okay i have side bangs and i just wanted to trim them a little. i didnt want to go to a hair place just to do that so i asked me mom to. yes bad idea. i told her under my eye and then she did it at my eyebrow!! i look so bad what can i do to fix it. it to short to put in the poof so i cant do that, what should i do i have school tomorrow!!!!!!1
Pull your hair in a ponytail for tomarrow and then you can get extensions.
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okay, here I am, there are some guys, who are kinda my -best-friends... they like me, and I don't know which one to go out with, please, help me pick one:
a) Fred: he's very calm and quiet, not speak a word. He only speaks to me and tells me only about his problems. Very cold hearted, yet nice at the same time. He has been crushing on me since fourth grade.
b) Tao: he's very popular and sensitive, he tells me everything and so do I. He always breaks up with his girlfriends anytime I'm available. He has been crushing on me since sixth grade.
c) Yoh: my ex-boyfriend. we broke up because of misunderstanding and now he wants to get back with me. He is sensitive, understadable, and nice. He's been crushing on me since fifth grade.
d) Leo: one of the nicest person to me. He's romantic and friendly. He's been waiting for me ever since sixth grade. That when he's been crushing me from.
e) Tony: a friend from kindergarten. He's so nice, sensitive, and popular. He's been crushing on me since eigth grade.
f) Richie: my ex-boyfriend in seventh grade. He's smart, intelligent, and super rich. He's been crushing on me since sixth grade.
g) Reid: my ex-boyfriend in sixth grade. He's popular, girls love him and stuffs, and he's athletic. He's been crushing on me since second grade.
They all are confessing love to me!! (They all go to different school, so if I date all of them, there won't be any problems, but I can't do that!!) Help me!!!
Fred: Avoid avoid avoid. Someone who talks about their problems all the time will get really old really fast.
Tao: Sounds like a player. He'll likely break up with you for someone else, or cheat on you.
Yoh: Sounds good, but popularity shouldn't matter.
Leo: Also sounds good. Probably the best
Tony: You're really risking ruining an old, old friendship if you go out with this guy.
Richie: You didn't list a good reason to go out with him. Smart and intelligent are the same thing, and richness shouldn't matter.^_-
Reid: Popularity shouldn't matter. Girls loving him could actually be a negative. You'll probably worry a lot if you know girls are always hitting on him.
Leo sounds the best. However, I don't know any of these people, so of coarse you'll have to decide for yourself.
I wouldn't risk ruining your friendship with Tony though concidering you have so many choices and he obviously doesn't stand out from the others (or else you wouldn't be seeking advice).
Good luck.
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alright well eversince i was very young,
i've always had this fear of small circles in a
cluster. they just freak me out. whenever i see
a cluster of things [ie:airbubbles in water,the teeth of a comb,polka dots, bard codes] anything related to that, i FREAK OUT. i almost want to cry, and i dont know what to do. whenever i tell my parents, they laugh at me, and say i have an OCD.
but wont take me to the doctors to see what it really is. they make me sick to my stomach.
someone please help me. has anybody
ever heard of a phibia like this?
I've never heard of this phobia, but I myself have pretty severe OCD when I'm not on my meds, and I can tell you this alone is not OCD.
Everyone has a phobia, so there's probably no name for it. You should also always avoid medication at all costs. It's recommended that people go on it if they either are getting to a point where they are constantly miserable, or it's taking up 4 hours or more of your day.
Best of luck to you.
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hey im 15/f and today this girl brooke shes a grade ahead of me. And today she was just talking and she said she had to write a story for english class. And before she talked about this kid named cody and i "hooking up" but i only like him as a friend. But she is trying to hook us up and she keeps on embarrasing us and saying that we want each other bad and crap like that. Which is really making me mad! SERIOUSLY! and i told them i didn't like him. But her english story was about this girl named ashley because thats who i am. And she said that i was madly in love with cody and stuff like that. And at the end i guess he ditched me and me and his new girlfriend got in a fight. Which is really stupid. I mean cody is the class clown i like him as a friend hes funny and yea. But im getting sick and tired everyday she says that we want each other and we know it blah blah bla is there anything i can say or anything to make her stop.. ANYTHING! and im not a nark i dont go and tell teachers or anything i'll rate 5s! Thanks alot
Oh that's easy enough. You should go to the principle and say she's harasssing you. That's harassment, and it's sexual in nature. Or just threaten to do it, cuz you could be frowned upon for doing it. Then again, if you say you're going to do it, and she keeps bothering you, you should do it.
It sounds like things are getting wayyy out of hand if she's writing about you two.
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me and my boyfriend broke up this morning online because he "just wanted to be friends." i want to say something to him really sweet that will make him love me again. i know i can't make him love me but i just want to let out my feelings and to let him know i still love him. if anyone could kinda write a few sentences that i can send to him to let him know i still love him, that would be great. no poems or songs though please. im 13/f. thanks. automatic ones if you say that i can't make him love me because i KNOW i cant.
Dear ex-boyfriend,
I still love you.
From,
Silly 13 year old girl.
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Sorry, that was rude.
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I know this may seem stupid. but i cannot stand freaking "popular" people. i have an advice collumn, and everyday i have a different message in my inbox from them like "stop being jelous of the popular people" or "why dont you wear preppy clothes and dress like everyone else? you'll never be popular if you do." and i sware im not jealous, and i wear all the same clothes they do. why do they think there the best? there really not that great. and i know im not a loser, so why do they call me one? they are all extremely mean, and full of themsleves. i dont want to be friends with them, but is there any way i can make them stop this? i really cant take it anymore and its really lowering my self esteem. pleaes i need help as soon as i can get it! thank you so so much!
love always.
oh bye the way if you are one of the popular people at your school, i'm really sorry im not being steriotypical and saying all popular poeple are like that. so please dont take thi the wrong way!
Once you get inside a few popular people's lives, you realize things aren't always that great. They're pretty much like everyone else.
I was never popular in school, but around 9th grade, I saw a HUGE change in how people acted compared to 7th grade. People seem to eventually get over their immature years. While there will still be popular people, they'll be less prone to single you out.
Although I was verbally picked on more than almost anyone I know in 7th grade, I worked through it, and now I'm well known and liked by my school, but I don't hang with the popular groups outside of school, or even that much in school.
People will change. Just be happy and nice. If you're outgoing, people will like you. Also, give it a few more years. 11th and 12th grade were when even the total assholes (with an exception of those few who will never change) changed their ways.
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15/f...well i was stupid and went out with this guy ive been best friends with since sixth grade and were now in 9th and so it was a few months and everytyhing was perfect and i just told myself everything was wrong but it wasnt and so i broke up with him for no reason at all i was just like its over.. and so its been about two months and he went out with this other chick and they broke up and now i realize what a big mistake ive made and we were BEST friends we told each other everything and now he wont even look at me and i want him back but i dont expect that i just want it to be the way it was before..but i dont know what exactly to say to him last day of schools tomorrow..i know too late. any suggestions on what i could say ?
I think it'd be best to let him know you just want to be friends. You could even say you were afraid if you went too deep in your relationship, you would ruin your best friendship. That's a good reason to say you broke up with him.
It's never too late to apologize or to try to fix things. If he still doesn't want to talk, think about the whole thing until you are crying (don't fake it or you might feel bad) and go hug him and say you still want to be friends. Make sure he knows you "never meant to hurt him." which I'm sure is true.
If he still doesn't want that you can give him a call in about a month. If he turns away from you on your last attempt tomorrow I'd definitely give it 2 weeks to a month for him to heal before you call him, or else he will be more likely to ignore your calls.
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Can you get emancipated from a sibling? And if so..have you heard anyone who has done that?
HAhahahaha! I'm sure many people with siblings can relate. ;)
You can't get emancipated from a sibling unless they are your caretaker.
Goodluck and try not to kill them.
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Okay, so I dye my hair a lot. Well, I havn't cut it all year, and its still the same length and I think its gotten shorter. I straighten it with a wet/dry straightner when its wet and I wash it once or twice a week. How do I get my hair to grow faster? B/C apparently all the crap I put it through is why its so short.
I rate high! Thanks in advance.
You can't make your hair grow faster. Perhaps if you stopped doing stuff to it, it wouldn't deteriorate. Also, you could get extensions.
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15/f...i went out with this guy ive been best friends with since sixth grade and were now in 9th and so it was a few months and everything was perfect and i just told myself everything was wrong but it wasnt and so i broke up with him for no reason at all i was just like its over.. and so its been about two months and he went out with this other chick and they broke up and now i realize what a big mistake ive made and we were BEST friends we told each other everything and after he wouldnt even look at me and the past week ive been just trying to make small talk and he'll talk to me and he gives me that look like " make it better please" but he doesnt act like that you know?..i want him back so bad i miss him soo much but i dont expect that i just want it to be the way it was before and ..
You don't expect you want things back to the way they were before? You mean friends or dating?
When you broke up with him, you just said, "It's over." Maybe that's why it's upset.
Your entire paragraph is incoherent, and you never asked a question.
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hey everone ok well i have this friend and she's mad at me /c i told some people about this guy she told me abuout.. and ya we're not friends nmore.. and she lives across the street from me!!! omg now her friends r making fun of me.. and today one of them wuz making fun of me of how i walk... and ya my mom thinks im friends w/ her still and i can't tell her that we're not friends nemore over some stupid guy!! cuz she'll get really mad at me!! so what should i do? pleese help me!!!
I'm having some hard times with a few friends as well. It's my last year in high school so things could end badly, so I know how you feel.
I guess the bottom line is you shouldn't have told anyone. Perhaps if you didn't know the info was confidential you could tell her, or you can apologize. Other than that there's nothing you can do. She'll forgive you or she won't and you'll have to move on and find newer, better friends.
It's not cool that they're making fun of you though.
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i do 100-200 pushups a day and theyre not getting rid of the flab under my arm any ideas how i rly need help i dont wanna wear sweatshirts forever. ill rate 5's
I'm not saying you're concidering doing this first part, but it's just a precaution and things you can warn your friends about.
Well, starving yourself isn't the answer. When you starve yourself, you lose weight too quickly and your body releases chemicals that make you smell HORRIBLE. Oh yeah, and your body eats away your organs.
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Now as far as exercise; there are sooo many diets out there, and most of them work about the same. Treadmills are bad for your knees, so I'd recommend an elliptical running machine, or a bike. Either way if you want to lose (fat) weight, it needs to be cardio exercising. Weigh lifting mostly just builds muscle.
Right now what I'm doing is going every other day on an elliptical machine. You can look them up on Google image search if you don't know what they are. It's good to do cardiovascular exercise for about 30 mins at a time.
Oh yeah, I just learned that Gatoraid is a life saver. Seriously, there was an immense difference when I worked out with and without Gatoraid. It gave me enough energy to keep going for a while.
Junk foods around the house need to go. It's always good to have healthier alternatives. If you have junk around and easily accessible, you'll pretty much find yourself eating it.
Hope this helps, good luck! I'm doing the same thing as you right now.
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Okay so there's this boy:). blah blah blah. He's so cute & all. He sits behind me in 7th period and I have 1st & 8th with him as well. We flirt ALOT & alot of people think we should go out. We're always together except outside of school. I signed his yearbook & he got mad because I didn't write my number! He can't stand me to be mad at him & will give me this pity sort of thing. I'm 5'2 5'3ish so I'm not exactly Shaq. The thing is, he's a little shorter than me! It really bothers me with a guy being shorter. I like him and all but I'm afraid that if I went out with him it would be wierd. I don't know what to do please help! I'll rate for GOOD answers.
He'll grow. Just go out with him.
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i have a really bad phobia of brown recluse spiders. its getting to the point where i cant sleep at night, and im contstantly checking under chairs, under tables, on walls of smaller spaces, and on celings and corners of rooms when i walk in, and i always feel like somethings crawling on me. i feel like im going crazy, what can i do to get over this??
I have OCD, and it's not OCD as the other person suggested. It's just a phobia. There are a few methods of curing phobias, but if this persists for more than a few months and it's taking up a couple of hours a day, I'd definantly see if there's some kind of a medicine you could get on. But avoid medicine at all costs.
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ok i'm GONNA lose weight i'm gonna do 35+ crunches everyday 20+ lunges and my meals will consist of the following:
Breakfast: some sort of fruit,and either a piece of toast, or a gronola bar with a piece of fruit.
Lunch: baked chips, fruit, and (help me with what kind of sandwich) water.
Dinner: salad, chicken, and water
ok i hope this is good but if this isnt please help me out and tell me what to do.
thx
I'm not saying you're concidering doing this first part, but it's just a precaution and things you can warn your friends about.
Well, starving yourself isn't the answer. When you starve yourself, you lose weight too quickly and your body releases chemicals that make you smell HORRIBLE. Oh yeah, and your body eats away your organs.
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Now as far as exercise; there are sooo many diets out there, and most of them work about the same. Treadmills are bad for your knees, so I'd recommend an elliptical running machine, or a bike. Either way if you want to lose (fat) weight, it needs to be cardio exercising. Weigh lifting mostly just builds muscle.
Right now what I'm doing is going every other day on an elliptical machine. You can look them up on Google image search if you don't know what they are. It's good to do cardiovascular exercise for about 30 mins at a time.
Oh yeah, I just learned that Gatoraid is a life saver. Seriously, there was an immense difference when I worked out with and without Gatoraid. It gave me enough energy to keep going for a while.
Junk foods around the house need to go. It's always good to have healthier alternatives. If you have junk around and easily accessible, you'll pretty much find yourself eating it.
Hope this helps, good luck! I'm doing the same thing as you right now.
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i have this vibrating massaging thing and i put it down there and it feels wicked good.. and like within a minute i feel like REALLY good but it lasts litterally 5 seconds.. is that an orgasm and is this masturbating? also one more thing, by doing that is that bad? like would it affect my eggs in the ovaries and stuff from the vibration of the massager?
Yup that's masturbating and orgasm. It won't do anything to your eggs or ovaries. In fact, it's so safe and common they make toys that are vibrators just for women.
Just make sure your cellphone is clean.
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If your pregnant how long till u cant abort it? or can u abort it anytime? ty in advance :)
Because people have given you your answer, I'd like to provide you with additional advice.
The abortion agencies are TERRIBLE. Planned parenthood will pay for your abortion, but if you want to keep your baby, they won't give you any financial help, but will ask you over and over to abort.
Here's a link from someone who used to be an abortionist, talking about the evils of the agency.
Abortionists speak
http://www.abortionfacts.com/providers/providers.asp
http://www.abortionfacts.com/life_or_choice/unsure.asp For people who aren't sure
http://www.abortionfacts.com/PAS/PAS.asp Post abortion syndrome.
http://www.abortionfacts.com/planned_parenthood/planned_parenthood.asp Evils of planned parenthood.
http://www.abortionfacts.com/effects/effects.asp effects of abortion
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Ok i started dating a 23 year old when i was 13( Grose Huh) i like him...we dated for like 6 er 7 mounths, when he said he was movin for a new job er sumin like that!well we had sex before he left on friday night.i got pregnant. i called him right away. he told me to get an abbortion i said ok but i didn't really. well he seen me when i started to show. and confronted me. i told him the truth! ever since then he calls me randomly on everyone elses cell phones so i don't kow who it is...and like when i cruise mainstreet he follows me!! What do i do?
Alright, if he's 23, he knows better than to be having sex with a 13 year old. He told you to get an abortion because he is more worried about himself getting in trouble than you getting in trouble.
The only way to correct this problem is to kill you. That's likely what he's stalking you for. He might be trying to find you in a position where you are alone so he can get rid of you (the evidence). Tell the police, and have tell your parents.
Don't go anywhere alone. I'm warning you, this man is very dangerous. I just know it.
Please contact me at krupple@gmail.com and I'll help you further.
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what causes herpes exactly. like if you're making out with somone who has herpes does it automatically get transfered to you. what if they have a sore in their mouth. if you touch it does it mean you will get it or does the sore have to be like cut open and sorry but one more thing. this is going to sound really immature, wel this whore question does but here goes. can you get herpes in your eye?
Herpies are also called cold sores and fever blisters when they're on your mouth.
Sores from herpies can develop around mucus membranes or wet parts of your body, such as your mouth, eyes, anus or genitalia.
If you kiss somebody with a cold sore, you can get one as well. Once you have cold sores there is no way to make it go away. It will come up every so often for the rest of your life.
If he touches his own cold soar/fever blister/herpies on his mouth, and then touches your vagina, eyes or mouth, there is a chance that it could spread. If he were to make direct contact from his mouth to your vagina, you could contract it much more easily than the previous way I just mentioned.
The same goes for him. If he touches his own mouth, and then his genitals, it could spread down there, and then he'd get it there for the rest of his life.
There is Herpies Simplex 1 and 2 viruses. Simplex 1 usually occurs on the mouth, and 2 usually on your privates, but not always.
Around 80% of the population gets a cold sore on their mouth at least once in their life. 40% of people have recurring sores (if I remember right).
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i have ben having this yellowish, borwnish discharge for the past 4 days. is this normal?
That doesn't sound good.
You didn't say if you were a boy or a girl.
Also, it's important to post if you've been sexually active. If you have been active, it's even MORE important that you see a doctor.
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