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Heyy my names Jessica, but most people call me Jess. Im 17 and its my senior year! I love to have fun. I'm always laughing, mainly at myself. When i first meet people i tend to be shy and i hate it, but once you know me you realize how outgoing and crazy i am. I don't swear cause i don't find a reason to. I hate crying, so i never do. I love watching movies. I listen to music everyday. My iPod is always with me. My friends and family mean everything to me.

Ive been on this site for three years now and im in love. I like to give people my advice. I can relate to a lot of things because i've been threw a lot of things in my life. Feel free to drop anything my my inbox or you can e-mail me.

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E-mail: xfabulousx05@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: Massacusetts
Occupation: Student // Hostest at Red Robin!
Age: 17
AIM: Xfabulousx05
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Last Update: September 29, 2008
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can any 1 tell me whats the best free music download site?

i heard limewire is really good but it wouldent download on my computer so i have bear share.. its good but i heard it can give you viruses. I havent got one yet so im fine with it but its up to you.

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hey girl
i am having a bit of a problem with this guy. he lives down the road from me and he is a great friend of my brothers.About a week ago i smsed him about stupid little things and he always replyed then he would sms me and we became good ( really)good friends.the other day i went to his house to fetch a PS2 game that i lent him and he didnt say anything to me he just starred @ me. it is kinda hard to talk to him in person cos he is shy. then my friend read all my smses and took his no. and dicided to sms him, she ask him if he liked me and all the other question a worried friend would ask. he never replied to her and never agian to my smses i dont konw if she frightend him off or what?
pls can you help i am really confused!
p.s i am 13 he is 14 and im a female!

(just to start off, to let you kno i dont kno what a "sms" is soo yeah.)

Well he might not have answerd to you friends "smses" because he didnt want to tell her bacuse its really none of her buisness. Im not sure why he wont answer your "smses" it could be differnt reasons. ONe could be that he does like you but now he is nervous because he might think you know. But there could be a milloin reasons just talk to him in person and ask why.

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Hey, ok well ok im 14, and i recently lost my virginity a few days ago. I didnt use a condom, and im scared. Do you think i could be pregnant? But we probably only had sex for a minute. Please help im wooooried!!

well you never kno. If you only did it for a minute then you probably arent pregant but there always is a chance. Just get a pregnacy test.

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Okay, see this is Courtney, the advice columnist. And see I'm trying to put this picture onto my advice column and I've saved it onto a disk. The only problem is that I can't get the picture onto the part where the heart says," upload your picture." So could you tell me how to do this or could you do it for me if I were to email the picture to you. Because I don't know what I'm doing or how to do it and I really do need help about now. I already emailed it to you. Please, help me.

If you have paint on your computer then you could open it on there and then resave it as a new file and then it should work. I didnt get it if you did e-mail it to me so if you want me to try to do it you will have to try to e-mial it again my e-mail is lakerchick224@adelphia.net


{Jess}

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are you suppose to bleed if your boyfriend places his hands down there and messes around?

well if that is the first time you have ever done anything like that then yes.All he did was pop your cherry(i dont know the tecnical term sorry)but its just a peice of skin in there that breaks. Its totally normal.

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what should you wear under the spandex you wear in volleyball??

well unless you want panty lines then you probably want to wear a thong. I guess you could wear nothing but i dont suggest it.

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Ok well when iwas 5 i had a habit of biting my nails off. And now at 13, i have a habit or picking my ifingers like picking the skin off and making it bleed arround the cuticle and stuff. I know its gross. Whaever i do, hold suimthin on hit my hand, i cant stop ive tried everything please help

I have the same problem. AT first i would just paint my nails every day because if i bit them then i would hate the taste of the fingernail polish so you could try that. Then that wasnt goin very good so i was puttin fingernail polish remover on them every morning and that helped a little. Now i just get my nails done alot like getting acrilic(spelling??)ones and that helps alot but it costs alot of money to keep gettin them done.

hope i helped
-->Jess

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me and my boyfriend finally had sex after being together 1 year but the thing is that we didnt use any kind of protection and its already been 3 days since we did it and i dont think the pills from the hospital will work...so ya im really worried now.

Well all you can really do is wait it out to see if you really are pregnant. You also need to talk to your boyfriend and tell him what your thinking about it and you need to talk it out as in what you both are going to do and stuff like that.

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i really miss my ex-boyfriend...we still talk as friends but nothing seems the same...i hate missing him because he's hurt me and screwed me over way too many times....theres this one guy named eric i've liked him even when i was going out with daniel(my ex)and now that im single i wana talk to him...how do i approach eric and how do i get over daniel?

Okay well first off how good of friends are you wiht eric. If you never talk to him you have to start from the begining. Just start to talk to eric a little bit then eventually get a little more flirty and give him sme hints that you like him. On the other hand gettin over daniel wil be hard. All breakup's are hard and take a while to get over but it just takes time. Just think about all the stuff he did to you and how much he hurt you and once eric and you start to like each opther you will see how much better he is than your ex.

hope i helped

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hey, i tried to download a pic of me on myspace... but it said i couldnt cause my pic was to large... how do i make it smaller?

ok well there are two ways
1)if you have paint on your computer then open it up. Then go to file open and find the picture. Then when it is there at the top there is something that says image. click it. Then go to strech/skew and there will be two things that say 100 change both of them(i usually make it 20 20 or 15 15) and then click ok and the pic will be smaller then you have to save it again and put it on.

2) if you dont have paint then you need to go to this web site http://www.photobucket.com you will have to make an account but its easy then find the pic and downlaod it onto the photobucket and the go to edit resize and you can resize it there

if you have any more questions feel free to ask.

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Anyone know any good Rate-me-sites?

www.hotornot.com

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Now, I've had myspace for quite a while, but I have no idea how to add a picture onto my layout. Perhaps you don't understand what I'm asking, so I'll give you an example. When you have the section, Who I Want to Meet, and add a picture of someone famous, how do you do that?


Thanks in advance.

Gp to this website http://www.photobucket.com you have to make an account but it only take a minute then find the picture you want and save it to your computer and then go to the photobucket and put it on there then it will give you three code use the one that says tag and put it in you myspace.

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does having an xanga cost money, or is it just if you go platunum???

its free.

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I want to put a photo of me on my website, but it's really big, and my mom said I should make it smaller so no one can see my face up close (for safety reasons). I tried to resize it, but I don't know how to. I don't have Paint on my computer either, so I don't know how I can make it smaller. Please give me some advice on how to do it, or some websites I can go to that will help me with this kind of stuff.
Five for everyone that helps!

go to http://www.photobucket.com you have to sign up but it only take a minute then put the picture on there and you can resize it...or you can just put someother picture on if you dont want one of you for safty reasons...

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can anyone tell me some websites where you can play games?

http://www.addictinggames.com
http://www.miniclip.com
http://www.ebaumsworld.com
http://games.yahoo.com


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does puting ice on cold sore really work and will they go away faster?


*K

I dont think so.

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1. does anybody know a REALLY REALLY good mascara brand..something that gives EXTRA volume???

2. does anyone know how to make ur skin GLOW?? like what bronze/blush/etc to use and how to apply it to make ur skin GLOW???

1)I use Maybelline unstoppable mascara and it works really good.

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Does anyone have any ideas for award categories for forums? The kind where you can vote what user fits under each description the best (Most likely to succeed, most intelligent, et cetera). I'm looking for unique categories (unlike the ones I previously listed) and categories that aren't a popularity contest.

Best Dressed
Weirdest Dressed
Best Dancer
Most Preppy

lol i dont know just throwing out some ideas...

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hey everyone! wow ok i used to skateboard about to years ago and then i kind of quit and started to dress...uhmm how what should i consider it...prep? ok well im getting back into it and im starten to wear my old clothes. zero shirts HIM shirts element baker etc. (u get the idea). well everyone is making such a big deal about it and they wont leave me alone and they keep making fun of me. im starting to think about giving up my one true love...skateboarding or changing my look just to get the approval of the people. but i dont want to. what should i do? please help! much love

Who cares what they say do what you want. If people dont like you for you then there not worth your time anyway. Be unique, when your the sameas everyone else thats just boring.

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This "tell your secrets" thing is going around my school and well just read this--

SECRETS…YEAH SECRETS:
Ok you guys!! To participate in this you must be a SENIOR at******** High School and you have to be involved in one or more of the following school activities: Drill Team, Football, Basketball, Cheerleading, Baseball, Wrestling, Volleyball, and Golf! If none of that applies to you then tell the person that sent it to you and DO NOTHING ELSE!!

*Once you get this—pick a number and type one of your secrets that you don’t think anyone knows.
*When you are done, send it to ONE other person. ONLY ONE!! NO MORE THAN ONE!! That means that only one person should be doing this at a time. Otherwise, it won’t work out right.

These are a few that I read that really suprised me about relationships:

3. i want to ask out one of my best friends, but it wood be weird, even though we always talk about how good a couple we'd make, but nonetheless i don’t know if he/she feels the same way and i don’t know what to do so I just ignore it

18 i cheated on him but broke up with him when I found out he cheated on me—he still doesn’t know about my cheating

25. I don't like my boyfriend at all. We constantly argue and we can't stand each other. But everyone thinks we 'belong' to each other; including our paretns. Just becasue we come from the same side of the tracks and have the same backgrounds we have to be togeher. We just can't seem to end it. I WANT OUT

29 i've had sexx with 13 guys--my boyfriend thinks he's the only one. i do love him though...

42 My Girlfriend Makes Me Want to Kill Myself. I Dont Know Why We Are Together

54 even though she fucks with my mind breaks my heart and shows no signs of caring for me i stick by her loyally and she has no idea how much i care for her. but at the same time i feel im kicking myself in the teeth and crushing my own heart because i know ill never have her

130 The pain in my life prohibits my ability to love, so she'll never know just how much I really do care.

149 I am still in love with my ex-boyfriend. Even though I tell my current boyfriend I love him, who I'm cheating on with someone else. But no one will ever replace him so why try.

I couldn't believe what I was reading for most of these. Why can't we just be honest with ourselves and with our partners? I know I'm not completely honest myself but why is it so hard?

I think its becasue people cant always get what they want they cant make a cake and eat it too. So in order to get what they was they have to lie, cheat, steal, and all that other stuff just to make themself happy. Sometimes people cant be honest with themself because they are scared, scared of what will happen when they are.

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