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huge ass and boobs. what to do?
hey!can a girl with my problem answer this and a guy who actually knows what he's talking about?? i'm 14 and am a DD, i have a huge ass, and just so i can get the best advice- i happen to think i'm really pretty! (so not conceited) but i feel like guys only like me for that and i don't do anything with guys so i don't have a rep or anything but i'm completely embarresed about my boobs and i hate wearing....shirts in getneral. even through my sweatshirts you can see them!!! don't tell me to be happy with what i've got because its notpossible. i've tried every kind of bra, nothing makes me look smaller than a D or a C. what can i do?!?!?!?! THEIR HUUUUGEEEEE!!!!!! can a girl with my problem answer this and a guy who actually knows what he's talking about??
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well unless you're gonna get reduction surgery (and i don't advise this), you should learn to live with your natural bustiness.
to be fair to the guys, big boobs and a big ass/hips are attractive to them instinctively because that means you're good for child bearin'! ^_^ also, to cite a rather crude though mildly amusing phrase, with fleshy thighs and ass, there's "more cushion for the pushin'" when having sex. :P these words come straight from the mouths of my guy friends and boyfriend (i've got a lot of guy friends that treat me like a guy friend--who just happens to be a girl--, so they tell me a lot of good stuff that i probably wouldn't know otherwise ^_^).
clothing-wise, reducing bras that fully cover most of your breasts are probably the way to go. for shirts, don't wear anything too thin or tight or low-cut, and cotton is probably better than stretchy stuff; for shirt styles, button-up, medium to big pin stripes, long-sleeved, moderate square necklines. for pants, stay away from ones that are really tight around the waist because you don't want your hips sticking out over the waistband (don't think i'm saying you're big or anything, i just hate when even stick-like girls wear jeans so tight they look like they have rolls of fat spilling over the sides), try and find pants that aren't low-rise and don't have sides that are sewn streamlined (completely straight).
i'm not sayin' you have to dress like a nun, just try and keep your dress code slightly more modest than what a&f and american eagle would have you keep it (sorry, small a&f/americaneagle bashing moment ^_^). if wearing sweatshirts doesn't seem to work, you could try loose long sweaters or sweatercoats, or knit ponchos (not the wimpy ones that are made with less string than on a spool of thread), or shawls (i have a bunch of old knit "granny" ones that i adore ^_^).
i know that this worked for me (although it was my natural habit to do so anyway...), it was easy for me because i actually like things like "kill bill" and video games and warhammer and talking about the most efficient way to kill someone with a pen (erm, yeah, don't ask...^_^), and i'm more laid back and i much more low-maintenance than most girls. if you think the guys are still concentrating more on the more prominent parts of you rather than on what you're talking about, talk about them (sports they play, video games they like). this isn't for all girls, but try and be like "one of the guys", hang out with them as if you possess the y chromosome. ^_^
hope this helped. good luck!
~*kitty*~
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Firstly make sure you have a bra that fits you properly, if your boobs are lifted they will look better and you will feel better. Surgery is a drastic option and something that is best left till you are older and can ask for medical advice. If they are so heavy they give you backache, something can probably be done about them. In the meantime all you can do is get that bra, accept that you are amply endowed and wear them with pride. Good luck
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im the complete opposite of you but ill try to help...ok as far as getting guys too look at the rite places just play hard to get. yea i kno thats sorta old but if you really like a guy just make him want to be around you more && not because of your body. Give him compliments make him like you for whats in your head
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Hmm sounds just like me!
I totally agree with guys just liking you for your nice "assets." Like I walk down the street wearing like jeans and a t-shirt and somebody will whistle at me..it was flattering like the first 3 times..but then it was kinda annoying.
But about the guys likeing you for your body, ya there are a lot of guys who are sick and will like you for that, but there are also some sincere guys out there who will like you for other things..trust me I know because I happen to be lucky and find a guy like that...so I think the best thing to do is to just talk to the guy and see if he is like staring in places he shouldnt or if he is just constantly checking you out. And if you are able to actually talk to a guy he maybe will actually like you for you.
About being embarassed about them...ugh...I know how that is too...it sucks..like all these girls are like "oh I wish my boobs were as big as yours"..and I am like you sure as hell don't..But they don't understand..But that goes to the cliche thing of nobody is happy with what they have and always want what someone else has...But it is true in a way. The only way you can change the size is to consider getting a breast reduction, I am probably going to because I am already having back problems.
For me I like sports bras, they are comfy, and they just fit better, and they aren't as harsh on my back.
Well, I hope I helped, if you need anything drop it in my inbox..I hope everything goes OK...
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Hey girl, I have pretty huge boobs too. Haha, god knows why, I probably got them from my mom, cause I'm stick thin. But anyway, there's nothing you really can do. Boobs are made from your fat tissue, so I guess if you really want to have smaller ones -- try and lose some weight. I'm not saying you're in any way overweight, but that is basically the only way to get smaller boobs. When you're older, you can have a surgery to reduce the size, but I think it's either if you're 18 or 21 until you're able to get that done. Don't hide under sweatshirts, babe, you're a girl. You're supposed to have boobs, and guys in highschool are shallow. To be honest, that is probably what they like you for. But just try and add more personality when you're talking to guys, that way they see you as a fun person to hang around with and not just a hot one. Haha, but being pretty helps, luucky! Good luck girl! :]
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I wear shirts with the built in bra they work wonderful for me. Or you can try a Sports bra.
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