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15/f
Hello. I have been dating a guy for three months. We are both 15. I've been friends with him for a year, had a crush on him almost that whole time, and everything had been going great. He's not popular, he's quiet, and I thought he was just the nicest guy ever. He treated me great, wanted to hang out with me all the time, said he loved me, kissed me... I couldn't have been happier. We never fought or anything, and I thought I'd found a cute, nice, smart, funny guy who really liked me. He was mature, chivalrous, complimentary...everything I could ask for.
Of course, everything had to change. Last week he became a different person. He told me I sound obnoxious and I talk too loud, that I'm boring when I don't talk (he literally froze all last week and barely talked, so I didn't want to keep blabbering on when he wasn't reciprocating), and I think he may like this other girl we're friends with. They've only recently become friends. That girl is really nice and funny, but tons of people think she's annoying because she does not stop talking, and she is NOT attractive. I am considered attractive. But he's been lighting up when she comes around, and today at school he told me that seeing her for five minutes at the end of the schoolday is "the highlight of his day." That REALLY hurt me. So, after he said that, I flat out asked him if he liked her and he said "EW, no." He used to text me every day (until one week ago!) and when we would say goodnight he would tell me he loves me or send a heart or SOMETHING. Now, IF he texts me at all, and IF he bothers to send a good night text, it will either simply say "good night" or sometimes just "k."
I have no idea what to do. He's never been like this before. He's a different person all of a sudden. I'm still in love with him and I don't want to break up with him. Also, last weekend was the first weekend we didn't hang out (I asked him to and he said he couldn't...but he doesn't do any extracurricular activities). I don't smother him. We both have other friends. I don't know what happened and why he's acting this way, and I have no idea what to do. How can I get back to how we used to be? I had never been happier in my life, and all of a sudden he's become mean and disconnected and just weird. Thank you. (link)
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I'd be stupid to come here and say it's one thing specifically, because let's face it, only you know this person. Judging by what you wrote though, something is definitely up. I advise you sit down and talk to him. Ask him what's on his mind, if there's anything he wants to share. Tell him that you miss the person you fell in love with, and if that by any chance that person might come back. Give him the confidence to be open about what he's thinking, even if it hurts you, it's better to know the truth. Who knows? He might be having problems at home or some other logical explanation. I really hope you guys can get through this little rock in the path, you sound like a loving couple! Hope this helps.
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15/f
Hello. I have been dating a guy for three months. We are both 15. I've been friends with him for a year, had a crush on him almost that whole time, and everything had been going great. He's not popular, he's quiet, and I thought he was just the nicest guy ever. He treated me great, wanted to hang out with me all the time, said he loved me, kissed me... I couldn't have been happier. We never fought or anything, and I thought I'd found a cute, nice, smart, funny guy who really liked me. He was mature, chivalrous, complimentary...everything I could ask for.
Of course, everything had to change. Last week he became a different person. He told me I sound obnoxious and I talk too loud, that I'm boring when I don't talk (he literally froze all last week and barely talked, so I didn't want to keep blabbering on when he wasn't reciprocating), and I think he may like this other girl we're friends with. They've only recently become friends. That girl is really nice and funny, but tons of people think she's annoying because she does not stop talking, and she is NOT attractive. I am considered attractive. But he's been lighting up when she comes around, and today at school he told me that seeing her for five minutes at the end of the schoolday is "the highlight of his day." That REALLY hurt me. So, after he said that, I flat out asked him if he liked her and he said "EW, no." He used to text me every day (until one week ago!) and when we would say goodnight he would tell me he loves me or send a heart or SOMETHING. Now, IF he texts me at all, and IF he bothers to send a good night text, it will either simply say "good night" or sometimes just "k."
I have no idea what to do. He's never been like this before. He's a different person all of a sudden. I'm still in love with him and I don't want to break up with him. Also, last weekend was the first weekend we didn't hang out (I asked him to and he said he couldn't...but he doesn't do any extracurricular activities). I don't smother him. We both have other friends. I don't know what happened and why he's acting this way, and I have no idea what to do. How can I get back to how we used to be? I had never been happier in my life, and all of a sudden he's become mean and disconnected and just weird. Thank you. (link)
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I'd be stupid to come here and say it's one thing specifically, because let's face it, only you know this person. Judging by what you wrote though, something is definitely up. I advise you sit down and talk to him. Ask him what's on his mind, if there's anything he wants to share. Tell him that you miss the person you fell in love with, and if that by any chance that person might come back. Give him the confidence to be open about what he's thinking, even if it hurts you, it's better to know the truth. Who knows? He might be having problems at home or some other logical explanation. I really hope you guys can get through this little rock in the path, you sound like a loving couple! Hope this helps.
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There's a boy named freddy,I met him when I was in second grade,I've always hated him because he took my cousin away,we never talked but until 7th grade.I don't know why because freddy hangs with the 'cool' group and I hang with any avereage group.well we walk home together with another boy named cyrus ,they always ask who I lllike and I ay no one.one time I head cyus and freddy whispering about something but for some reason the. Wont tell me.I need advice. How can I mmake him tell me who he likes (link)
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Well, first off do you like him? By what you've written, it seems so. Just ask him, try doing it playfully. Smiling, ask him, "So who's the lucky lady?" If he doesn't tell you, that's fine. Don't pressure him. With time, you'll probably get a hint or two. Good luck!
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I met this girl during a birthday party for a friend. She's the roommate of a friend of mine and we had two classes together. We started talking more throughout the semester and I have developed feelings for her. But she is in a relationship, and just celebrated her 1 year anniversary with the guy. I feel like shes flirting with me and today she gave us a nickname based on something we did together. So I'm trying to figure out if she likes me or is just being friendly. Thanks. (link)
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Hey, so I know pretty well the position your in. You haven't said enough for me to think she definitely likes you, but it's somewhat possible. Girls who are in relationships usually flirt with other males just because she can, because of the attention it gains her and if things go south then she has a safety net-aka, the boyfriend. I advise not to go for her, stay with people who chose you first. Don't be anyone's second plate, because if she's doing to him it'll probably be done to you too. I hope this helps!
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so at school i met this guy. and hes in one of my classes. and in that class he always playfully hits me and i hit him back so its liek flirting and he always talks to me but i dont know if he really likes me or not. all my friends say he does but i dont know. do you think he likes me or is just being friendly? (link)
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Hitting is like flirting? I don't know where you heard that honey, but I don't think that's right. If you think he likes you, I think you should be focused on other key points like, does he flirt? does he seem to be everywhere you are? does he try to touch you often(hugs and such)? do his friends tease you about him? Take your time and don't look into it too much. If he doesn't like you, then just continue as normal. I think he's just being friendly but if your answer is yes to any of the questions mentioned above he might just like you! Good luck!
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Okay so my boyfriend and I have been dating for a few months and I'm 15 and he is 17 but we're really close with each other. When we hangout we make out and he'll feel me up and finger me but I never do anything other than kissing. This is both of our most serious relationships we've had. I feel like I should do something for him like a hand job but I'm not exactly sure how to. We've talked about having sex before, neither of us have done it, but we both want to. He just thinks we should do littler things first to make it less awkward and he has done just about everything when I've done nothing and he says "you can do stuff too" and I say "I know" and I feel awful because its new to me and idk what I'm doing. Please don't judge me anyone here! I would just like a step by step process of how to give a hand job, blow job, or any way to pleasure him that would be great! If anyone could give me some advice that would be greatly appreciated! :) thank you! Btw advice from woman and men would be great!! (link)
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Well firstly, I assume you know what you're getting into if you're talking about this so freely. You do realize you're fifteen? You have your whole life in front of you. I think you should lay off the sex-related stuff, and focus on things that matter. Have you ever given thought to the possibility of him breaking up with you and spreading everything you've done? Anyways, I hope you find what you're looking for. Good luck!
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So my dad hates me and he threatened to hit me. Then I ran to my room and slammed the door and he said I'd be in BIG trouble.. What do I do?! I'm scared now. Please help NOW this is an emergency!
P.S. He doesn't take apoligizes. Should I just stay in here for the next 20 years? (link)
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My father was the same way. He'd also shove his fist in my face and tell me to smell it. It's usually just in the moment things, he's probably mad about something that happened. Just wait awhile before coming out and apologize for slamming the door. Hear him out and I'm sure you'll be fine. If he does actually hits you, then look for help at school or some adult who can help. Take care!
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I am 9 english so I am in primary 5 and I want to ask my mum to dye my hair bright red with black tips at the end but I am affraid she gets mad at me so I want some advice so I can ask my mum without her blowing are house down if I get any answers I will be so so happy
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Are you sure this is what you want to do? Did you know that most of the time, when you dye your hair it gets damaged and dry? The color might not even suit you. I dyed my hair purple when I was in 8th grade, and I completely ruined it. I think you should wait it out a bit, and if by the time you're a little older, say 12, you still want to do it then go ahead. Take care!
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