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Should i give him another chance?
Well me and this guy dated for a really long time and he would tell me how much he loved me where always together at school and we would talk on the phone all the time but we barely ever hungout besides at school he always said he would come over then he wouldnt and he wouldnt call to say he wasnt coming over and sometimes he was really mean to me. Well about a month ago i found out that he has a girlfriend that lives in another town and he was going out with her the whole time we were dating. of course i broke it off with him and we stopped talking just recently he started talking to me alot again and he says that he loves me and he is really scared because he thinks that he wont get another chance with me but he is stil going out with that other girl he told me he would break up with her for me and the only reason he went out with her was because he didnt think i wanted to go out with him even tho i really did i still do i care about him so much but i know that he is a player and i dont know if i can trust him. i try so hard not to talk to him and to act like i dont like him but when i see him i cant help but want to talk to him and hug him and just be with him. but i dont know if i should trust him and give him another chance because the other day he told me him and his girlfriend where about to break up and then he told my friend they where doing really great and he says that he loves her but he also says that he loves me more and he flirts with my friends right in front of me We where best friends before we dated and i dont know what to do i miss being close to him as a friend and i miss dating him. I cry all the time because i miss him but i know he isnt worth it but i just cant help caring about him. Sorry this is really long..
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hey hun
yeh i know love is a big work but a cheat is always a cheater thats a fact and if he really did love you he wouldt flirt with your friends in front of you he would try to get you back and seeing what he does i think he wants to go out with you for a reason or soemthing like that but hey move on a guy isnt worth all the tears waste your tears on something joyful then a boy because some boyz are just cheats and lies and that one is definetly both so move on theere is some one out threre you just need time and you might think of him and all that (thats like so normal ) trying hanging with your friends adn shopping ( girls favourite sport ) :) well the guy isnt wotrth your love you can do alot better
well take care mwa mwa hope i helped
love : hilda mwa please reply bak :)
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Should you get back with him? Get back with a guy who deliberately cheated on you and lied to you for a really long time?
That's an easy one. No. There are better guys out there, ones that won't cheat and won't lie to you.
This wasn't a mistake he made while he was drunk, or something. He spent a long time lying to you (and probably to the other girl) and cheating on you and her. He proved that you absolutely can't trust him. If you get back with him after all that, he's GUARANTEED to hurt you again.
Don't let him do that to you.
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My advice to you is just to move on...I am serious if you don't you will probably get hurt, and you do not want that to happen. This kind of thing happens to so many people and they end up getting hurt.
You need to realize there are soooo many other guys out there, and you were probably not going to be with this guy forever, so try and find yourself a new better guy.
And that was absolutely HORRIBLE what he did to you, I can't even imagine how much that would hurt me if I found out my boyfiend did that to me. I don't know how you were able to get through that...
Hun, I really think you just need to get this boy out of your life, he is just going to continue hurting you, and probably use you, and you really don't want to get hur againg do you?
Well I hope everthing goes well, if you need anything drop it in my inbox..
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