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when someones very bestfreind forget what to do
hii..m from india.n 21 year girl.m in deep deep depression.becoz my best frend whom i considerd next to my family.my close frend forgot me.c iz nt crazy any more about me as c waz befor.we used to share every thing..we were in dis very bst frend relationship foir 4 years.bt now itz over.c moved to another city.n made new bestfrend..and i caant tolerate this.feeling lyk dying..m hopeless know.n me crying crying nd crying .cant concentrate on studies.my exam is at the door.bt i caant help myself.i have very few frends.bt dnt dare to ask for suggestions for dis.becoz they will make fun of dis.plz suggest what to do..plz
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It's a sad truth of life that people come and go in your life. If you can, you should try discussing your feelings with your friend.
But if she doesn't care very much anymore, you might consider what kind of friendship you even had.
Also you should consider if you might have done anything to drive her away. If you've been overly negative about things or about yourself when talking to her, you could drive her away by the fact that talking to you makes her feel bad.
If your friends would make fun of you for feeling bad, they aren't very good friends. You need to prioritize your life and rethink your friendships and consider what a REAL friendship is for you and them. Consider if they are good friends, or if you are a good friend.
You can't MAKE someone be friends with you again, but if you can find out why they lost interest, you might persuade them to give you another chance.
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This is a very hard, sad thing to go through. It can seem like a death in many ways. The person you once shared everything with has now moved on and doesnt remember you or need you anymore. There is a huge feeling of being abandoned and forgotten. I know it hurts your heart. You now feel hopeless.
I suggest this: Take a few minutes, go to a private place where you can be alone, and write. Write everything you feel. Put down all the sadness, loneliness, and hurt down on paper. Use as many sheets of paper that you can, and exhaust yourself. Dont leave anything in your heart or mind, write it all! Then read it. But read it with emotion, cry if you need to, yell, scream out the pain. Do this several times if necessary.
Now, give yourself time to heal. Be good to yourself, and do things that make you smile. If this person has forgotten you, it is their loss! If they have forgotten such a good, devoted friend like you, they are the one who will regret it. Just remember that if you are such a caring, loving friend to this person, you will have no problem finding other people who will appreciate you, and even more. You will find true friends, who no matter what, will stand by you. Just give it a little time. You will see that soon, YOU will be the one who has forgotten this past "best friend" and has moved on.
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Hey dear. I know exactly how you feel. I have had a couple best friends and it does hurt bad when that friendship ends. I want to promise youthat you will find a new best friend!
Friends tend to come and go. I beleive certain people are in our lives to help us through something or to teach us something for a certain amount of time.
So cheer up deary:) you are an amazing talented young woman. And you have many roads to travel and many new people still to meet. Look to the future with hope :)
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