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My crush is dating someone
Basically I like this girl and she's a lesbian, I'm also not straight (female 15). She started dating this other girl in our grade and on the day I was going to ask her out she told me all this and how much she liked the other girl. I cried all day after school. They have been dating for 2 weeks and I'm dying. I don't sleep. I want her to be happy but at the same time I am so unhappy. I don't make things awkward by saying I like her, because I know she likes me too (she flirted heaps). The other girl she is dating I used to be friends with a year or so ago, I was so jealous and mad at her at first, but I am not really anymore, I tried talking to her to try be friends again. My question is, what should I do? I know I sound like a stupid 15 year old and "I'll grow out if it" and maybe I will, but I would like advice now because telling me I will grow up isn't going to keep me going. Please help <3
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Oh honey,your heart is a butterfly,and I know how you feel.
As cliche as this may sound,cry as best you can,crying does heal the soul and spirit,maybe at lunchtime at school casually ask if you can sit with her at lunch,or do some fun activity after school.
Sometimes,I do have to interject and say this,sometimes, having repeated contact with someone who is with someone else when you like/or have liked them isnt always the best thing,so please take a moment and decide if you want this person to stay in your life.
Your heart is in love sweetie,there is nothing wrong with that,youre young and this is an expirience,and youre learning to grow up,its all part of it
Be blessed and hope it works out for you!
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Tell her how you feel but also let her know that you respect that she is in a relationship. Of course its hard. You really have strong feelings for this girl. But she may also feel the same about you and might not think you had any for her so she moved on. If she does not want to be with you then you just have to move on. It will be hard to do but there will be other girls. Check out my cloumn it has advice for a broken heart and I think it will help you. If you need any help feel free to send me a message. I will do my best to help you through your times of need. Good luck dear.
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I know it's hard, but you'll just have to accept it. I would try and be her friend for now. Trying to break up their relationship (I'm not implying you would/want too) would make the situation worse and her not trust you.
I know it hurts. I do, I'm your age. It sucks doesn't it?
You should get involved in school, join a club, start a hobby, meet new people, ANYTHING that will keep you busy and that you will enjoy. If you keep busy, the pain will lessen.
I wish you the best of luck :)
-Hardcore-Band-Geek
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