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I use a vibrator when I masturbate, and normally it's great. But lately, even if I don't orgasm, I get an achy stomach when I stop, almost like a cramp. It's got three speeds, and I use the lowest one most times. I did just change the batteries recently, which changed the intensity some, but I can't tell if that's the problem or something else? Any help would be greatly appreciated. (link)
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If your muscles are tensing more intensely than usual, or if you're masturbating more than usual, it could simply be exercise cramps, which will naturally go away as your muscles grow stronger from the work.
I tend to get cramps from masturbation shortly before, during, and shortly after my period, and this may be the case for you.
If you're using any kind of penetration (though you don't seem to say you are), then the most likely case if you're being too rough with yourself, not with the vibration, but with the penetration.
All in all, it shouldn't be much to worry about, but if it bothers you, try abstaining for a week to let your body go through any change that might be happening or heal if there's any damage.
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Hi! I'm 13 and my boobs have developed, I have tits but no nipples. My nipples pop out only sometimes, but not all the time and when they do pop out its usually the left side.
Is this bad!!! Should I see a doctor!! Is this normal!! When will I get nipples!!! Please help!
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You have nipples, those ARE your nipples, and it is how all nipples work.
When they are relaxed and comfortable, they stay flat and smooth.
The only time that nipples will get erect and remain erect is after having a baby, when your nipples develop to the feeding stage.
So you should know that this is perfectly normal, especially at your age, not to have frequently erect nipples.
As you age, they may or may not become erect more often, but most times they only react to stimulation or to cold. But EVERYONE'S nipples lay flat the majority of the time.
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We have fleas everywhere what kills them fast bit is safe on six dogs? (link)
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There are very safe pills for cats and dogs that can be given to them once a day and will kill adult fleas in as little as 30 minutes. A single treatment of this will not rid you of all the fleas, but it's a start.
Also the trap mentioned by the other answer is also something that works sometimes. You put a couple drops of soap (just to reduce surface tension) into a pan of hot water. You can use a lamp or a candle within the pan to keep the area warm (note this is not for light, fleas are not attracted to light, but to warmth).
Again, these are adult flea solutions only, and will do nothing about the eggs and larva, which usually will live in your carpet where even the vacuum can not reach them.
In this case, you should pour borax onto every carpeted surface where you have fleas, work it in with your shoes and let it sit for about an hour, and then vacuum it up. It is relatively safe, but I don't recommend allowing your dogs to lay in the treated areas before you vacuum.
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Hi I'm 13 And I masturbate with a 4 inch rounded tip marker And my electric toothbrush. Sometimes when I pulled the marker out of me after I masturbate their is white stuff on it But it's not dripping out of my vagina. Does this still count as cuming? Please help! (link)
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No, that is vaginal lubrication, which is a good thing, you would not want to be dry. Lubrication happens during sexual arousal and stimulation.
When you orgasm, you will know it. It is a very powerful feeling, and when it happens you will not need to question if that is what happened.
Personally I find that penetration makes it harder to reach orgasm, so if you're having trouble, perhaps you should focus more on clitoral/labial stimulation instead, and don't try to rush yourself. Do whatever feels good and keep doing it with patience.
Often times, the longer it takes you to reach it, the stronger it will be, so it is worth it take your time.
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Growing up as an only child I have always had my weird quirks. I'll admit I have a very weird laugh. Sure, I can act childish, silly, and be naive sometimes. And I can also have blonde moments here and there. But that doesn't mean that I don't know how to be mature in some situations. Deep down I know that I can be a serious, smart and wise person. I also love to help others and give advice of my past experiences. But lately I have been feeling lost as to how I should act. While others may find me amusing and interesting, others may find me too weird or unbearable. My mom keeps telling me that since I'm 18 I should smarten up and act lady like, and that I should change my laugh cause no guy would like me if I didn't. And lately I have been finding myself either embarrassed of what I did afterwards or that a person would find me annoying and make it clear of it. I feel that if I completely tried to change myself and be mature and serious, then I would lose my character. I would lose my identity that sets me apart from other people. I know that life is all about trial and error.. But still. I don't know what to do, what do you think ?? (link)
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Never change for others. If you like who you are, wear it and be proud of it.
You will NEVER please everyone, it is impossible. If someone doesn't like you as you are, then you do not need them in your life, and attempting to keep them in your life would be draining, introducing more negative into your life than positive.
Find people--even if they are few and far between--who truly appreciate who you are, and those relationships will be all the more special and enjoyable because of it.
And no one can tell you what EVERY guy does or doesn't like. There are an almost infinite number of different people with different tastes.
Happiness in life comes from within...first loving who YOU are and accepting who you are. Things like your sense of humor or your laugh, you can never genuinely change, you would only be able to put up a facade, and cease to be yourself.
Be yourself, everyone else is already taken. ;3
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I asked a question some days back on being confused, about a guy who likes me but has a girlfriend, and asked me to hang out with him..... I eventually did before I got back to read your reply by then I had made a huge mistake. I eventually went out with him, we chilled with couple of his friends, and then we drove to a dark spot where he wanted us to talk, but instead of talking we ended up kissing and making out even more than we did the first time. When we where done he called his girlfriend right in front of me and said to me "hush! i wanna talk to the boo" i would have been a different thing if she called, but instead he did it himself...I felt so used i felt this sadness within me, i felt so stupid. i however confronted him on why he would call his girlfriend right in front of me afta making out, and that it was disrespectful , rather he should have waited till i left. He was so furious he started yelling at me telling me that why i am i angry that he called his girlfriend, he continued yelling at me till i started crying, he started shouting "why the fuck are you crying in my car" i told him that this isn't what i want that i wanted something real then he said well he cant be that person that he has a babe", and that i should go out there and date someone else that i shud have fun and stop getting attached... i was so hurt i couldn't believe that it was the same person i was with some days ago that treated me that way.... i am happy i read ur reply and sad that i didn't read it before i went out with him a second time.... The problem is we work in the same company, i see him everyday i am trying so hard to act professional but i cant stop thinking about what happened... Pls i need to know what to do to get my respect back (link)
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If you want to regain self-respect, you need to put the situation in the proper perspective. He used your attraction to him against you, and manipulated you for his own selfish gain. Many men do it, and many women fall for it.
It was HE who was at fault. Forgive yourself for your mistake, mistakes happen. Learn from it and know the next time to not jump in hastily, to take time to thoroughly judge the situation from a rational perspective.
You are wiser for your experience, and he is only more of a jerk for his. You are above him, and don't be afraid to feel like it.
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13/f. Right okay so how do I say this. I'm with a guy I really like and he likes me. We have agreed that when and if we break up we won't let it affect our friendship. One slight problem. He doesn't openly tell his feelings. Obviously not a problem some people don't but he says he'd kiss me and I've said I'd kiss him come the time and I don't want to rush him. However now I think he thinks I don't want to kiss him. I love him so much and his name is my favourite and he is sweet and genuine. Please help me! (link)
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Be honest and open with him and discuss your feelings even if it's uncomfortable. Don't force him to participate and reply his own feelings back if he's not comfortable enough, but don't be afraid to communicate your own.
Openness and a willingness to communicate is a very important aspect of any romantic relationship.
Tell him how you feel, about your worries and lay all the cards out on the table.
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I feel weird calling my boyfriend baby or babe. It just doesn't flow right. I can call him baby/babe over text with no problem but in person or over the phone it makes me cringe. I know this is petty but with my other boyfriends it came so easy and I would even forget that they had real names cause I was just always calling them baby. Does this mean anything? Or am I just reading too much into it? I'm 24 btw and I've only been dating this guy for 6 months. I dated my last boyfriend for over 2 years before he ended it in April (link)
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If this is your only concern in your relationship, then it's not a big deal. Call him by his real name or come up with a pet name you like better for him. There are many to choose from; honey, sweetie, darling... even more creative names like babyluv, honeybear, etc...
Otherwise, consider how you really feel about him, whether or not you do or don't feel the love and affection enough for him to call him by affectionate names.
That said, no relationships should end just because you don't like calling him a nickname.
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Hi I'm 13, my stomach sometimes hurts when I'm masturbateing, I masturbate with a 4 inch rounder tip marker. Do u have any idea on why my stomack starts to hurt? Please help! (link)
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It might be you are being too rough with yourself. A marker is not designed for masturbation.
A penis is soft and somewhat flexible, a marker is not.
A marker will also have the seam of where the cap fits on, and believe it or not, even this seemingly insignificant edge can painfully scrape at your insides.
There is also a chance that your cervix is sensitive. If you try being gentle or using something soft and it still hurts, then this is likely the case. The sensitivity of your cervix is determined by hormones and there's little to be done about this than to try being more gentle and avoid full-depth penetration.
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I havnent been able to sleep very well for the past week, and when I do it's maybe 5 hours a night with me waking up every 45 minutes in that time span. What should I do to get some sleep? (link)
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Sleep disturbances can happen for a wide variety of reasons. Without knowing the exact reason you're having this problem, it's difficult to go thorough advice on what to do about it...
But that being said, in general, I would suggest reducing what stress you can from your day, or avoid being stressed around the time you intend to go to sleep. Take some time to unwind and relax, maybe 1 to 2 hours before bed.
Try not to think about things you did or need to do right before or during your attempt to sleep.
Chamomile tea before bed can help you relax and sleep if the cause is not severe. The fresher the better, or you can try to make it extra strong with 2 tea bags in a cup instead of just one.
Sometimes sleep can be difficult if you tend to be sedentary throughout the day, for instance, if you have a desk job. In which case it can be helpful to get rigorous, exhausting exercise immediately before bed, or tire your eyes by reading a book.
White noise is also helpful to some. You could try running a fan near your bed.
Other than all this, try to consider WHY you might be having trouble staying asleep and see what you can do to eliminate that problem.
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I search up some way to have an orgasm and I found one, so when you go to have a shower you would take the shower head and you would turn it to massage and put it close to your vagina and it would feel real good and it did. I also made myself have an orgasm, it was amazing!! But how could I make it even better?? (link)
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If you have a showerhead like that, you could probably unscrew the head from the hose entirely and use the jet of water.
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I am from India...
I am daily night fucking to my bed .is there any problem of doing this.? (link)
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I'm not entirely sure what you say you're doing, nor of your age or gender, but I'm going to take some swings at it.
If you're saying you're masturbating every night, no there is no problem with this whatsoever. Almost everyone in the world masturbates. It feels good and hurts no one.
If you're saying you're having sex every night, this is also fine as long as whoever you're doing it with is another human of legal age and is willing.
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I'm a 14 year old girl and I'm trying to masterbate but I can't get it right please tell how and tell story of your discovery please (link)
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The trouble is most girls think they're supposed to use their fingers, and 'penetration' seems to be what everyone things female pleasure is all about.
The truth is, penetration can actually make orgasm harder to achieve.
My first personal sexual experience (and still a go-to for me to this day), is to tightly wad a blanket and rub yourself on it.
All the outer parts of the vagina contribute to pleasure more than the inside does.
Also, be gentle with yourself, and don't be in a hurry.
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Is there a place to watch the last airbender on-line? (link)
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http://www.primewire.ag/watch-9583-Avatar-The-Last-Airbender
When I watched it, I did so at the link provided above. I recommend choosing 'putlocker' or 'sockshare' as the primary source.
Filenuke or Gorillafile are also decent. Anything that doesn't ask you do download or sign up is good.
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is it ture that if you eat 5 suger free gumydears youll lose wight? (link)
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There is no reason this would make you lose weight. Gummybears are made of starches and gelatin. While it may not contribute very much toward GAINING weight, it will not make you lose weight.
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Right now I'm sucking a ring pop. I could go through an entire pack of gum no matter how big in 5days. At the most. Every time I finish a gum piece, or a lollipop, I want another one. And when I'm not, I'm sucking or chewing on something else…THAT ISN'T FOOD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! This could include, hard objects, squishy objects, toenails, etc. What is wrong with me? Now I'm gonna get another lollipop. Ahhhhhhhhhhhhh!!!!!!!!!!!!! (link)
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It's a fixation with oral stimulation. Assuming you're not someone who recently quit smoking, it is probably linked to an infantile comfort.
Many people (secretly) retain infantile comfort systems from chewing/sucking, to rocking, to humming.
I personally have a fixation on the feel of a certain fabric of which my baby blanket was made of.
Is your life stressful? Does doing this relieve stress?
If it's not actually disrupting your life, I would simply embrace it and not let it worry you.
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I like my brother's friend. I'm gonna be in the 8th grade next year. He's 2 years older than me, in my country he's gonna graduate next school year. So, around August last year we first met. I'm gonna try and make this so dramatic. So, he was very sweet and kind,he waves to me at school, says my first name and says hi everytime we met, until around the mid-week of March.There was this one time when he was still talking to me when we were passing by their classroom that had transparent glass doors. He saw me walk by the glass window, and ran to the door and gave me an enthusiastic wave and I gave him a what-seemed a "cute" wide, exagerrated, smile to me. And there was this one time where he saw me arrive to school, hesaw me, my face was sour, he notiiced me then walked with me and said "Good morning (my name)" Then there was this one incident where I was almost late I passed by their classroom and he greeted me good morning and waved, again, I gave him the "cute" smile. That's the last time I remember he interacted with me. Then, he started to avoid me like seriously, why? Maybe he's just busier with school now. Then there was this festival in our school, I sat somewhere where his friends and he himself were messing around. Everytime he laughs or does something funny he tries to take a glimpse of me, and I catch him doing so because I also look at him secretly. Then I went somewhere higher and my friend wanted to stand beside me she wanted me to lift her I was like " Awe, you want me to lift you here?" while doing the puty face, I noticed with my peripheral vision he was looking at me and my friend. After that he said "Awe, you're so sweet (my name)" and he moved somewhere further where I was sitting. But he keeps laughing with his friends and he secretly looks at me. A few minutes later he passed by me and stared at me then gave me a smile and nod, I smiled and nodded back. Then after that, I sat somewhere he and his friend were but I didn't notice until he decided to sit near me but my friend sat beside me. But before he decided to sit near me, he thought 'where he was sitting was too crowded' then glared at me and decided to sit near my friends and me. After that he kept staring at me for a little while. I just don't get it, we've met several times before this incident, why talk to me now when he could've just proceeded in avoiding me?
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As the other answer said, guys can be hard to read. It could be that he likes you, or it could be that he thinks you like him and doesn't feel the same. It could be he likes you as a friend but not more and thinks you like him as more, so it makes it weird. It could be that he simply finds you amusing.
It's difficult to say. It might be better to be honest and just talk to him openly about it. Scary, yes, but it cuts through the crap and games and will get you to whatever the truth may be.
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hii..m from india.n 21 year girl.m in deep deep depression.becoz my best frend whom i considerd next to my family.my close frend forgot me.c iz nt crazy any more about me as c waz befor.we used to share every thing..we were in dis very bst frend relationship foir 4 years.bt now itz over.c moved to another city.n made new bestfrend..and i caant tolerate this.feeling lyk dying..m hopeless know.n me crying crying nd crying .cant concentrate on studies.my exam is at the door.bt i caant help myself.i have very few frends.bt dnt dare to ask for suggestions for dis.becoz they will make fun of dis.plz suggest what to do..plz (link)
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It's a sad truth of life that people come and go in your life. If you can, you should try discussing your feelings with your friend.
But if she doesn't care very much anymore, you might consider what kind of friendship you even had.
Also you should consider if you might have done anything to drive her away. If you've been overly negative about things or about yourself when talking to her, you could drive her away by the fact that talking to you makes her feel bad.
If your friends would make fun of you for feeling bad, they aren't very good friends. You need to prioritize your life and rethink your friendships and consider what a REAL friendship is for you and them. Consider if they are good friends, or if you are a good friend.
You can't MAKE someone be friends with you again, but if you can find out why they lost interest, you might persuade them to give you another chance.
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I have never had a job before and I've filled out many job applications, but no one has given me a call. I prefer to have a job thats close to where I live, but I think I'm not getting hired because I have no experience. I don't know what to put down for "work experience". Do I need a resume even though I don't have experience?
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LIE. Sadly, this is what MOST people do. It's silly and stupid to require job experience for every job (making it impossible for someone to ever honestly get their FIRST job), but that's how things are...
You may need to make references, in which case lying can be harder to get away with. You could try volunteering or doing 'freelance' work and put that in there.
Also do not wait for them to call you. You need to call them (again, it's stupid I know).
You need to pretend it's your life's passion to work at whatever job it is, even if it's a stupid job.
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Ok I was wondering if fingering can make your period late. My boyfriend has fingered me about 10 times over the past month and I was supposed to get my period 5 days ago, and I still haven't gotten it yet. I normally get cramps right before I get my period and I haven't gotten any cramps this time. I have never been fingered before so I don't know if this is normal or not. My period has been regular for two years before this so I'm really worried. I know my boyfriend wasn't masturbating or anything before he fingered me because all the times it happened we have been sitting on the couch watching a movie. I know they say that stress or a lot of physical activity can affect your period but I haven't been stressed at all lately and the only physical activity I have been doing is soccer practice but that is pretty normal for me. I'm really starting to get worried because I have had my period be late, but no more than 2 days, so having it be late for 5 days now is starting to scare me. (link)
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Fingering or masturbation of any kind will not effect your period. If you are POSITIVE you could not be pregnant, then it could be anything from stress, to nutrition, having traveled lately, or even that your body decided to sync up with another girl's period (yes, that happens).
I usually have normal periods, but well sometimes be late up to a whole month if I've been having a lot of stress by the time me period was supposed to hit.
If you're healthy and sure you're not pregnant, you should not be alarmed (that may only make it even later, lol). Irregular periods are not all that uncommon.
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