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okay well on friday this kid is supposed to eat me out. this is the first time that its gonna happen to me and like im kinda scared. like i dont have any regrets or anything like i know i want to do it im just scared like idk.. can someone tell me like what to expect and like tips or something.. ill comment high but if its stuff like about stds and to young or sumthing ill rate loww :]
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If it's the first time anyone's going down on you, I think the most important thing to remember is to stay relaxed. I know this sounds selfish, but don't obsess about the guy (what he's feeling, whether he likes it, whether you look or smell or taste weird, etc). Guys really aren't thinking about whatever flaws you think you have. They're just happy to be there. This is about getting YOU off, not him (at least, right away)and he obviously feels the same way, or he wouldn't be doing it. So just relax and don't worry. It's common to be nervous, and if he's not a douchebag, he'll take this into account. Laughing or blushing or feeling ridiculously shy aren't weird, and if you get overwhelmed and want to back out, hey, if he's a good guy, he'll respect that. Anyway, laughing takes the tension out of situations.
Don't expect him to be perfect. Guys don't have girl parts, so there's a good chance they're winging it, at least partially. PLEASE don't be afraid to give him (non-judgemental) pointers. It'll lead to a better experience for you and him. He really will appreciate this, and it won't come off bitchy. And if it takes a while, don't get frustrated or embarrassed. You probably know your body pretty well, but he doesn't. Likewise, (I know this sounds weird) your body doesn't know HIM very well. It can take a while to get used to different techniques. Finally, if he doesn't end up getting you off, don't be embarrassed or ashamed. I mean, it'll just lead to more chances for him to do so, which are probably okay with you. ;) Good luck.
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