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I`m Desiree

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i`m 17 years old

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do guys know when a girl is there first kiss?

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No.. ♥ Dez

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Me and my friend (we're 14/f and 15/f) and we dunno what to do tonight. She dones't wanna go to the mall and we don't wanna see a movie..any other ideas fo what to do thanks.

Give eachother a make over dress in funny clothes and take just some random pictures.. Me and my friends find it fun.. Ummm watch a movie at home maybe a funny one or romantic.. Maybe even a scary one so you can act stupid about it later.. ♥ Dez

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Everyone tells me that glow in the dark tampons are a bad idea. Am I the only one that thinks I could make millions off of it?

Hmmmm whats the point in them? i mean they`ll glow inside of you nobody will see em and who would they`ll be all bloody anyways.. ♥ Dez

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hey, is there any way of applying eye make-up that make the eyes look:

1.more oval
2.less droopy and more upward slating \ /
3.wider apart
4.longer in length / [] \

also could the way you shape your eyebrows affect this and if so please can i have some tips.
thanks a lot
luv rach xxx

Eye liner would do all that for your eyes.. ♥ Dez

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ok so we are doing this secret santa thing in my class. yeah its kinda early. but any ways. so i have this guy whos like 16 and i have no idea what to get him. He's a pretty god freind of mine. i just have no idea. I dont normally buy presents for that many guys. so im kind of drawing a blank.

got any ideas?

Gift certiucate to a music store.. ♥ Dez

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is there any way yu can make yur boobs look smaller?

Sports bras might make your breast look smaller.. I`m not sure if there is a possible way i have large brest and i don`t think theres a way to make them smaller.. Tape em down i guess i seen that in a movie but i don`t think that would be comfortable.. ♥ Dez

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I can't understand why my fiance is ALWAYS in the MOOD, all the time 24/7 he HAS TO HAVE IT! He gets angry when I say no, yells at me and claims I'm cheating on him. Why can't he understand that EVERY DAY 2-3 times a day is TOO MUCH! I love him to death, but he's killing me.

Damn.. thats alot of sex.. You should explain that to him.. Tell him he`s wearin you out.. Guys usually get like that younger and girls get like that in the thirtys.. So i would just explain this to him.. ♥ Dez

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okay this is going to sound weird and funny okay so i like this guy a lot and there is this other guy which i dont like but i think he likes me or something and like for the past 2 weeks i dream about that 2nd guy like every night does that mean i like him because im pretty sure i like the other guy! im so confused

No that doesn`t mean you like him.. Dreams don`t mean anything.. ♥ Dez

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HELP ME!!!!!!!!!!!! I'm obsessed with CSI Las Vegas!!!!!!!!! I know It's bloody, and gross, but it's the COOLEST show ever!!!! My mom hates when I watch it! What should I do?

Watch it anyways i guess.. Go watch it at a friends house or something.. ♥ Dez

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I'm using acne medication that I put on my face at night and wash off in the morning. Well, my acne is getting a little better but my skin is SUPER dry and flaky from it. It's gross!!! Well, if I use moisturizer, my skin just gets acne...so what do I do to keep my skin nice and fresh and soft but acne free?! (while still using the acne medication the dermatologist prescribed!)
i rate highhh!

i would tell your doctor maybe he can give you something for your face to help that also.. I don`t want to recommend something then it make your face look bad or not let the medication work.. ♥ Dez

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I know its not the season for track yet but I've been wondering about this for a month or two... but I'm planning on trying out for the track team this year. I'm kind of out of shape so I was wondering what are some exercises I could do to help me get in shape?
Thanks. :)

Runnig..doing crunches and eat healthier.. ♥ Dez

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Hey everyone im new to this but you*ll find i need alotta help.lol this ones kinda long...

So One problem that im having is that im caught up on this kid, who likes me back, but is older. As in im 14 and hes almost 19... yea i know what a drag... And he keeps talking about how he hates the fact that we only get to see each other once or twice every other week. And i keep telling him it's only because we just started hangin out more and the holidays are coming buthe keeps saying that he cares about me but hes not sure if he can handle it...

Well The other day his friend andy was on his s/n acting as if he was ben.. he was saying all these things like that he wanted to have sex with me and he wanted to be my first time and trying to pressure me into doing it w/ him. Meanwhile deep down in my heart i knew it cant be ben but in the back of my mind im doubting myself... as usual...

After i practically had an axiety attack he told me it was him, andy, and not ben.

Well i think he played another one of these (not so funny) "jokes" on me again today 11*23*05 saying that him and ben were up in waverly staying with his friend jackie, which i didnt mind i understand he has friends, but then andy was saying that ben was gunna go out w/ jackie andall this n i didnt believe him n he goes your too young just deal w/ it. and then when i was talking to ben later he said it wasnt true... but then after we talked about it more he started gettin hostile with me and toldme to fuck off... at that point i wasnt sure if it was ben or andy.. then he justsigned off on me, whoever it was.
Now im so confused as to what i should do and how i should handle it... i care about ben so much, i may even love him but i just dont know.

hes never pulled ne thing like this before and he always talks about how much he cares about me and wants to see me all the time.. maybe he got tired of not being able to see me whenever he wanted to.. but im not sure... please help me ... im a 14/F bens 18/M

How about having him call you more often instead of using the internet cuz that could be the problem.. I mean on the phone you`d atleast know who your talking to and kno who said what.. But yea guys can play games just as well as females.. It could of been that guy Ben pretending to be his friend ANdy but who knows unless you ask him but still then you don`t know if its the truth..Sorry if i didn`t help much.. ♥ Dez

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Ok well,...my best friend, I like her boyfriend, and she's knows but she didn't care, and he's in 3 of my classes including my two longest ones. ANYWAY, my friend Gavin, he was havin' some girl issues and he said "Like everytime I'm around her I just feel like we're ment to be." and I thought that was sweet and all, so I asked Ryan ((my best friend's boyfriend)) if he ever had any feelings or weird feelings whenever he was around Katie ((I said I wouldn't tell anyone it was just a random thought and I told him to tell the God's honest truth)) ((Katie; my best friend)) And he said no. And I was going to ask Katie the same thing and I said, "I won't tell anyone, I already asked Ryan." And that, was the beginning of the Hell that's gonna happen. And she kept buggin' me and asking me what he said then I finally told her and she said, "He doesn't like me anymore?" and I said "No, I mean, he still does, he just doesn't have weird feelings when he's around you." And then she said, "I got to go,...bye" and gosh this is terrible! Please help me!

Well you probably should of asked her but you probably shouldn`t of mentioned that you asked him.. You should of said maybe he didn`t answer or something.. I`m sorry your going through this but there isn`t much you can do besides say sorry to bother of them.. ♥ Dez

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hey
i am having a bit of a problem with this guy. he lives down the road from me and he is a great friend of my brothers.About a week ago i sent him a message about stupid little things and he always replyed then he would send me a message me and we became good ( really)good friends.the other day i went to his house to fetch a PS2 game that i lent him and he didnt say anything to me he just starred @ me. it is kinda hard to talk to him in person cos he is shy. then my friend read all my mesages and took his no. and dicided to send him a message off her phone , she ask him if he liked me and all the other question a worried friend would ask. he never replied to her and never agian to my messages i dont konw if she frightend him off or what?
pls can you help i am really confused!
p.s i am 13 he is 14 and im a female!

Well since you said he`s shy that probably did scare him.. Yea you shouldn`t of let your friend do that..You probably should of asked him yourself.. Well if he doesn`t reply then maybe try going to his house and try talking to him.. But if that doesn`t work then moving on might be what you need to do..Your still young you have plenty of time.. ♥ Dez

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Hey. Well, I was wonderign where they sell those "PINK" sweatpants at Victoria Secret. Do they sell them at Victoria Secret or sowewhere else? Thanks!

I haven`t seen them at victoria secret in a while but yes they sell them.. I`ve seem them in the catalog and on the internet.. Try lookin it up at www.victoria`ssecret.com.. ♥ Dez

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what does it mean if u dont have a period for more that a month or 2? u think its serius?

Well if your sexually active then you could be pregnant.. If your not sexually active then its probably normal if you haven`t been on your period that long.. If this is unnatural for you and you been on it for a while i`d see a doctor.. ♥ Dez

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What does it mean to make a move on someone?

Well making a move could be anything such as..
Making a move to kiss,hug,hold hands,cuddle or have sex.. ♥ Dez

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Hi, I have a kind of embarrasing question. Well I just got my period and it's always really heavy the first day I get it. The problem is I have to be at work tomorrow, and my boss told me that we're only allowed to go to the bathroom on our breaks, which is every two hours. Well I'm going to have to be able to change my pad before two hours!! What am I going to do?

If possible how about taking the day off.. i mean tomorrow is thanksgiving.. But if you can`t take the day off ask him for permission.. Your boss can`t do that i`m sure he`d get in trouble some way for not letting you do that.. Also if its possible see a doctor and get a doctors note or get your doctor to call your boss.. ♥ Dez

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clitoris what is that

A female sexual organ homologous to the penis..
The clitoris is sexual organ in the body of female mammals.The visible Knob-like portion is located near the anterior junction of the labia minora,avove the opening of the vagina.Its particular function is inducing sexual pleasure and orgasms.. ♥ Dez

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I was fingering myself for the first time, and inside of my vagina, like I feel bubbles. Like the vagina walls. What exactly should they feel like? Thanks.

Thats normal no worries.. If your really worried about it see a gyno they`ll tell you if its normal.. ♥ Dez

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