There's a boy named freddy,I met him when I was in second grade,I've always hated him because he took my cousin away,we never talked but until 7th grade.I don't know why because freddy hangs with the 'cool' group and I hang with any avereage group.well we walk home together with another boy named cyrus ,they always ask who I lllike and I ay no one.one time I head cyus and freddy whispering about something but for some reason the. Wont tell me.I need advice. How can I mmake him tell me who he likes
Dragonflymagic answered Saturday May 4 2013, 8:06 pm: It's a good sign that he and Cyrus like to walk with you. They at least like you as a friend who is female. To know whether either one likes you as anything more is going to take time. I'd say start with the level of friendship. Once you've been friends a while, you will notice if stronger feelings develope for either or both of the guys.
Next time they ask, answer with, "What if I said I liked both of you and wanted to be friends with both of you?" Or if they don;t ask, one day just say, "Remember when you asked who I like? What if I said both of you? " If only one likes you, the friend will start teasing the other guy and that should be a clue as to if either one liked you.
With those answers, you are only hinting at it cus you might like him but don't know enough yet to know if you'll still like him once u get to know him better. If you want to know more about him, you may have to be more direct like, 'Hey do you want to start hanging out as friends, all of us? Its not as scary with an extra person there. Giving a young boy who doesn't have much experience yet with girls, a chance to hang out with one, is goinig to be a very popular non threatening option because he doesnt have the pressure of dating or asking you out right from the start and fearing getting rejected. But once you hang as friends, it's more likely he'll have no problem asking you out.
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xxsweetpoison answered Saturday May 4 2013, 12:16 pm: Well, first off do you like him? By what you've written, it seems so. Just ask him, try doing it playfully. Smiling, ask him, "So who's the lucky lady?" If he doesn't tell you, that's fine. Don't pressure him. With time, you'll probably get a hint or two. Good luck! [ xxsweetpoison's advice column | Ask xxsweetpoison A Question ]
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