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I love you. You Love Me. OMG JUST KISS ME!
13/f. Right okay so how do I say this. I'm with a guy I really like and he likes me. We have agreed that when and if we break up we won't let it affect our friendship. One slight problem. He doesn't openly tell his feelings. Obviously not a problem some people don't but he says he'd kiss me and I've said I'd kiss him come the time and I don't want to rush him. However now I think he thinks I don't want to kiss him. I love him so much and his name is my favourite and he is sweet and genuine. Please help me!
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So the real issue here is neither of you wants to "rush a kiss"? I don't think I've ever heard of that, of there being a time that is too soon to kiss.
Well, maybe if you walked up to a cute strange guy at the mall you saw and just kissed him...THAT would be too soon. Some people will meet for the first time, either a planned meeting/date or their paths crossed and spend the next handful of hours, or a whole afternoon or day together and at the end, you know if there is chemistry or not. What I mean is you either are drawn to want to kiss the person or they remind you of a kid brother or male cousin, someone you are not attracted to that way.
If there is attraction anytime after the first time you meet, I see no reason why you can not kiss each other.
At least you;ll know if you were mostly imagining it to be great, but it was all in your head, or it really is great.
Hint, if its the first kiss and you're scared to make a move, the way to get past that is to not put any thought into it. the longer you hesitate acting on it, the more you will grow scared each time you feel the desire to kiss. Don't overthink. If the mood hits, kiss him.
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Be honest and open with him and discuss your feelings even if it's uncomfortable. Don't force him to participate and reply his own feelings back if he's not comfortable enough, but don't be afraid to communicate your own.
Openness and a willingness to communicate is a very important aspect of any romantic relationship.
Tell him how you feel, about your worries and lay all the cards out on the table.
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