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i made a mistake i am in tears
I asked a question some days back on being confused, about a guy who likes me but has a girlfriend, and asked me to hang out with him..... I eventually did before I got back to read your reply by then I had made a huge mistake. I eventually went out with him, we chilled with couple of his friends, and then we drove to a dark spot where he wanted us to talk, but instead of talking we ended up kissing and making out even more than we did the first time. When we where done he called his girlfriend right in front of me and said to me "hush! i wanna talk to the boo" i would have been a different thing if she called, but instead he did it himself...I felt so used i felt this sadness within me, i felt so stupid. i however confronted him on why he would call his girlfriend right in front of me afta making out, and that it was disrespectful , rather he should have waited till i left. He was so furious he started yelling at me telling me that why i am i angry that he called his girlfriend, he continued yelling at me till i started crying, he started shouting "why the fuck are you crying in my car" i told him that this isn't what i want that i wanted something real then he said well he cant be that person that he has a babe", and that i should go out there and date someone else that i shud have fun and stop getting attached... i was so hurt i couldn't believe that it was the same person i was with some days ago that treated me that way.... i am happy i read ur reply and sad that i didn't read it before i went out with him a second time.... The problem is we work in the same company, i see him everyday i am trying so hard to act professional but i cant stop thinking about what happened... Pls i need to know what to do to get my respect back
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If you want to regain self-respect, you need to put the situation in the proper perspective. He used your attraction to him against you, and manipulated you for his own selfish gain. Many men do it, and many women fall for it.
It was HE who was at fault. Forgive yourself for your mistake, mistakes happen. Learn from it and know the next time to not jump in hastily, to take time to thoroughly judge the situation from a rational perspective.
You are wiser for your experience, and he is only more of a jerk for his. You are above him, and don't be afraid to feel like it.
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