The truth is, penetration can actually make orgasm harder to achieve.
My first personal sexual experience (and still a go-to for me to this day), is to tightly wad a blanket and rub yourself on it.
All the outer parts of the vagina contribute to pleasure more than the inside does.
Also, be gentle with yourself, and don't be in a hurry. [ Ersted's advice column | Ask Ersted A Question ]
Dragonflymagic answered Wednesday March 19 2014, 12:27 am: My story won't help you, the first time i masterbated and had a strong orgasm, it scared me cus I was real young and didn't know there was such a thing as orgasms and I thought I was having a heart attack and didn't masterbate again for two years...LOL
What works best for one person may not be what works the best for the next so getting our stories isn't going to help you much dear. I wish there was something like the internet when I was your age, I would have been researching the topic like crazy myself to figure out what the one incident that happened to me was all about. But the personal computer and the internet had not been created yet for me to use. You have so much information just waiting at your fingertips, articles, you tube video's. I will start you off with a universitys short videos showing what the females parts are in detail, not just what you see from the outside, theres way more inside and how it works to bring you to orgasm. You can find more by surfing the web. If you have a hard time and want more links, let me know by contacting me through my column. Any other way and I cant respond.There are 9 total in this series and this is #4.
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