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I used to live with my brother but now i have to live with my other brother and he's constantly drinking and hitting me i don't know what to do if i go to the police then i'll end up in a home again and i don't want to go back to one of those places and if i run away then i'll end up on the street again and that's no good either, but i can't stay here it's getting harder and harder to deal with him and he keeps trying to rape me what can i do? (link)
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tell your other brother , thats horrible.. but when your with the brother your with now and hes in a good mood you need to talk to him about it and tell him its wrong and you cant live a life like that. but if you dont wanna tell anyone like police or school tell an aunt? or tell a close friend so you could stay with her for a while and talk about it with her mom.. hope i helpedd
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I'm so fed up. A year ago I moved house and I hate it where I am now. My 'friends' hate me, they're always making fun of me and sneering at me and saying stuff about me which isn't even true. They're just so immature and I don't join in with the childish things they do. So they call me boring. I never go out, I just stay at my computer at weekends because I have no friends to go out with. I hate my life so much. I used to have the best friends in the world, and sometimes I cry because I miss them so much. although I sort of keep in contact I've only seen them twice and I can't get used to not seeing them everyday at school like before. I want to move back to where I came from because my friends hate me, but my mum likes it here and won't move back even though she knows I hate it. She says I'll get used to it and she doesn't understand. I think I have social anxiety anyway but she doubts it, it's like she thinks bad things can't happen to us or something. It's not really the actual place, just the fact that I have no friends, no life and my old friends are so far away and I miss them so much. I can't make new friends because I'm way too shy, I can't just go up to people and start talking, they probably hate me anyway. I often think about dying and stuff but I'm too much of a wimp to actually do anything though. Please help, I need to get my old life back, but how can I when I have no friends and I can't make any more? Thanks x (link)
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hey hun, i know exactly how you feel. i was part of the pretty, cool girls i guess in most of middle school then they completly ditched me so i was with a bunch of weird girls who were juet immature. so i chose to stay in and sit infront of the computer. i think that u should be on a sports team or go to the movies or mall and youll definetly find friends.. IM me sometime to talk xox
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I just broke up with my girlfriend but i still really really like her but i dont thinnk she likes me anymore i cant stop thinking about her what should i do?? (link)
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well why would you break up with her? you should tell her how u feel, who cares if she doesnt feel the same, her loss
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i am a 14/f and there is this boy that lives down the street from me that is a couple of years older than me and i really like him and want to get to know him better. Everytime that i am outside practicing volleyball he drives by and will wave but he never has said anything to me at all. What should i do to catch his eye? i really want to get to know him and he seems like a great guy to hang out with even if all we become is good friends. Please help me! Thanks! (link)
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walk by his house when he is outside and say hi and be like you go to the highschool? and maybe a conversation will start and ask if hed be interested in hangin out sometime
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there is a boy on the bus i ride..his name is nick..and he is soooo hot! how can i get him to notice me? he is shy and dosent really talk alot and i want him to notice me without it being that i like him too obvious...i'll rate! thanx! (link)
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when he looks over at you smile at him and look in his eyes, or when he gets on the bus smile at him .. during the ride talk to alot of people and let him hear your conversation and look over at him alot, hope i helped!xox
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My best friend was/is a guy. We'll call him Bob. Well Bob just got a girlfriend and they had been extremely tight before they went out. Now all of a sudden, Bob's barely talking to me or hanging out with me anymore. I miss hangingout with him. If I confronted him he'd probably listen but not do anything because he'd forget. Please help I really miss him :( (link)
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heyhunn! tell him you love being his friend and u dont wanna lose a awsome friend. and try to make planss in / for the near future.. hope i helped
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My younger sister has a lot of girlfriends, and they go out to places and meet guys, so my mom and one of my sisters' friends moms have been listening to her conversations on the phone, lets just say they aren't liking what they are hearing. My sister talks to a certain guy that has had a very sexual communication with her, she hardly knows this guy. I've known my boyfriend for over a year, and I know my mom wouldn't like the things we talk about either, and she talks about how she should take that guy away from my sister, and so now, me and my boyfriend fear that I will be banned from him, he moved, so the phone is all we have now. We really love each other, my younger sister would get over it if that guy was taken from her, but I know that I can't live without my guy if I were banned from him. We would go on and do the smart thing and cut off all "bad talking', but is that what we should really do? We are so used to it that sometimes it slips, but would it better or does anyone think we might be safe?
I RATE HIGH I SWEAR! (link)
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you should tell your mom that its not right for her to be listening, and tell your sister to stop talking about it on the phone, or you could take all phones in your room! haha hope i helpedd rate me
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Yeah...so my friend is staying at my house for a week because her parents are out of town. But my house is so....BORING! And the TV is broken, so that pretty much stinks. =( Any ideas what we can do??? ITS SOOOO BORING!!!! lol
13/f (both of us) (link)
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go to the movies , listen to music or make up a dance, go to a friends house, have some friends over or even go to the mall. doing friends hair and makeup can be fun sometimes too.. and if not all your tvs are broken watch a movie on another
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see,my boyfiend and i have been dating for a year and 7 months.I trust him completely, but i feel like he's losing interest in me.I thought about dumping the guy just to see what he would do,but see he's so prideful that he probably won't do anything about it just so he won't be the one comeing back to me.So, i don't want to risk that! Idon't want to lose him. Should i try it?? Should i talk to him first? What should i do guys? He's 10hrs.away from where i am. (link)
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do not try that.. just ask him one day, say i have great feelings for you and i know you did but i hope your not losing them
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ok my parents rele fight alot!!!wen i try to go to bed (well atleast try)there always yelling.i've tryed to break it up and talk it out but they yell more!!wat do i do??
sighned,
janice05 (link)
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when one of them isnt home talk to one of them and say it makes you upset and you cannot sleep, and they should try to talk things out
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Ok there's this grl at skewl and i HATE her so0o0o much. Well our Principal called us both down to the office once to talk to us...he asked us if we had ever gotten along and she said "Well at one point we were good friends" I was like WTF!?!? (not out loud of course) But anyway wenever she is mean to me (she is only wen shes with her friends and im not) i want to stand up to her but then i never find a chance or im afraid ill get in a fight and get suspended or something. Anyone kno wut i could do? Plz help...i rate good! (link)
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next time she does it just be like bitch grow up and get a life, you think your cool teasing me infront of people? and she'll probably be shocked and if she does anything just be like ew dont go near me your grosse.. haha
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ok i'm really good friends with this guy, and we have been friends for almost two years, and friends with benefits since february. we decided that we weren't gonna try to go out (i'm 17, he's 16). recently he got a girlfriend, but things aren't goin that well between them. i tutor him twice a week, and recently he tried to hit on me and stuff like that (we stopped the benefits when he got his girlfriend). he says he's gonna break up with her, but i don't want to do anything with him until they've actually broken up. how do i get him to understand that without being mean or making him think that i want them to break up? (link)
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when your tutoring him and he tries just be honest, say no (name) its hard for me to get with you when first of all you have a girlfriend and 2nd im beginning to have feeling for you, he'll probably be pretty shocked, see what happenss
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hey... my boyfriend and i just had a big talk and he wants to be in "time-out"
i have no clue what that means just that theres no kissing at school (so he said). now i dont know how to act around him or what to say to him
My questions are ... what do you think time-out is and how should i act around him at school???... im so confused and lost in all of this (link)
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he means your on a break and he needs sometime but you guys are still together, but im not him i dont know exactly what he means.. but i dont think hes embarrased of kissing in schools maybe you should just flirt with him in school and hug and stuff.. honestly you should just ask him, hope i helpedd ♥
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One of my old friends' never talked about guys. Like, we would be on the fone, and i would be talking about the guy i liked, and shed kinda just, "push away" the subject. She always said she never likes anyone, and she dosent think that anyone is "cute" or "Hot". I think thats kind of weird. Then one day, we were talking online, and she told me she was a lesbian. It was really awkward, and i really started to believe her, and then when i saw her the next day at school, she was like "omg that was hilarous last night! i was joking!"....I dont know but this kind of looks strange to me..Any ideas on why she might not like to talk about guys? oh by the way..i dont want to talk or ask her about this. thanks! (link)
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i think that you should talk about one of your guy friends and say i think he has the hots for you or soemthing and see her response, but honestly the best way is to approach her about it, just say it wouldnt matter to me, your still like my best friend through alot of things, or if u dont wanna tell her u wanna set her up with this really hot boy and see her reaction
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A really good friend of mine is going to the movies with this guy,tomorow, and i know all there gonna do is make out and touch eachother and stuff, it happened last time. She wants me to go, and i really wanna go too, and she said "bring one of your guy friends, itl be a double date!", and i said "okay!", but the truth is..i really dont have any. None..actually. I really wana go, and il feel akward if im really alone, and i dont want to tell her that im a loser! I dont know what to do, and i cant make any at school because i go to a school where theres no boys, and im really ugly so i cant really make any guy friends that want to kiss me. This makes me feel really bad, and shes so pretty so she could get like any guy..i dont know what to do. Ne suggestions, please? (link)
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just say "oh all of my guy friends are busy, im so mad" and then be like hook me up with one of your guys friends, itd be fun
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i have never baby sat for kids before but my neighbour has asked me to help. I really want to do this but the baby is only about 11 months old and i've no idea what to do with it . I'm really scared that it might have a cot death, or that i might drop it. Any tips? (link)
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11 months is almost a year and the baby should be crawling so its not a tiny young baby.. just hold it when your sitting down and what not
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Well lets see where do i start.. My mom and step dad got in a fight yesterday over my step dad not going places with her *like movies,out to eat,work out..* well anyways after a couple hours of all this my step dad left to go to work.. so then a little bit later my mom called me down stairs and was like you better end your relationship with your boyfriend soon cause he'll get you to where you dont wanna leave him *he already does* adn then he'll hurt you and he wont want to do anything with you anymore.. well then it turned into a big arguement with me and my mom she never exactly met my boyfriend *we been together almost a year.. and she thinks she knows this boy and thinks he's a complete asshole like my step dad is to her.. well anyways i said shit like that to her.. and she said okay whatever you'll see then... Well later on that night i was talkin to my boyfriend and then i started think bout what my mom said * i know i shouldnt let that shit get to me* but it bothered me and i brought it up to my boyfriend and he got mad and i hung up on him... then he texted me and said *baby im so sorry i love you, and that he dont want my mom interfering with our relationship..cause im the only person who he needs in his life cause im always there for him through anything..* Aww isnt it sweet well him and me are cool... but what should i say to my mom so this dont happen again...? (link)
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just tell her your young and its not like your going to marry the boy?.. tell her hes basically perfect for you right now and no problems are occuring=)
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ok, there is this guy, jason, he is like, almost perfect, to me anyways. He has alot of problems, emotionally, goin on with him right now and hes talkin to people about them, but not me. He talks to my friends and tells them not to tell anyone, so they won't tell me. No one knows i like him cause, well, i guess of traumatic experiences that keep me from opening up. I try to talk to him whenever i can and get to know him and maybe he'll start likin me and all, but i never can. My friend is always walkin with him to classes and all and they never talk or whisper to themselves about his problem and so i never talk to him or anything. I asked her why he won't talk to other people besides her and she said he doesn't feel like he can trust anyone. I really want him to talk to me and trust me, but i have no clue on how to accomplish this.... (link)
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hey babe! i think that you just need to be there for him and just be like hey i know u have some problems but you should talk about them with me.. just talk about the problems and try to make them better, if he has a screenname get it and talk through that and eventually let him know your feelingss.. hope i helpedd
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Ok i am 13 and i am a female. Ok well i went out with my really good friend about 2 months ago, well recantally he broke up with this girl who didnt like me and i had no clue who she was like i new her name but i had no clue who she was. well i like him again but see some of my friends tell me to just forget it and stop likeing him, but see i cant because hes always so nice and he messes with me and stuff and its so hard not to like him. and i want him to still mess with me but i just dont want to like him. or i want to like him but i just want him to like me back. do you have any advice on what i should do? (link)
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move on if he hasnt tried to be with you again, dont give it all youve got. but if you feel you honestly need and love him then tell him how you feel, just be yourself.. hope i helped!
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Im gonna buy my boyfriend some stuff for his birthday, but then i also want to make him something creative. I have no idea what to do! Can someone please help me???!?! (link)
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how long have you been seeing him? well i think you should get him some non expensive things and maybe make a card or like a big poster with memories and pictures of you two, like inside jokes and what not.. hope i helped xox
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