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Hey Guys! It has been FOREVER! :(

But I'm back! (as of October 08) If you don't know or remember me my name is Ashley :) Currently 16 years old and a junior in highschool. I don't complain much and you'll always see a smile on my face.

PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE don't be shy with asking to my inbox. I'll do my best to answer any question with any subject :)

Want to just talk to me? Go here..
http://www.advicenators.com/talkaboutme.php?userboard_id=27150

advice

I really need help because I'm starting to get extremely scared.

13/f

Well two nights ago when I got out of the shower I noticed my right breast was really darkish blotchy brown around the nipple but there was like a circle of white around the nipple seperating the two. Also the nipple kind of looks swollen. My left breast looks fine and I thought if I ignored it, it would go away but it looks like its getting worse.

Please tell me if you know what is wrong. I'm too embaressed to tell someone but if I need to I will.

P.S. I tried researching but I couldn't find anything.

Tell someone and go to the doctors to get it checked out.

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how long do theytake to charge

4 hours. =[

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I'm getting really frustruated with my mom. Everytime I don't get invited to a party or some big event my mom goes off asking me a million questions about why I wasn't invited. She rubs it in more and more that I wasn't invited in the first place. Then when I ask her to stop, she goes off about how dramatic I am and thats probably why I wasn't invited.

What should I do?

My Mom does the same thing but one day I just burst out crying cause it sucks to feel that way from the one person whos supposed to help. Then my Mom finally realized what she was doing. So what I'm telling you is make your Mom realize that she's hurting your feelings. I'm not sure what to tell you on what to do to get her to but once she does realize, she'll stop. She doesn't want to hurt the person she loves most believe me.

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do you know where i can download free photoshop?
thank you

Nothings free.

They always give you a feel trial but for the good photoshops you need to pay for it. I've looked EVERYWHERE and I got nothing, sorry.

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13/f
Ok I like this guy. But he it's really complicated. one of my best friends just broke up with him (neither of them still like each other, shes actually going out with someone else now and he doesnt care but still) and one of my other best friends also likes him (she doenst know i like him). what do I do?

Talk to each of your friends.

If both are honestly ok then go for it.

But remember that friends are the ones eating ice cream with you when you and your boyfriend split up so don't ever let a guy ruin a friendship. =]

Hope I helped! Good luck.

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i love a girl called grace but my brother makers the mick about her he calles he a slag and all that he upsets me i tell my mum and dad they tell him off but he still does it!
please tell me what to do so he wont make fun of me no more!
from curt001

Can you reword that?

Send me a personal question and I'll try to help you out but that is hard to understand.

Sorry.

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15/F

Hi, I'm looking for a celebrity who has this look:

Light Blonde (and black?) hair
Usually does smokey black eyes
Cool / fair skin colour

I would like to see how to change up my look

Thanks so much!

http://www.bartcop.com/carrie-underwood1105.jpg

http://static.flickr.com/52/158249220_1bf7e31597_o.jpg

http://msnbcmedia.msn.com/j/ap/02fd9974-e397-4ab4-adf0-8cddfc50a377.hmedium.jpg

http://content.answers.com/main/content/wp/en/thumb/9/93/220px-OC_Promo.jpg

Message me if you need anymore ideas. =]

Hope I helped.

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I have uploaded a video on youtube, and it says that one person has added my video to their favorites. Is there a way to see who the user is?

No, sorry. =[

I have been trying to figure it out for the longest type but I finally gave up lol.

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Does anyone know where I can get music videos to put in my myspace or to just watch online for free with no downloads?

thanks =)

Good old myspace itself. =]

Or you could go with the classic youtube.com or tinypic.com.

Hope I helped.

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does anyone know how many pictures they are now allowing you to have on myspace? i know they changed it awhile ago from 12 to 14, but i saw this one girl that had more than 14. so does anyone know the exact amount you can have? thanks

32 pics. =]

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i think i have OCD.
like i always have to touch a doorknob 5 times to make sure the door is completely shut. and i have like to sort everything i eat.
one time when i was in disney world i stepped on a tile with my right foot but i couldnt with my left cuz it was a long line and i cried myself to sleep every night for 3 days. whenever i tell my mom she says: Oh you'll grow out of it but im 13 and this has been going on for a while. what can i do???

Talk to your guidance counsler at your school since your Mom won't listen.

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lately my mom's been acting strange. she run's more errands, goes back and forth cleaning the house, and is nervous when she cooks dinner. im so confused! when i ask her whats wrong she doesn't say anything and walks away. what is going on? no, my parents aren't getting a divorce, trust me.

-Patrice

She is probably just really stressed right now.

It could be because of work, the holidays, or family issues with maybe a sister, mom, or brother. It could be anything.

She probably doesn't want to talk to you about whatever is bugging her maybe because it might affect you, or she might just feel you don't need to know.

I would just give her some room and time and it might blow over. If it doesn't after awhile then talk to your Dad about it, but for now I wouldn't worry too much.

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I am short for my age, only like 5 foot and I way around 100 pounds. When I am wearing clothes, I look like I am alot less then 100. ANyways, I kind of have this "pouch" like where my belly button is but above that I am skinnier. How can I get rid of this "pouch" So I have more of a flatter stomach?

I have that too.

You can't get rid of that. Every girl has that because that is where all the extra 'stuff' is so we can have babies, haha.

Just trust me, the skinniest girls in the world have it so obviously it's not fat which means you can't work it off.

Sorry if that didn't help but I thought I should tell you when I read this question.

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Okayy soo i heard this song and im like in love with it and i really want to get it as a ring tone but i have no idea what its called ive tryed googling it and looking up the lyrics on lyric sites but nothings came up its like..
-I cant explain this feeling i think about it everyday and even tho we've moved on it gets so hard to walk away im gonna remember you your gonna remember me thanks!!! :]]

Omg I was trying to figure this out right when I read it cause I started singing it and of course I couldn't remember it. Then right when I remembered it someone answered but oh well.

Paula Deanda- Walk Away.

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15/f

I have this best friend and we have been friends for 11 years. Well she is kinda hard to buy for durring the holidays. She never really say what she likes and what she doesnt. I know her realyy well but when it comes to buying gifts its hard. Most years i can find something good and it works out but this year i coulnt. I had no clue what to get her, but her favorite store is american egale. So worst came to worst and got her a giftcard to there for 30$. Is that a bad gift? We have been friends for so long a gift card seems unthoughful. I feel like a bad friend.

The same thing happened to me last year. I got my friend a gift card because I didn't know what to do and I was running out of time.

I would suggest putting a few little things in there just to make it a little more personal.

Try a picture frame with a picture of you two in there, a necklace or bracelet, earrings, a movie, you guys always watch, etc.

Be creative and get her a card.

Hope I helped. =]

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my boyfriend and i thought i was pregnant, because i forgot the last time i had my period. we were just laying together last night and he had his hand on my stomach and then he took his hand off like he took something out though, so i was like what are you doing? and he said your not pregnant anymore so then i said, what do you mean? and he said i prayed to god and told him we werent ready and to please take the baby away because you dont want a baby right now. and then he was saying id have my period soon and that everything will be ok now. and, i got it this morning. yeah its a silly question but the only reason why im questioning it is because i did feel like i had a little person in me and that i loved it, and as crazy as it sounds..i actually felt like i missed it like it actually was gone after he said all that. so my question is, is that even possible god could have done that?

It all depends on your beliefs.

It could have been a coincidence or it really could have been God. No one on here could tell you what happened because no one knows.

Sorry if that doesn't help.

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My boyfriend wants a gift.

He wants it to be something that he can carry around.

And he has also recently said he wanted the something to have my name on it... like a bracelet... but something more masculine.

Any ideas?

http://us.st11.yimg.com/us.st.yimg.com/I/shimmerandstone_1927_1392613

http://us.st11.yimg.com/us.st.yimg.com/I/shimmerandstone_1927_2727346

http://us.st11.yimg.com/us.st.yimg.com/I/shimmerandstone_1927_1112314

You could engrave your name on those, but if those are out of the price range ($100-$150) then try a simple gold or silver chain depending on his style. I would suggest silver though.

Hope I helped. =]

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Hey well. I have a tote bag and a messenger bag. I just got my messenger bag in the summer and I have had my tote bag since the summer before the last school year (like 2 summers ago). My tote bag is getting kinda dingy, and I sorta want a new one but I don't know if I should just wait till the summer to get one or to just get it now during winter break. I dunno, what do you think?

Get it right now.

It will be cheaper and it's not like it will get messed up in the few months until summer since you've had your other one for two years.

Hope I helped. =]

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getting a hair cut- i'm 15/f, kind of a tomboy and i really like short hair. when i say short, i mean like a boys haircut. I had one when i was 10 but grew it out because people kept mistaking me for a boy! well now i want to cut it again and i need suggestions

i have blonde hair and i'm not fat at all but my face is round with kind of chubbyish cheeks so i need a haircut that will narrow my face maybe, and something that is cute but doesn't make me look exactly like a boy!

thanks soo much

Try hairstyles with height at the crown to balance out the width of your face.
Off center parts, sweptback styles or lots of length will help counter a round face.

You should avoid very short, cropped hairstyles or hairstyles that have fullness at the sides, these will make your face look larger.

But if you really want a short haircut then I would suggest talking to a hairstylist because then they can determine what is the best by actually seeing you.

Hope I helped.

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13/f

where can i get nice creme charcoal eyeshadows? like to make my eyes small

The MAC Cosmetics has really good creme eye shadows. Here is their website, so you can look around. http://www.maccosmetics.com/home.tmpl

Also look around those little cosmetic counters in the stores like Macys. Estee Lauder is really good with the eye makeup. It's expensive though.

Hope I helped!

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