communication with eachother and you understad eachother than you should be able to work through this.
I understand what you are saying about him not telling his friend, but it also sounds like there is good reason behind it, he probably just doesn't want the rumors to start again so he just doesn't tell them. I am sure that if that didn't happen he would gladly tell all of his friends, but just give it some time and maybe he will tell them eventually. But if not you should just trust him when he says he loves you, and know that he does, but he just doesn't tell people because he doesn't wnat any trouble to start.
If this is really bothering you then I think that you should talk about it with him, if he loves you he will understand and he will talk to you about it.
Everytime I look in the mirror I feel horrible I mean people tell me I'm beautiful or w/e but I just don't see it and I really swear I CANNOT SEE IT. Then, my best friends I've like blocked them from my emotions and my thoughts because I feel like their fake liars...it just feels everythings going to crumble and I wanna cry for no reason. Is this something teens go through or do I need to talk to someone?
Basically all teenage girls go through that. But everyone handles it differently.
You sound like me. I never am able to believe my boyfriend when he tells me I look good, like I know he is not lying but I just cannot accept the fact that anyone thinks I look good. I just feel like I am the ugliest person in the world...even though I know that is not true, I still feel like it.
I think a good way to handle this is to try and just learn to accept what they are saying, I mean this is such a common thing teenagers go throught, and it is sometimes hard to believe that you actually look good. But I am sure you are really pretty, and you just cannot accept that.
One thing that I try and do, is just look at myself in the mirror and try and find my best quality. I know you probably think you do not have any, but you do. I mean I am really insecure but I can still look in the mirror and find at least one thing I like about myself. It took at while for me to find something, but I did. So try that, and slowly work your way from one thing to two things to three things etc...
Really it does work, because I can totally relate to you, and I am still going through those feelings now, but by looking in the mirror and trying to find my good qualities, it has given me a little more self esteem, and sometimes I actually feel a little good about myself.
I really hope everything works out for you..
If you need anything, just drop it in my inbox.
I'm not asking for you to make me a diet plan or tell me what to eat, but I'm just wondering if the one I made will work for me.
I'm 15, 5'8, and I weight 170 pounds. I'm not very active, but I do own a treadmill. My new plan is that I will eat 1500 calories a day, and burn off 200-300 calories on the treadmill every day. I think I've worked out that I will lose 1-2 pounds a week. Is my calculation accurate? Will I actually lose weight (the food I'm eating is healthy, mostly fruits and some meat... just good food)? And, is this healthy/okay for me to be doing? If this isn't going to work, what do you think I could change? Thank you SO much in advance!
Just make sure you eat breakfast, lunch, and dinner. Make sure it is all healthy, completely eliminate sugar from your diet. And eat in moderation. And of course work out.
By doing all of that you will deffinately lose some weight... so your plan sounds really good, and I just gave you some tips just in case..
I hope everything works out!
So this isn't really about me..but more a friend thing. So i'm a guy and my friend's a girl. Well she likes another one of my friends who is also her friend...She asked me to call hiim and discreetly find out if he liked her or not..we didn't have a lot of time on the phone..but he said...she's okay..then he had to go..so i couldn't talk to him about it.. But how do I ask him so he doesn't really get it...and if he doesn't like her..how do I break it to her? OH..and supposedly..he has a girlfriend..that cheats on him..but idk a dickhead told us that..but any help is appreciated
Ok, that is really nice of you to do that for your friend, but it would probably be better if she asked him...But I will just answer your question...
I think that you shouldn't call him, you should talk to him in person, so that he cannot like hang up or anything. Just go up to him, and start talking about her, and you could say like something along the lines of hey you know so-and-so what do you think about her, do you like her at all? And if he asks you why you are asking just say that you are wondering.
Now if he says no, then don't try and hide if from your friend. You just need to tell her the truth. Just tell her that he doesn't like her that way. She will probably be upset, so just comfort her, and just be nice and everything, it will make her feel better.
And you should try and find about him having a girlfriend first, just so you know for sure...
I hope everything works out ok...
13/f. Every day, I feel so lonely. It's like I'm an inanimate object. Nobody ever even seems to realize I'm alive. Nobody cares about me at all. I have no friends except my parents---that doesn't count. I try to make friends, but nobody ever gives me a second thought. In fact, I haven't had a single person at my house since I was 9. Nobody ever considers my feelings; if anyone has seen "Chicago," I feel exactly like the person singing "Cellophane." I cry like crazy every single evening at bedtime. It makes me want to do something outrageous just to see if someone would notice. Sometimes I wonder whether anyone would notice if I died. 5's to anyone who seems to emphathize...
Ok, I am 15 now and I have been through that before or at least a similar situation. Really there are people out there who do care about you, but you probably just don't even notice.
About making friends, ya people can be pretty mean sometimes, but it is hard getting along in life without friends. Trust me on that I know. But you probably have just decided for yourself that no one will ever like you so you have given up trying, and that will get you nowhere.
You probably think what I am saying is stupid and what everyone else will say, but it is true. By saying that you will never have any friends you have basically decided that you never will so you won't even attempt anymore to try and have any friends.
Now I am telling you right now that doing something "outrageous" will not help you at all. It will just attract negative attention to you, and you do not want that. I have done a lot of stuff, and trust me it is not worth it at all.
So I hope everything works out for you, and you make the right decisions, if you ever need anything just drop it in my inbox.
I'm a sophomore in high school and sometime during my freshman year, I lost interest in boys my own age (and, for that matter, boys even remotely close to my age) and became interested in men. I was sure that it was a phase that all girls go through but I've found that I can't get over it and I'm totally unattracted to men that aren't at least eight years older than I am. I haven't pursued my interest in older men because I'm aware that I'm underaged and I could get a man into trouble but I feel like this interest is crippling me socially. I don't think I could EVER date a boy close to my age because I'm just not attracted to them but if I'm going to have to wait until I'm eighteen to find someone I'm really attracted to, should I just settle for someone close to my age? Is it normal for young woman to want men that much older than they are?
It is actually pretty normal. Because many teenage boys are just not mature enough. And you probably just want someone who is mature and everything.
So instead of dating someone over eighteen, try dating someone who is like eighteen, or you could just wait and maybe you will get over this, or maybe you will end up finding a boy your age who can satisfy you.
ok well there's this guy i like his name is kevin and he's a sophmore at mah school... and ya well the problem is that he only likes me as a friend.. but i still like him.. and now his friends make fun of me. and now we're still friends. but for some reason i hate him sometimes and other times i juz really like him !! and i've tried to get over him but i can't cuz like i c him after every class period!? so i dunno what to do!!! HELP ME pleese.
It sounds like you really just need to move on. I know it will probably be difficult, but these kind of things do take time. So just try to forget about him, and try liking another guy. I am really serious you need to just give it some time, and you will eventually get over him.
okay so i am in 6th grade and tomorrow me and my boyfriend are planning on hooking up. It will be my first time, but the only problem is that i don't know how! i know what it is and all, i just don't know how to do it so that it's feels nice for him also. If you could please give me some pointers on how to do it, that would be greatly appreciated! i rate 5's! Thanks!
I am sorry but I have to say that you are too young, even though you probably think that having sex doesn't mean anything, trust me it does. And trush me no matter how mature you think you are you are not ready.
You really need to think about what you are getting yourself into. When you are older you WILL regret it...and don't think I don't know what I am talking about...because I do..and I am telling you that even though I don't know you that you are not ready...
Please read the other people's answers and mine, and really think about the choice you are making..
hey!can a girl with my problem answer this and a guy who actually knows what he's talking about?? i'm 14 and am a DD, i have a huge ass, and just so i can get the best advice- i happen to think i'm really pretty! (so not conceited) but i feel like guys only like me for that and i don't do anything with guys so i don't have a rep or anything but i'm completely embarresed about my boobs and i hate wearing....shirts in getneral. even through my sweatshirts you can see them!!! don't tell me to be happy with what i've got because its notpossible. i've tried every kind of bra, nothing makes me look smaller than a D or a C. what can i do?!?!?!?! THEIR HUUUUGEEEEE!!!!!! can a girl with my problem answer this and a guy who actually knows what he's talking about??
Hmm sounds just like me!
I totally agree with guys just liking you for your nice "assets." Like I walk down the street wearing like jeans and a t-shirt and somebody will whistle at me..it was flattering like the first 3 times..but then it was kinda annoying.
But about the guys likeing you for your body, ya there are a lot of guys who are sick and will like you for that, but there are also some sincere guys out there who will like you for other things..trust me I know because I happen to be lucky and find a guy like that...so I think the best thing to do is to just talk to the guy and see if he is like staring in places he shouldnt or if he is just constantly checking you out. And if you are able to actually talk to a guy he maybe will actually like you for you.
About being embarassed about them...ugh...I know how that is too...it sucks..like all these girls are like "oh I wish my boobs were as big as yours"..and I am like you sure as hell don't..But they don't understand..But that goes to the cliche thing of nobody is happy with what they have and always want what someone else has...But it is true in a way. The only way you can change the size is to consider getting a breast reduction, I am probably going to because I am already having back problems.
For me I like sports bras, they are comfy, and they just fit better, and they aren't as harsh on my back.
Well, I hope I helped, if you need anything drop it in my inbox..I hope everything goes OK...
my mom has this mole on her stomach, its not that big but its not small. She said its starting to come off. and it turned gray and it looks all cracked and stuff. she has a bandaid on it now. does anyone know what this could be? or if she could die. i heard that if a mole comes off you could die? im not sure im just scared. anything will help.
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I think the best thing you can do is go to the doctors as soon as possible. Because it will help you, and it will help your mom in case she does have something.
I hope she is fine..
I have this good friend who i recently feel head over heels for!!
I talked to him about it, and he doesn't like me, which I'm cool with.
We are still good friends.
But What I need to do it GET OVER HIM.
Any advice on how to do so?!
He told me his friend likes me, which helps, because I've started thinking about this other guy a little, but I keep thinking about the original crush too!!
I really need to get over him.
It does take time to get over a big crush...really the only thing you can do is just wait it out and try to get with another guy.
Liking another guy will deffinately help you, you just need to move on to get your mind off of him..
It is good that you like his friend and his friend likes you, you should deffinately try to get something going there, it will help you a lot.
I hope everything goes good!
hey .. my name is michele (i'm on lauren's login thing). i'm 13/f. I know relationships aren't a big deal right now, but I really like this kid Frankie. We talk sometimes in school, but we don't have any classes together, but we talk a lot through texting and online. Sometimes it seems like he likes me, but other times I'm not really sure. I like him though, but I don't know how to tell him. I'm sure questions like this have been asked so many times, but should I tell him? or how can I tell him without worrying about being completely embarressed?
Thanks !!
I think that it would be a good idea for you to tell him...I would just like ask him who he likes, and he will probably ask you and just tell him. I mean if you don't tell him you will probably regret it...
Well good luck!!
Iam 16 years old and my math teacher has been really mean to me like she calls me fat and miss piggy and it's really lowering my selfesteem.mrs.Trapnell that's my teachers name asked me how much my mom weighed and she asked me was my sister fat and all kinds of things like that.mrs.Trapnell also made me sit in the counsler's office for 2 hours for something that didn't even happen in her classroom I was stretching and my shirt was kind of short and this boy was next to me and mrs.trapnell saw it and this happened 2 days before she sent me to the counsler's office she said I was showing off my body in front of this boy named carl is this ok for a teacher to do this can I get her in trouble can she get fired.Is this right or is it my fault?
That is absolutely horrible, I am sory that you are going through that.
It is absolutely not ok that she is doing that, she should get fired if you tell a school official, and possiby maybe have a witness with you to back your story up.
Because all of that is completely uncalled for, I am so sorry that you have such a mean teacher...I hope she gets fired..
well hey i havea bf but theres this girl she is his ex adn she was the one that dumped him i have known her ever since year 6 and she has always been mean and rude to me she i like a witch and she is always flirting with my bf adn im scared he might love her like seh walks with him dn she nkows im looking i've tried talking to her but seh just dosnt care she just gives me all these things that arent true and i dont know what top do plz plz help me :(:(:(
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Hilda,
I really think that before jumping to conclusions you should talk to your boyfriend about this.
So instead of trying to talk to that mean girl, I would talk to your boyfriend about it and see what he says.
Hope everything goes well...
Ok, so I like this guy. Alot. Like, he's all I think about, and my heart skips a beat every time I hear his name/voice and I kinda semi stalk him (wich I'm trying to not do, cuz I know it's wrong...and kinda creepy)
Anywho, I'm not sure if I should tell him I like him/ask him out because not telling him and pining away in silence is killing me, but being rejected would only kill me faster.
I think he's kinda hung up on/hurting from these other girls, but he might be over it, I dunno and so now I don't know if I should make a move or not...
Well you didn't say it you were on speaking terms with this guy or not, but I will try to answer this for you.
I think that you should focus on being friends with him first, like hanging out and talking.
Then when you guys are friends and everything then go for it, because it you don't you will regret it for a while.
But if you guys do talk a lot or are friens, then I think you should just go ahead and ask him, because like I said before if you don't ask him it will hurt more knowing that you could have and didn't.
And if you don't he is probaby going to find another girl, and I am sure you wouldn't feel to good about that...
Good Luck with him!
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At the beginning of the school year is when we met and we talked and flirted alot :-/ we became really good friends til he told me he liked me I didn't like him at the time cause I thought he was ugly and I thought we was to good of friends he liked me for awhiel til he gave up now it's near the end of the year and we still talk but not as much he kind of picks on me alot and everytime i say something to him he makes a big joke out of everything..It makes me mad but now im starting to kind of like it..He was such a sweetheart before he started acting like a jerk and I realize I really do like him.. I'm afraid to tell him cause he might just make a big joke out of it like everything else what should i do?
Hmm..boys...ugh...
I really think you should just tell him, he is probab'y just picking on you because he is being immature and mad because you didn't like him back, but if you tell him you like him he will probably be pretty happy about it...so I would just go ahead and give it a try, because you will probably regret it if you don't.
I hope everything goes well..
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theres this boy a grade younger then me and i have liked him since september and hes wonderful. we talk on the bus, during class, at lunch. But he has no idea that i like him. Well we had a school dance the other day and i ended up dancing with him alot and it was awesome. But during the dance one of my friends got one of her friends to dance with him and he stayed with her the whole night besides on a few songs. Then after the dance he gave me a ride home and he did nothing but talk about her to his mom. He just met her how could you already want her that bad.? the girl doesnt go to our school so chances are he wont see her much and he got her number. SHould i continue wanting to be with him or just give up since i pretty much got dissed because the girl came into his life? What should i do i mean ive liked him since september. Don't tell me to go and tell him i like him because chances are i wont do that.
I don't think you should stop liking him. I think that you should just continue talking to him, and eventually tell him you like him... I am not saying right now..EVENTUALLY, because it you don't tell him, he WILL go for another girl..so try flirting with him, and maybe give hints that you like him.
I hope everything goes well!
Well me and this guy dated for a really long time and he would tell me how much he loved me where always together at school and we would talk on the phone all the time but we barely ever hungout besides at school he always said he would come over then he wouldnt and he wouldnt call to say he wasnt coming over and sometimes he was really mean to me. Well about a month ago i found out that he has a girlfriend that lives in another town and he was going out with her the whole time we were dating. of course i broke it off with him and we stopped talking just recently he started talking to me alot again and he says that he loves me and he is really scared because he thinks that he wont get another chance with me but he is stil going out with that other girl he told me he would break up with her for me and the only reason he went out with her was because he didnt think i wanted to go out with him even tho i really did i still do i care about him so much but i know that he is a player and i dont know if i can trust him. i try so hard not to talk to him and to act like i dont like him but when i see him i cant help but want to talk to him and hug him and just be with him. but i dont know if i should trust him and give him another chance because the other day he told me him and his girlfriend where about to break up and then he told my friend they where doing really great and he says that he loves her but he also says that he loves me more and he flirts with my friends right in front of me We where best friends before we dated and i dont know what to do i miss being close to him as a friend and i miss dating him. I cry all the time because i miss him but i know he isnt worth it but i just cant help caring about him. Sorry this is really long..
My advice to you is just to move on...I am serious if you don't you will probably get hurt, and you do not want that to happen. This kind of thing happens to so many people and they end up getting hurt.
You need to realize there are soooo many other guys out there, and you were probably not going to be with this guy forever, so try and find yourself a new better guy.
And that was absolutely HORRIBLE what he did to you, I can't even imagine how much that would hurt me if I found out my boyfiend did that to me. I don't know how you were able to get through that...
Hun, I really think you just need to get this boy out of your life, he is just going to continue hurting you, and probably use you, and you really don't want to get hur againg do you?
Well I hope everthing goes well, if you need anything drop it in my inbox..
I have a chance to be on the Oprah Winfrey show. She is looking to interview people with a mental illness and I have schizophrenia. I have been published in other magazines before for how I have managed to live with my condition; but have never been on television.
Some of my friends are telling me to go for it; but I don't know if I want this much exposure. Does anyone have any reasons why I shouldnt go on the show? And Pros or Cons? I havent made up my mind yet!
I think that is a great idea for you to go. It will be a chance to tell people about what you have gone through and people will be able to understand the condition more..so I really think you should do it. It is also an amazing opportunity that most people will never get to experience!
Well I hope you have an amazing time if you do it!!!