|
My best friend was/is a guy. We'll call him Bob. Well Bob just got a girlfriend and they had been extremely tight before they went out. Now all of a sudden, Bob's barely talking to me or hanging out with me anymore. I miss hangingout with him. If I confronted him he'd probably listen but not do anything because he'd forget. Please help I really miss him :(
[ ]
Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Work/School Relationships?
heyhunn! tell him you love being his friend and u dont wanna lose a awsome friend. and try to make planss in / for the near future.. hope i helped<3 rate pleasee
]
just call him sometimes and make plans that might work and maybe he just wants to be with his chick you know its called spendin time together well just find someone else to hang with its okay but at least yah are still friends and still talk some times!!
]
you say was/is a guy does that mean that its a possibility he is a girl?
]
Once a best friend starts dating it's only natural that other friends are going to feel a little left out. Male or female. Same thing will happen to him if you start seeing someone seriously.
If you happen to be female, you do have the extra burden of his girlfriend maybe not understanding the best friend thing. Which he should explain to her...but she still may not go for it. You may have to set her mind at ease that you aren't after her man. If she's really possessive though, you may just have to wait until he's had enough of her dictating who he can hang out with. If thats what is happening, he'll get tired of it sooner or later. I know that isn't much help...ask him about it anyway. :)
]
You need to tell him how you feel, Be honest and confont him and just tell him what you feel. That you can never spend anytime with him and when you want or need to talk to him hes always with his girlfriend. See what he says if he says ok he will hang out with you then say ok cool. If he says your been perfectic, tell him he just lost a friend. And walk away.
luv roxie
XxX♥XxX
]
"if" you confRonted him? See, THAT'S the pRoblem -- you *haven't*. You can guess and assume all day long, but you Really ought to discuss this with him; that's the best and most obvious way to get youR feelings acRoss. Goodluck; I wish you the best.
]
You basiclly answerd your own question. You need to comfort him. Hes your best friend and he will listen and try to change. Just let him know how you feel. x0
]
well if it were me i would totally confront him and tell him how much you enjoy hanging out with him and miss him ... i know if thiswas happening with me and one of my guy friends they would listen if i confronted them ... odds are they really miss you too but it could be his girlfriend telling him not to. she mite feel like your taking him away from her... you could try making a plan for all yall to get together so everyone would be happy
hope i helped love ashley
]
try 2 talk 2 him about how much u miss hangin with him and that maybe u him & his girlfriend can hag out 2gether.
]
if i was in your posistion i would tell him face to face that i miss him and i want to hang out with himmore and maybe he wont forget and will hang out with you move, i hope i helped
<3 lauren
]
More Questions:<<< Previous Question
| Next Question >>>
|
|