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"There's no other love like the love for a brother. There's no other love like the love from a brother." A lot has changed since I was in High-school and first created my column - almost 8 years ago!!!! I now have two gorgeous Boys who mean the World to me; Brody, who is 3 and a half years old, and Brayden, who will be a year in November. I live my life for these two Boys. They make every second worth it. xxoo ♥ ♥

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ive been really scared latey about this problem going on with me ear. You see, i sleep on my side so my head is always tilted in one direction. for a few years its been feeling like sosmething moving in there, and when i turn over it goes the other way (even though i know the ears arent connected). Its really incomfortable. and a few years ago something actually came out. It was clear and hard and i was too ignorrant t worry or tell anyone, but know i am. I'm really worried and i feel like im going deaf or something?! what could this be?

I don't really know what could be wrong and I'm not going to say anything about this, I'm not a doctor so I'm not 100% sure on this.


I seriously suggest going to a doctor. If you are scared are worried about this, just go to a doctor and see what is wrong with you. ♥

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Do you ever read a question, roll your eyes and think, "Yeah right, somebody so just made that up"?

If so, what do you do about it? Just not answer or answer it seriously anyways just 'cause it might be real?

I do that a lot actually. But there's some questions that are 100% fake and those should not be answered. If you think a question is fake, but not really sure, just answer it. You never know, it could be real. ♥

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Im loading songs onto my iPod and I can't think of any songs that I like... do you know where I can find lists of songs? Either that, or can you tell me some songs that you like?
Thanks :)

Zebrahead - Everything Falls Apart.
The Presidents Of The USA - Lump.
The Postal Service - Nothing Better.
The Verve Pipe - The Freshman Eagle.
Eye Cherry - Save Tonight.
Bowling For Soup - The Bitch Song.
Taking Back Sunday - You're So Last Summer.
The Postal Service - Such Great Heights.
The Vanished - Favorite Scar.
Unwritten Law - Save Me.
Shinedown - Burning Bright.
Live - Lightning Crashes.
Relient K - Be My Escape.
Bowling For Soup - Always.
The Spill Canvas - The Tide.
Ingram Hill - Almost Perfect.
JTExperience - Party Like A Rockstar.
Social Code - Beautiful.
Sugarcult - Back To California.
Fall Out Boy - Sugar We're Going Down.
311 - Amber.
Offspring - Can't Get My Head Around You.
Bowling For Soup - 1985.
Fenix TX - All My Fault.
The Used - Blue And Yellow.
Social Code - Cats And Dogs.
Everlast - Only Love Can Break Your Heart.
Coldplay - Fix You.
Ben Harper - Walk Away.
Fuel - Falls On Me.
Smile Empty Soul - Finding Myself.
Akon - Mr Lonely.
Everlast - So Long.
My Chemical Romance - The Ghost Of You.
The Verve - Freshmen.
Eagle Eye Cherry - Falling In Love Again.
Nickelback - Photograph.
Dead Poetic - Bliss Tearing Eyes.
Daniel Powter - Had A Bad Day.
Theory Of A Deadman - Santa Monica.
Lyfe Jennings - Must Be Nice.
Live - I Alone.
Criss Angel - Die For Me.
3 Doors Down - Going Down In Flames.
Hinder - Get Stoned.
Carl Henry - Perfect.
Massari - Real Love.
2Pac - Ghetto Gospel.
Thornley - Come Again.
Staind - Right Here.
Chevelle - Panic Prone.
Sean Paul - Keeping You Warm.
Matt Mays - On The Hood.
Breaking Benjamin - Rain.
Dead Cab For Cutie - When Soul Meets Body.
Dopamine - This January.
Spill Canvas - Stapplegunned.
Jack's Mannequin - The Mixed Tape.
Breaking Benjamin - Next To Nothing.
Candle Box - Far Behind.
Sweatshop Union - Try.
Classified - No Mistakes.
Nickelback - Far Away.
Twista & Trey Songs - Gotta Make It.
Simple Plan - Crazy.
The Pussycat Dolls - Stickwitu.
Matthew Barber - Soft One.
Sevendust - Beautiful.
The Click Five - Just The Girl.
311 - Don't Tread On Me.
Matthew Barber - Soft One.
Mindless Self Indulgence - Straight To Video.
Sean Paul - Never Gonna Be THe Same.
Gorillaz - Dare.
Fall Out Boy - Dance, Dance.
Eminem & Nate Dawg - Shake That.
Coldplay - Talk.
Dallas Green - Caseys Song.
The Dandy Warhols - We Used To Be Friends.
Hedley - Trip.
Blink 182 - Not Now.
The Rolling Stone - Rain Fall Down.
Dallas Green - Caseys Song.
Hedley - Gunnin'.


If you want to get some more songs, you can go to http://www.accuradio.com/hits/# and listen to some music stations. Or you can go to http://music.yahoo.com and look at the list of the 'Top 100' songs. ♥

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Today my discharge is brown instead of white. I've never had my period before if that makes a difference. It looked exactly like discharge just brown. What is this stuff? Could I possiby have an infection?

It's a sign that you're about to start your period. It's just around the corner. I'm sure it'll come soon. ♥

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does anyone know any good dance music thats hiphop and gets everyone crazy?? thanks ;)

Joe Budden & Busta Ryhmes - Fire.
Gorillaz - Dare.
Quad City DJs - Come On And Ride It (Dance Remix).
Shaggy & Oliva - Wild 2Night.
Madonna - Hung Up.
Donnell Jones & Jermaine Dupri - Better Start Talking
Chris Brown - Run It.
Ying Yang Twins - Shake It.
Trick Daddy - Gimmie Some Sugar.
Sean Paul - Keeping You Warm.
Chingy - We Clubbin'.
Hermes House Band & DJ Itzi - Live Is Life.
Beenie Man - Kind Of The Dancehall.
Lil Jon, Trick Daddy & Twista - Crazy Train.
Eminem & Nate Dawg - Shake That.
Gwen Stefani - What Are You Waiting For.
Joe Budden - Pump It Up.
Pitbull & Lil Jon - Culo.
Sean Paul - Shake That Thing.
Nelly & Paul Wall - Grillz.
Jermaine Dupri - Gotta Getcha.
Dre - Naomi.
Bow Wow, J-Kwon & Jermaine Dupri - Fresh Azimiz.
Royal Gigolos - California Dreamin'.
Lil Jon, Busta Ryhmes & Elephant Man - Get Low.


These songs are pretty danceish and will get everyone in the mood. Enjoy. ♥

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What exactly does this mean?

And does tampons and ''pleasureing'' break this?

please hlep asap!

Thanks

The hymen is a layer of tissue, just like the tissue around the opening of your vagina that partially conceals the vaginal orifice. Popping your 'Cherry' or 'Hymen' is when the tissue around the opening of your vagina rips.


You can pop your 'Cherry' or 'Hymen' while participating in sports like bicycling, horseback riding, gymnastics or inserting tampons, or while masturbating. For more information, I suggest checking out the following site: (http://www.coolnurse.com/hymen.htm) ♥

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i know this sounds weird, but can a girl have sex when she has her period?

Yes, she can have sex while on her period. However, it would be kind of messy and nasty for the guy and girl, too. ♥

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I'm 13 years old, 5"1 and 1/2, and I weigh 87 lbs. Is that underweight?

I don't think you're underweight or unhealthy. As long as you're eating right, you should be fine. I mean you're short, so I think your weigh goes great with your height and age. ♥

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16/f
Ok, so I caught my boyfriend (of 3 months) in a lie. But I haven't confronted him yet. See, on New Years, he came over, and told me he had to leave by 11:45 because his parents said he had to be home by 12 because it is illegal to drive past 12 if you are under 18. So I was sad because I couldnt be with him at midnight. A few days later, I found out that he actually went and spent the night at a friends house. Should I confront him about this lie? If so, how should I confront him? Should I act upset, or not? thanks.

It sounds like you're upset. If you weren't you wouldn't be wanting to confront him or even talk about this. Since you're bringing this up, sill, I do think you're upset and hurting inside.


You have to bring this up and confront him about this, though. If he lied about something so small, what else could he lie about, y'know? That's why you have to ask him about this and explain to him your feelings on the topic.


Just sit him down one day and explain to him that you know he ditched to you to go hangout with his friends on New Years. Tell him if he wanted to hangout with his friends he could have just told you, instead of lying about it and going behind your back. Explain your feelings and try to work it out. Just have a good talk. ♥

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i heard somewhere that when you have your period you could lose weight..is that true?? cus that'd be pretty awesome haha =)

thanks!!

I wish that were true, hun. But sadly, we don't loose weight while on our periods. If any, we gain weight because most girls get bloated. ♥

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i need some cute love quotes for my portfolio for school. it's a project on what we love most about life..and of course...i chose love..but the thing is i cannot find any cute love quotes..please help..
i rate 5's for good quotes or sites to the quotes

thanks =]

- - http://www.holliesquotes.com
- - http://www.xanga.com/allthebest_QU0TES


These sites are amazing; especially the first site. They both have a lot of really cute love quotes that I'm sure you will enjoy. ♥

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what does swat stand for or what does it mean or what

SWAT stands for, 'Special Weapons and Tactics'. ♥

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ok im making a myspace and i dont know how to get a layout on the thing LOL anyone who knows please help me and fast!!!


all the love
kylee shae

- - http://www.createblog.com
- - http://www.myspace.com/hey_lyts
- - http://www.whateverlife.com/myspacelayouts.php
- - http://www.myspace.com/viiislayouts
- - http://www.myspace.com/nighttimeskylayouts
- - http://www.myspace.com/vogue_lyts
- - http://www.myspace.com/myspacexlayouts
- - http://www.myspace.com/heckyeslayouts
- - http://www.myspace.com/stfuxlayouts
- - http://www.myspace.com/static__layouts
- - http://www.myspace.com/hey_musicmusic


These sites have some really cute layouts. To get them on your MySpace page, just copy and paste the HTML code into your 'About Me' section. If you need anymore help, just leave one in my inbox. ♥

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If I'm on my period, and I have a tampon in, what should I do if, while making out, my boyfriend starts to put his hand down my pants? Should I assume he is going to finger me, and immediately warn him that I have a tampon in? If so, what/how should I say it? OR should I let him do whatever he is going to do, and then IF he DOES begin to finger me, should I THEN tell him to stop? Thanks for your help.

You should let him know before head. If he doesn't know anything about it, and he just goes for fingering you and you say 'Oh yeah, I'm on my period', that'll make him a bit embarrassed. I'm sure you don't want that, now do you? Just before you actually start making out and having a good time, just explain to him that it's 'that time of the month'. I'm sure he'll understand. ♥

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Im 13, Female.
And Im very into music. Specially Eminem.
Now i do have friends and everything (i dont ignore my scocial life to listen to music whatsoever mmkay?) But, i do have a mjaor problem. Im so crazy about Eminem, I have like have and know everything about him. My friends even call me Mrs Eminem,Em's love, Miss Mathers, they even use them when we pass notes. I dont care, if they do it. But i think my obession with eminem needs to stop some where. But its gotton to the point if i got ride of anything or just obessing over him I'd feel so empty inside. How can i stop being such a "Eminem Freak" And dont tell me your opinions on his music either mmkay.

I don't think you should get over Eminem just yet. You're only 13 and everyone is obsessed with someone that is famous at your age. This is totally normal. I'm 18 and I'm still obsessed with Eminem. Got all his CD's and Posters; which are still on my wall. You'll grow out of it, but for now, it's fine. I wouldn't worry about it too much. Plus that, he's too hot to just forget like that. ;) ♥

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im 13 years old and i have a bf but he is a total jerk he punches all my friends. I HAVE NO CLUE WHY! Do u think he likes them or what! oh and i like this guy named garrett and he likes me but i have a bf should i breck up with my bf for him or should i stay with what i got.But i have one more question what if all yours friends dont like garrett but they know u like him and want to ask him out? oh and one more thing my friend likes garrett too! should i let her have him or should i take him and maybe loose my frind?



Love,
someone who is need of help!

No guy is worth losing a friend over. Friends are there for you no matter what. Guys come and go. I really don't think you should be with any guy, right now. You should find a new guy to crush on and be with.


Since your friend likes this Garrett guy I don't think it would be right to go out with him. Your friend likes him. It doesn't matter who liked him first, all that matters is you shouldn't be with him, especially if your friend has feelings for him. You don't want to hurt your friend becuase of a guy. It's not worth it.


I don't think you should be with your boyfriend that you have now, either. I mean, he punches your friends? What kind of boyfriend does that? That's no way to act and he sounds totally immature.


Find a guy that will respect you and will like you as well as your friends. You need a guy that will treat you right. ♥

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about how many songs does 1 gb how (mp3s)

I think they can store up to a few hours of songs - depending on how long the song is, of course. I'm sure it can hold 200+ songs, though. ♥

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hiiII! umm i have a question...
sooo..i met this girl thru my friend last night and she went to the same school as my cousin and i know alot of people that go there! so i was talkin to her and everything..askin her if she knew all these people and then im like do you kno this kid named kevin? and he is like OH My GOSH YEAH! im like haha he is sooo hott and she is like ew ive known him since like kindergarten and so thatd be gross! and i guess she knows like the whole hockey team and i was like yeah i wanna like talk to the guys but they dono me and i dont wanna go up and be like hi u dono me but yeah! and she is like oh if you come to the game on thurs (tomorr.) then i can introduce you to alla theM! and i was like yeaaaaaa..but then im kinda shy and then all these hot boys? i wouldnt know what to say..and it would be kinda weird but i really wanna meet them..and my other friend is commin along and she is super gorgeous i mean dark hair and REALLY blue pretty eyes...im jealous and im afraid that if we meet these guys they are all gonna just look and go for her you know? (this has happened in the past) all the guys only look at her! and then i will feel so stupid and ugly and ugh. so i dono what to doO!! i mean she cant help it she is sooo pretty..and she is very outgoing and im just not..what do u think i should do? i will rate!

When you're with these hot boys, you can do some flirting. Here's some sites that have great tips that you can use for yourself:


- - http://www.sexuality.org/flirtadv.html
- - http://www.becomeaplayer.com/flirtingtips.htm
- - http://www.RealWorldSeduction.com/Flirting
- - http://www.CatchHimandKeepHim.com
- - http://www.DoubleYourDating.com


If you want to get over your shyness and work on it, check out these sites:


- - http://www.romanceclass.com/miscr/howto/shyness/step1.asp
- - http://www.shakeyourshyness.com/Tips.HTM
- - http://love.ivillage.com/fnf/fnfetiquette/0,,lk4h,00.html


I think you should try to get more confidence. That way you'll be able to be more outgoing and will have a fun time when you do meet hot boys. Don't think of yourself as ugly, I'm sure you're a great girl, inside and out. Don't put yourself down so much and don't worry about what other people may think of you. The important thing is to have fun. Don't be going there and having the thought of 'what will the think of me' in the back of your head. Just go there and have fun. Be yourself. ♥

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hi im just wondering, i seriously think im kindof on the pudgy side, but my friends always tell me not (but i mean theyre friends, come on!)
but im 5'8 and i weigh 110 or so and i just constantly wish i were skinnier. am i?

Sweetie, you're way skinny. Don't think you're fat, because you aren't. When your friends say you're skinny, they mean it. You're a good size. The ideal weight for a women of your height is usually 120+. So, you're skinny. ♥

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Does anybody know where I can buy leggins? Like to wear under my skirts in the wintertime? Any kind or anything.

Thanks for helping.

:0)

I do believe they sell them at Hollister. Also, Jeans Expert and Eclipes. (If you have those stores where you live.) ♥

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