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do you know what they mean by "how the good is often buried in their bones"- thanks. (link)
when you die, your good will remain with you and be remembered.
Alicia ♥


do you know what they mean by "how the good is often buried in their bones"- thanks. (link)
once again, i think it means
when you die, your good will remain with you and be remembered.
Alicia ♥


does any one no any websites with...
- make up tips and techniques? or basically anything to do with make up and beauty?
- different hair styles i could do. ive got long hair thick hair.

im fed up with the same sytle of make up and hair do's all the time i need new ideas.

please answer asap i rate! (link)
www.ultimate-cosmetics.com
www.makeup411.com
www.lhj.com/home/Makeup-Tips.html
www.makeup.us

www.stylesonvideo.com/brlong.htm
www.hair-news.com
www.hairfinder.com
www.hairboutique.com


alicia ♥


Know any christain websites? (link)
www.christianwebsites.org
www.christianlink.com
www.loveandseek.com (dating)
www.christianet.com
www.christiantop1000.com

Alicia ♥


does any one no any websites with...
- make up tips and techniques? or basically anything to do with make up and beauty?
- different hair styles i could do. ive got long hair thick hair.

im fed up with the same sytle of make up and hair do's all the time i need new ideas.

please answer asap i rate! (link)
http://www.geocities.com/mka_wonderland/

Amazing site.

Or..
WWW.duffwonderland.com


my friend moved away. like, really far away. like, in another country far away. sending mail to her is really expensive, and she's not allowed to have aim or email. she says we'll stay in touch, but how? (link)
Phone?
A few minutes on the phone will not cost that much.


On that song "Loose control"
why do they say "get your back on the wall"


whats that mean

also what is a "Bizzo"

you can be a bizzo..not to me but to other people and it's not just people..it's actually your friends. think about it.


what does that even mean? (link)
Dancing on the wall is popular at clubs.

A Bizzo form what i looked up here is what it says:
bizzo
A girl. A bizzo is a derogatory term for a female originating from the word bitch


After you put toothpaste on a pimple, is it supposed to tingle? Does that mean its working? (link)
Yes.


ok so i need some help like now ok for those of you who have an xbox 360 and have halo2 have you played halo2 on it did you have anyproblems? becaus ei cant get it to work i know it works but right now it decided to stop working any help will be appreciated
(link)
lately they have been having major problems.
I dont think its the game.


where can i get some nice clothes at that is not expensive...my style is southpole and mudd...i will rate high with good answers... (link)
Im going to sound stupid..
BUT I LOVE TARGET.
its so cheap && the clothes are jewlerly and purses are SO cheap.


I’m 15 and have huge boobs. In about 7th grade, I had C’s.. and they just kept getting bigger and bigger. Now, I have about D’s, maybe even DD's??? Boys stare, and it gets annoying. I don’t want people to only think I’m pretty or “hott”, because of my boobs, but I do like my boobs… it gives me something that I can be happy ( i guess) about.. because it's uncommon/ the problem that most females complain about is usually how small their boobs are...that they barely have any... but for me, its the opposite! I absolutely love shopping for bathing suits, although I can never find any, for a reasonable price that truly fits- That im NOt half hanging out of (my boobs)! I am a cheerleader and fit, and I have a good body ( i think). I weight about 128 pounds and I’m about 5’7”. My stomach is pretty flat, and I'm happy with my body- but my boobs seem unproportioned! I know most girls complain about how small their chest it, but for me, it’s the opposite and sometimes its soo annoying. Even finding shirts is a challenge. I have to end up getting the XL’s just so it will fit around the bust, even though they’re always big around the stomach and stuff…I dunno, it just seems like my boobs are extra-big, and it gets annoying. Where most people would be overjoyed with big boobs, it seems like they get in the way of my cheerleading and whatnot.
I guess this really isn’t a question that neeeeeds advice.. but I just wanted people to tell me that I’m not alone.. and big boobs r great. Lmao. I’m sure all the guys love em… but it kind of makes me feel insecure.. like everyones starring like “whoa.. they’re huge”.?? Well, I know my boyfriend loves em.. and all the boys are jealous.. but i dont even know what to think. WHY DOES IT ALWAYS SEEM LIKE U WANT WHAT U DEFINENTLY CANT HAVE? :( Please help!
(link)
Lucky person i want big boobs.
Just you got to learn who to ignore & what not.
Sry im not help i didnt read the WHOLE thing.


ok,(im 14 male and shes 13 female)and we were fooling around the other day.she was on top of me so on so on.I know shes not ready for anything oral or actual sex.I got really "hot and bothered" and i started undoing her pants and it didnt feal right.i asked her "are u sure ur ready"? and she says "I dont know not really but i REALLY want to beacuse i know itll feal good so im not going to stop you" i didnt want her to regret anything we did so i stoped.Did i do the right thing beacuse she says shes not ready but she wants to beacuse itll feal good?and should i ask if shes ready next time it happens? (link)
You know, you seem so sweeeeet for stopping.
I think shes really confused if she wants it or not. I think you may just know when shes ready, Id leave it tell she really tells you, shes positive shes ready. I know you think shes not ready, thats why you stopped, so she wouldnt regret anything & regret is when you did SOMETHING YOU DIDNT WANT. so you know shes not ready in your mind, so wait till you just KNOW she is ready give it time.


My computer has suddenly stopped letting me visit urls ending in tk. (e.g: http://www.randomsiteetc.tk)

I use Internet Explorer so I thought there might be a problem with it and downloaded Mozilla Firefox but it still won't let me visit those urls.

It's really irritating because all my friend's bands and other local bands have .tk urls and I want to look at their websites.

Does anyone have any advice on what I should do to solve the problem? I use Norton Anti Virus if that helps, although I've been through the options and it doesn't have anything about .tk urls.

Thank you. (link)
well the .tk is an acronym for the country the site is based in. .jp is japan, .uk is the united kingdom, .ca is canada. so .tk could be turkministan, turkey, tajakistan, or any other country along those lines. now i don't know why it wouldn't load for you. that could be your own IP settings which like someone said before ping em and go to their IP address together.


Does anyone know a cute site for backgrounds for your advice column, not including the backgrounds from advicenators? Perhaps websites with christmas ones?

:) (link)
go to photobucket.com and type in something such as christmas. then choose the pic you like, and right click, and copy address url
Alicia ♥
(if you need more help, leave a message in my inbox :))


Do u also have the problem that your hair tie/scrunchie slides out? I getting sick of it! please help! XO

(link)
if this happens, it is because the scruncie isnt the right size. it either isnt tied enough, or you it is too big/small

Alicia


Mrs. S,

Ever since my parents got divorced, ive changed a lot. I'm not as social as i used to be, i've gotten very self concious, and if something goes wrong i get very upset then i start to cry and i cant stop, i get like physically sick from it. It's gotten worse this year. i dont know what's wrong, i've tlked to my stepmom about it and she thinks i might have an anxiety disorder, but I'm afraid to talk to my mom about it. Do you think my stepmom could be right...or what do you think is wrong?

sorry it's kind of long but, thanks for taking time to read this (link)
First of all, I am probably THE most UNqualified person to answer this. My parents never divorced so I can only imagine what you must be going through. But I'll try really hard to help you and I'll try not to say the wrong thing...


I hope you realize that it's totally ok to be sad. A divorce is traumatic. It changes your world and I can see how this can make you feel insecure. The symptoms you describe seem like "mourning" type feelings. Maybe instead of focusing on the "LOSS" from a divorce...focus on the "GAINS" from the divorce (i.e. A New Stepmom) You still have both parents that love you a ton.

It's important that you realize that your family isn't "over" - it's "expanded." There will be MORE people to love you now. I don't know what your relationship is with your stepmother but I'm assuming that you are close or you wouldn't have shared these feelings with her. And that's great that you talked to her. But I'm assuming she didn't know you before the divorce. (?)

Therefore, I would recommend you start by sitting down with your MOTHER and show her/tell her everything you just wrote to me. Your MOTHER is the one that has been with you since you were born. She knows you better than anybody (besides your father). She will be able to help you work through your thoughts, fears, sadness, etc. She will be able to see things that maybe even YOU can't see. And she will want to help you work through this situation more than anybody on the planet (your dad too).
The thing I hope you realize about divorce...a lot of kids feel guilty after divorce and think things like "maybe if I did this different...maybe if I was nicer...etc." And it's important for you to hear it from your parents that it is not your fault.
Your mother and father love you and only want what is best for you. If they felt they needed to divorce, it's important that you realize that it had nothing to do with YOU. In fact, they probably divorced believing it would be BETTER for you.

Another thing that might be helpful is for you to find a friend that's also been through a divorce. Sometimes it helps just to have someone to talk to that understands. I don't know who you are, but if you know Zach's gf - Becka, I'd recommend you talk to her. She's been through a divorce and she's always happy to help and she's a great listener.
I hope you find the peace you need in your situation. It breaks my heart to see any young person be sad. This is the greatest time in your life. I hope this helps. Let me know how you feel after you talk to your parents.

Live, Love, Laugh...Mrs S


My x's birthday is coming up in less then a week and I have noo clue what to get him! me and my friend are going to the mall on sunday to get him something and whenever I ask him he always says "I dont know" or he just doesnt answer me. I wanted to get him cologne or something that smells really nice cause it's always nice to smell good for the ladies;-) haha..but my friend said he might take it personally and it might make him think he smells bad. What should I get him? With love, Kellie (link)
a cd(s) or a band shirt (like an ACDC shirt). those never go wrong, if you pick the right one. you could also get him a gift card, but that is less thoughtful.

Alicia


You know how everyone makes CDs of their favorite songs? How do you do that? (link)
Please get the songs from Itunes. Its 99 cents for each fong, not much. specially beacause it keeps your ass outta Jail.
Thats all i had to say.


I'm not religious at all. I don't believe in committing 'sins' or waiting until marriage for sex. I've just noticed so many questions about religion and people get so worried they're breaking the law. I go by the quote, "Live and let live" and I don't judge anyone. Masturbate, have sex before marriage, (if you're in love!) curse, support gay marriage even! Shouldn't we stop thinking about making mistakes and just do what makes us happy? (link)
Im pretty religious, But ive learned I cant go by exactly what the bible says.
Some people Just get so afraid if they are not religious enough they will go to hell. But you know its there choice, that i honestly find insane, but you gotta live the way you want.


im sure you've all seen this question a million times but its getting around christmas time and i have no idea what to buy my best friend. The girl has everything no lie. And i dont want to get her a gift certificate or money. and im willing to spend somewhere between 20-30 dollars on her. any suggestions? shes a girly girl pretty muuch (link)
Earrings?
GO to claries/Icings. Or something, search around alittle.




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