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will god forgive me and will I still go to heaven when I follow through with what I'm about to do. I figure if I'm going to loose everything I'm going to loose it on my terms. I am going to jail for driving under suspennsion and I,m on disability and I'll loose everything I'm already living my life in a wheelchair from a motorcycle accident. I already have my mind made up (link)
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Hello dear.Im truly am sorry for what you are going through.
As far as heaven or hell.
All I can say is,is that you need to pray to God (YAH) that he will forgive you,when we repent,HE does forgive us,and try to have a relationship with HIM.I am spiritual as well.And I do understand where you are coming from.
Please,don't go through with this suicide.Your life is not over.
People who commit suicide do go to hell
Why? Because God says''You shall not kill''
Dont go through with it honey.Your life is not over.And as tough as it is what you are going through,I believe God is giving you a chance and an opportunity in the midst of your trial. It is never over,and it should never ever be too late!!
Please,take time to pray and let God help you,and He can and He will if you trust Him
Be blessed and I hope you will pick life :)
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I'm from asia and i will hopefully graduate BS Biology as my pre-medicine course. I want to study medicine, however I want to have my further study in Finland because they have free education and I don't want to be stuck in my country in my whole life. I'm so confused on what to study to become a doctor. It says that I should study licentiate of medicine and or study an undergraduate degree first before licentiate. However i'm not so sure if i am qualify to study licentiate with my BS biology degree only. Pls help me about this because I'm confused. Am I qualify to study licentiate? I'll be 20 when i will hopefully graduate in my degree now. I did various research but still confused. I made early plans because i really want to study their. Thank you very much. (link)
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Oh dear! First,start off by calling various schools you are intrested in and ask them what credentials you need in order to attend. Call the school and ask them what you need in order to attend! Visit websites if you need to! Hope that can help! Be blessed!
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My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 1/2 years. And lately I want to meet new people. I went out the other night and called someone to meet me at a club which was a guy I had met on a dating app and this was my first time meeting him. And I wanted nothing to do with him...I wanted to meet him and see what I wanted but I broke my own heart.. All I wanted was my boyfriend and I didn't want to be around the guy anymore. But even still my head wants me to wander and live and meet new people but my heart is comfortable and only wants my boyfriend. My boyfriend doesn't even know I've been feeling like this and I don't have the heart to tell him because I truly love him so much but I'm very confused and can't help but to cry, and I never cry, but I'm just so confused. Someone please tell me anything...Thankyou! (link)
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Oh dear! Honey,take a breather.
You need to be honest with him.
Decid truely if really want to part ways or stay.
I cant guarantee what the outcome will be
But I do know what you want is happiness
If you want to split with your boyfriend,tell him why.Im unsure if you want to ask him,if you both can take a break.It can be a good or bad thing.
Your heart is comfy with your boyfriend,and thats whats causing this gut in you to cry.
Be blessed and make the choice thats right in your heart!
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I use a vibrator when I masturbate, and normally it's great. But lately, even if I don't orgasm, I get an achy stomach when I stop, almost like a cramp. It's got three speeds, and I use the lowest one most times. I did just change the batteries recently, which changed the intensity some, but I can't tell if that's the problem or something else? Any help would be greatly appreciated. (link)
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You may need to think about the vibrator you use.You may want to decease using it for a day or so.After,if you try it on the lowest speed and hurts again,you may need to consider getting a new one,and safer one.No need to risk your health! Consider a new one!
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So I'm a girl and I guess you could call me a nerd (I don't really like that word but I suppose it works....) I wear jeans and tshirts almost everyday (I'll wear something different on occasions, but my normal style is just easy), I'm really smart in school, I sit in the back of the class and draw or read, I watch scifi shows and the history channel. I just can't find anyone compatible with me and I've never had boyfriend. I know it's not good to change myself, but I kinda want to get some more interests that I can talk to people about, so what can I do to be less of a "dork"? (link)
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Honey,youre not a dork!! You sound cool!
You like Sci-Fi,drawing and reading! I was the same in school! Always drawing and doodling!
Don't ever change yourself! You are who you are dear one!!
All in unison! Headbands! Headbands look great with any outfit,like t-shirts? Head over to the thrift store and get awesome,cool graphic tees,even some that may intrest you like sci-fi ones and you can get them cheap! Have confidence in yourself! Check your library to see if they are any Sci-Fi groups or people with your kind of intrests! You will be able to meet people,and while your at it,maybe even get extra credit for school! Wheee!!
Always be you,and be true to yourself!
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Dear Vikki
I'm 24 and from South Africa. I have been in a relationship for almost 7 months now and before that we were only friends. I love him a lot and care about him a lot, but at times I feel that my insecurities gets in the way and it ends up in us having an argument about something small and stupid. See we have a long distance relationship at the moment and it is mostly when he cannot have decent conversation at night because his busy and then I start thinking "maybe he doesn't want to talk to me" , "maybe he doesn't find me interesting anymore and he will leave me for someone else" and I do know that he cares for me a lot and that he loves me and as soon as I think I have these feelings under control, it creeps in again. I don't want to lose him, because I was insecure and clingy. I never was like this in the beginning. I was cheated on before and most of the times it is when I'm away from him, when we are together, I don't have it and because of this it makes things hard for me. I care about people real fast and they can actually hurt me with words. How do I get past this? How can I get past my insecurities and not be clingy when I feel like these emotions are creeping in? I'm not jealous when it comes to being his girlfriends, because I know what type of guy he is. I know he will never cheat on me, but because I don't always see myself as beautiful, I'm sometimes afraid he will leave me for someone more beautiful than me. The guy that cheated on me used to say to me, that I shouldn't think that someone can love me, because there feelings will change. I was so deeply hurt.
Is there any advice you can give me? Guess I'm just looking for someone to talk to that I don't know personally!
Thanks!
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Give him some photos of the lovely you!!!
Yes,he can hang them up his house or car and in a way his thoughts will be about you!!
The best thing,is to set up times when to talk to eachother and when you arent distract yourself with a hobby!! Be blessed!
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Lately, I have been having a gut feeling that my husband may be big curious or even gay. In the very beginning of our relationship (been married almost three years together almost 4yrs.) He admitted that when he was younger a friend and him were playing around and the friend ended up giving him a Blow***. I asked him then if he was gay or if he would do it again. He said no. Keep that in mind. A few months back my husband his friend and I started going to the gym. My husband is a man who is in and out of the shower, 7 minutes top! Every time the two went in there they would take ATLEAST 30 mins. I take long showers I would take one myself in the girls room and would still have to wait. I have asked my husband and he said he would just wait for him. Now his friend on the other hand, let's just say if you met him you would think he had sugar in his tank. I live in a small country town and my female friend said her husband had sex with a man before. People in this town including his family say he may be gay or curious as well. For a week now my husband and I are not talking, because I feel like I am being lied too when I ask him if he is gay or bisexual. I can work with bisexual, I just want to know so we can both have safe sex. He still says NO. I don't want to think that I am over thinking everything but I don't want to end up like my husbands mother, lied to and turn out that my husband is bisexual or gay. IDC what he is, I just want to know. I have told him how I felt and how its okay to like other men. I just don't know anymore. I won't let my husband touch me nor look at me because I feel like I am being lied too. I even talked to his friend and asked in a mature matter. I was not disrespectful nor did I just pop the question are you gay? Or what's going on with my husband and you. I explained my reasons first then asked. His friend says he's not gay. (link)
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Ooooooooh Boy! Honey,your hands are full!
Let's disect this one step at a time.
Your husband is obviously confused and may want to try things sexually.You may want to ask him what kind of things he wants.
This sounds out of the ballpark,but you may want to condsider your husband to go and get tested.He seems to spending time with his friend,and what goes in there I cant say,water cant wash off everything.
Your husband,from what I have read,indeed sounds gay.
Now,I do reccommend counseling for the two of you.Immediately,if not sooner. These feelings need to be sorted out with a professional and help to really get to the root of this problem. Only your husband knows whats going on with his body and what he is thinking.
I hope counseling will help!
Be blessed!!
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Hi I'm a 18 year old girl from Namibia and English is my second language. So basically my best friend just started gossiping about me and making friends with my enemy's. I've confronted her a few times but basically she doesn't "care about our friendship" any more. How can she be so cruel? I've never done anything to her and even after all of this I'm still nice to her and a good friend towards her. What should I do? We have most classes together, mutual friends and we carpool so avoiding her is out of the question. (link)
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Oh no! Thats so uncool and unfair!!
Pretend it doesnt bother you.She thinks that she can get away with hurting you,don't let it show that she has.Eventually,it will make her even more upset and prayfully she will stop her ways!
Be blessed and hope it all turns out for you!
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My father took everything of value and left us.
My mother is mentally ill and now has no insurance(so she's off her pills).
My sister is a major suck up to our mother(Favorite child).
Were stuck in an Extended Stay hotel and,its sucking up all the income we have.We have tried all "free" places for medicine and help.But our income is too high,but its not enough for us to live on.
I barely make $150 a week from my job and, its considered part time.I'm at my job all day from 10AM to 4PM and,they don't consider it full time.So because of the time and all the work,I can't get a 2nd job.We have no car,so we take the public city bus everywhere(which is $1.50 there and back per person).
My problem is my mother.She's always been an mental abuser and only to me.She says that "I'll never be anything","I'll never go to college,and even if I did I'd fail it","Ill never be anything in life,or have a husband let alone a boyfriend"... That was just this week.
She said that to me because I told her to "hold on one moment" while I was filling up water bottles,and she wanted me to look for a phone number for her.It only took 2 minutes and I couldn't look away or I'd have water on the floor.
My sister is a major suck up to our mother.She sides with her even when moms wrong.She won't stick up for anyone and can't even keep a job that long.she keeps calling out at work and lying to them about why.I tell her to quit it and I get screamed at by mom (mom encourages her to call out).
Right now I got no friends,because I don't have time.I got no other family to go to,and right now mother plans on leaving with my sister.They plan to go to grandma's and I can't come.she made that clear.Were all old enough to be on our own,but we weren't ever encouraged or pushed to go on our own.Our mother was one of those ones that did everything for you,even when you didn't want her to (tried getting her to stop,but that only made her mad and she'd guilt me into letting her).
So where do I go?Do I leave my job and beg my deadbeat dad to go,live with him in another state?
Or do I take my chances on the street?If I do that I lose everything I own. (link)
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Hi sweetheart! Oh my! Im sorry for your situation and your broken heart!! I sense your spirit wants to do the right thing and wants this big mess to go away!
I will tell you,I have been in your situation and alot of getting out of it was by prayer.
Now then,let's walk this one step at a time
I will let you know,my dad walked out on me,took the house and the truck and we were stuck,me and my sis,plus my 3 dogs to boot!
Let's start with your emotional being right now
Right now,your body in a sense has gone into shock and is unsure what to do.You have put the impossible pressure on yourself and that cant be done.
Your mother is also going through this shock and pressure,and Im sure all 3 of you ladies are all in that and have fear that you dont know what will happen to you.It will turn out fine dear one.
Now them,your mother is off her meds,find out,if any way,she can get her meds at Wal-Mart were they can be as low as $4. Call or see them and be sure if your mum can transfer her prescription.
2nd,don't believe in the words she tells you,she is speaking out in anger,because she herself is very very angry and Im so sorry for that.
Now,your sister,your sister is getting too comfy and is being babied and is leaving it all to you! Thats no good.I do not what your ages are,but your family needs to put drama aside and work for a solution. Your sister if she is 16 and over can surely get a job.Now,youre at a hotel.Ask the hotel if they can give you a cheap rate on a weekly basis,rather than charging by the day and it can get expensive.All else fails,see if you can get them to bill your dad,yes,they can do that.I did that even to my own dad,and he had no choice but to pay. What kind of stores and areas are around the hotel? Any easy convinience shops Perhaps a gas station? Start asking for applications withing a walking distance of you as it would be easier.Maybe get a job at the hotel youre staying at!
So mama wants to pack and go to Grandmas and leave you behind? Oh pfff!! Now she is being childish! Let's just say that she does do this,and takes off,she will feel the loss of not having you around,and she will regret it.
Do Not go into the street sweetheart.Its too dangerous! You can run into the wrong people and they give you drugs or make you sell drugs.Worse you could be a prostute and that road is so dangerous darling! Please,dont do it! I can sense alot of fear,you dont wanna leave your mama,and this situation has put you in an impossible place.
Let's go over a few options
Look at your stuff: Anything of value? Anything gold or silver? Head over to a pawn shop or a place that can buy it from you.
GRAB A PHONEBOOK TO LOOK UP THESE PLACES!!
See if you can find a halfway house or a Woman's Shelter.They can help set you up with a place to stay.Check Union Gospel Missions,or Goodwill,or any Thrift Store that proceeds to go the poor and needy.Also,places do offer 3 meals day soup kitchen.I dont want you to feel any shame sweetheart.These places can help you.
You will need to decide if you want to stay in the area,or relocate.DO NOT GO TO YOUR DADS!! Your dad,heaven knows what he's gotten himself into!
People at these shelters can definately make connections for a job,clothes and food.Check a food bank and they help you with food also!!
They can offer you spiritual guidance also.
Im not telling you to go to church,or anything
But believe that God (Yahuwah) loves you and he is watching you and knows what is going on in your life! Call on HIM and do pray,I don't know what your beliefs are,but call on HIM and pray,and HE will help you!!
If you need anymore advice,please feel free to write me here or my email ladykayuralove@yahoo.com
I will be here for you! Be blessed and let me know how its all going!
The Boogeylady!
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My boyfriend and I are in our mid-twenties and have been together for almost 2 years. One day about 4 months ago, I got a very weird feeling, like instinctively I knew something wasn't right. He left his phone in the kitchen while he was in the bedroom taking a nap. I tried not to let myself stoop so low as to go through his phone, but I couldn't take it any longer and gave in. I found messages to 2 other girls. He was being very flirty with them, saying things like "we should hang out soon" and telling them how beautiful they were. I was so furious I packed my things and left, and drove a couple hours away to stay with a friend.
Up until that day, he had given me no reason not to trust him. I think I was having a moment of insecurity. We got back together a couple weeks after that, after I let him explain himself and I felt like he really did care about me. He said that he had only texted those girls after he had been drinking, which he knew wasn't as excuse, but his lapse in judgement would subside once morning came. And his excuse made sense; the texts would start late at night and end after just a few responses. He claimed it gave him an ego boost. I don't think he has ever actually cheated on me in the physical sense, but my feelings were still incredibly hurt.
When I decided to take him back, it was because I simply WANTED to be with him. We have so much fun together and rarely even fight... We have talked about marriage and other future plans. I felt in my heart that I could trust him and actually, our relationship has been better ever since. But lately I've started getting that bad feeling again. Many times I have wanted to snoop through his phone, but I have refrained. When we got back together, I promised myself I would not throw his past mistakes back in his face. Clean slate.
I want so badly to put these thoughts behind me since he has been so good to me, but I'm having trouble forgetting the past. I want to communicate with him and tell him how I'm feeling, but I don't want him to think that I'll never be able to get over the past. How do I resolve these feeling of insecurity and mistrust without discouraging him? (link)
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Oh honey! I will start by saying this,if you have a feeling in your gut that something is wrong and doesnt feel right,it isn't.
Its totally normal to keep on guard,because sadly when we get away with stuff sometimes,we can be sneaky about it and try doing that bad thing we did again,and never tell the other person.Bad idea.
Its okay to be cautious,but dont overthink and overworry. Try to take it a day at a time!!
Be blessed and trust your gut!
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Hello! I have a few prominent scars from cutting and burning on my thighs and wrists and I need a way to reduce their look in a few weeks of time. Makeup is not really an option since I will be heading to a lake with a few people in my family and swimming and sun tanning. It doesnt have to completely rid the scars as I know thats not possible, but I need an at home remedy that will reduce their looks, thanks:) (link)
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Buy a Dermaroller! Dermarollers can be bought on Amazon and they can reduce scars,stretch marks,cellulite and wrinkles! Good luck!
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Dear Vikki
I'm 24 and from South Africa. I have been in a relationship for almost 7 months now and before that we were only friends. I love him a lot and care about him a lot, but at times I feel that my insecurities gets in the way and it ends up in us having an argument about something small and stupid. See we have a long distance relationship at the moment and it is mostly when he cannot have decent conversation at night because his busy and then I start thinking "maybe he doesn't want to talk to me" , "maybe he doesn't find me interesting anymore and he will leave me for someone else" and I do know that he cares for me a lot and that he loves me and as soon as I think I have these feelings under control, it creeps in again. I don't want to lose him, because I was insecure and clingy. I never was like this in the beginning. I was cheated on before and most of the times it is when I'm away from him, when we are together, I don't have it and because of this it makes things hard for me. I care about people real fast and they can actually hurt me with words. How do I get past this? How can I get past my insecurities and not be clingy when I feel like these emotions are creeping in? I'm not jealous when it comes to being his girlfriends, because I know what type of guy he is. I know he will never cheat on me, but because I don't always see myself as beautiful, I'm sometimes afraid he will leave me for someone more beautiful than me. The guy that cheated on me used to say to me, that I shouldn't think that someone can love me, because there feelings will change. I was so deeply hurt.
Is there any advice you can give me? Guess I'm just looking for someone to talk to that I don't know personally!
Thanks!
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Hello my dear!
I will tell you right now,Im in a long distance realtionship myself! I have some insecurities and Im afraid I get clingy too!!
Its very easy to worry and have many emotions and feelings because you may have doubts about what your future holds for you and your boyfriend.
Let's start at the beginning,its long distance and that really puts a strain on things.
How often do you see eachother? Depending in time,alot of it can depend on how your feelings will be feeling,like for example,''Will I stay in love with him a year from now? 2 years? 5?" Its not a bad idea to think long term and see and know for certain how you feel.
Next,set up times when you guys can talk on the phone.
Set up times and dates when you can see one another! Depending on distance,maybe pick up more frequent visits!
If you both have internet sign up for SKYPE,its free and if you have a webcam you'll be able to see eachother. Have eachother's adress? Write letters! Maybe send him some baked goodies.When writing a letter send some nice photos of you,so he can hang them up around his place so he will always have you on his mind,just reminders of you can maybe persuade his feelings and his willingness to spend time with you!
If you find yourself over-thinking,try doing some activities that will distract you,like painting or or some hobby that you really love doing!
Be blessed!! And if you need anymore advice,let me know!
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Basically I like this girl and she's a lesbian, I'm also not straight (female 15). She started dating this other girl in our grade and on the day I was going to ask her out she told me all this and how much she liked the other girl. I cried all day after school. They have been dating for 2 weeks and I'm dying. I don't sleep. I want her to be happy but at the same time I am so unhappy. I don't make things awkward by saying I like her, because I know she likes me too (she flirted heaps). The other girl she is dating I used to be friends with a year or so ago, I was so jealous and mad at her at first, but I am not really anymore, I tried talking to her to try be friends again. My question is, what should I do? I know I sound like a stupid 15 year old and "I'll grow out if it" and maybe I will, but I would like advice now because telling me I will grow up isn't going to keep me going. Please help (link)
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Oh honey,your heart is a butterfly,and I know how you feel.
As cliche as this may sound,cry as best you can,crying does heal the soul and spirit,maybe at lunchtime at school casually ask if you can sit with her at lunch,or do some fun activity after school.
Sometimes,I do have to interject and say this,sometimes, having repeated contact with someone who is with someone else when you like/or have liked them isnt always the best thing,so please take a moment and decide if you want this person to stay in your life.
Your heart is in love sweetie,there is nothing wrong with that,youre young and this is an expirience,and youre learning to grow up,its all part of it
Be blessed and hope it works out for you!
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i am 17 years old n im dating this guy from the past 8 months. i have had sex with him many times ,it was alright and going well before 1 month but from the past 1 month he keeps ignoring me n when i ask him why he gives pointless reasons he says that hes busy because of college work ,we don't speak for days sometimes .is it because he has lost interest in me or something i love him a lot and don't want to loose him please give some advice what should i do to get him back the same way he was before. (link)
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Oh honey,let me give you a big hug.Your heart must be very heavy and broken,and please,if you havent already just cry as much as you like,its a way to heal your heart
From what you have said,there are many different things going on with his behavior and its a little hard to tell where his heart and mind are.
My advice is try setting up a time in a park or something and just tell him you really need to speak with him,and it almost cant wait.
He may or may not want to share things with you,but men being men usually dont like to share what they are really feeling.You can definately tell him how you are hurting and how he feels.
Either way and no matter what he chooses,may your heart be patient,and if he doesnt want to continue on with you be at peace and ease
Be blessed
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ok, so thats me, the one with the girl hating my guts. I couldnt log into my account, so i had to reset amd i just used a quick account, but, the girl (L) will crumple up my notes when i send them to her, and shes been pissed now for about 4 months. And is anerexsia really that serious? She needs professional help? :0 (link)
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Okay,and oh dear!! Your question wasnt very detailed,so I will answer as best I can
You mentioned Anorexia,does this person that you claim hates you have anorexia? If so,it would be best to get help,she may be going through some emotional trauma that she is that way,so it could be pyscological.
You mentioned that you send notes to her and she throws them out,she may or may not be just wanting you to leave her alone permanently.
If you have had an altercation,or exchanged words or had an argument,try giving a note to a friend of hers to hand it to her and try to clear the air,do NOT mention her anorexia if she has it,like I said,emotional trauama or someone making fun of her could have lead her in that direction.
I hope you have a peace of mind!
Be blessed
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Im a 16 year old virgin & 2 weeks ago I was fingered. The next day I started getting cramps & lasted for a week & had really sore breasts. Now my stomach cramps aren't that bad anymore but my breasts are really sore & tender. I've been urinating a lot more & I'm really worried that I might be pregnant. PLEASE HELP ME!! I have no one to talk to about this & I'm really nervous. Should I be worried that I might be pregnant ?? What should I do ? (link)
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Hi dear,you should go see a doctor,preferably a female doctor.You may be expiriencing hormonal imbalance,or changes in your menstrual cycle.
Now,you can only get pregnant if your boyfriend put his sperm inside you.If he did not have sex with you,you cannot get pregnant.See a doctor! Hope it helps!
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My best friend has been going to bad places and doing drugs and things that are going to affect her life. I love her and really don't want her to get hurt. I've tried to talk to her about it and she acknowledges what she is doing and she knows it's bad for her but she doesn't care and she continues to do theses things. I just don't want her to mess up her life and regret everything I really want to help her! What do I do?!? (link)
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You my dear,sound like such a wonderful friend to care so much!!
Do her parents know whats shes doing? If not,first sit down and talk to your parents and tell them whats up,they may also be concerned and may want to talk to your friends parents. This could very well be a life and death decision and you dont want her to overdo a drug or like you said,regret things.You are concerned,so tell your parents and see if her parents and yours can talk about this.I believe it may be the best way,I pray it all works out :)
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So, in 4th grade religion school the teacher asked who wants to be an alter server and I didn't raise my hand. He wrote down the names of kids who did raise their hand, and then when I got home my mom for some reason called the church and asked when rehearsal was. When they said I wasn't on the list she asked me why, and I realized she wanted me to do it and wouldn't stop until I did, so I let her sign me up. It's been about a year and I've tried to get used to it but the more I try the more I hate doing it. I don't want to do it anymore, but I'm afraid to tell my mom, and I'm afraid that everyone in the church will hate me if I quit. Can someone tell me how to tell my mom the truth? (link)
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Hi there! It sounds like youre unhappy with your situation,and the best thing is to tell your mom that you are uncomfortable in doing this.Don;t worry about others and what they think! If you are not comfortable and happy there is no reason why you should have to be there,prayfully your mom will understand!
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I'm a freshman , and I've been searching online for good colleges and i just need someone who attended or have seen CUNY : Brooklyn College to tell me is it good or bad ? , and does it have Computer Science ?
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Do web search! Type in Computer Science based Colleges and work from there! I highly recommend starting from there so you can to a college where you feel most comfortable!!
If you need more help,contact me!
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I am 25 years old and I am a female and I had oral sex for thefirst time ever I have ner fone anything sexual before nowb in my life and I am a virgin . I knowbyou proble dodon't get a lot of women who are old as I am who are virgins asking about stds on this site but iam terrified that I might have aids when I didn't even have intercourse. We were both naked and he ate me out and I sucked his dick and he gingered me could I get aids from letting this guy that I have known since I was 16 do this to me . I know this may make .e sound like a whore but we was only dating a week before he wanted to have sex and I said didn't want to have sex so we decided on oral sex . I am so scared because the other day I was in the shower and I noticed 3 little bumps inside my vagiana and I also have a boil that's kind of grey looking sorry if this is to grafic but I wanted to give you complete detail of what's going on with me so you could answer my question properly. I talked to my cousin about my situation and she said that I needed to go see a gbyon and get tested for aids and other stds . I am so scared. Please help . I made an appointment gor the 10th of my next month and iam absolutely terrified because I don't know what to they are going to do. How do they check for aids is it s blood test or do they actually have to check down there ? Will they tell anyone if I have aids . Please help me. Thank you so much. (link)
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Hi sweetie,let me give you a hug first!!
Take a breather sweetheart!
I know you are scared,but please know,that many of the testing they are actually quite quick and mostly painless.
The best thing to do is see Gynecologist stat!
A Gynecologist can take time to see you and check your female health.
If you are taking a blood test for AIDS or any other sexual disease,please know,they have what they called Doctor/Patient Confidentiality,meaning they will only keep results and things like that private! Your family and friends will not know
If you need to ask any questions or have concerns,please tell your doctor,and of its not too late,ask of you can see a Female Doctor,trust me,there is a difference!
If you need more advice,feel free to contact!
Be blessed!
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