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Image and video hosting by TinyPic" align=left hspace=10> hey my name is karen and i live in miami florida... im 17 and go to miami killian senior high.. anything you need help with ask me!! im great at answering questions about friends, cleaning, and relationships.

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ok... well i thought i had my period on like the 29-2. but then i got it again on the 9th - 11th. could this mean that my cherry popped?

if you did anything that might have poped your cherry then it probally is that you cherry poped but if no one fingered you or anything like that or if your in cheerleading or something and they had you do splits alot then its probally just your periods of schedule or something.

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I'm 13 years old. I recently became pen pals with a guy my age who lives in England, I live in the US. I really like him, but I don't know how to tell him, or if I even should. If he doesn't feel the same way, I don't want to chance our friendship. What do I do?

if your saying your shy about it... he lives in england if anything you can stop talking to him or something. if you dont want it to change your friendship, before you poor out your feelings make sure to say you dont want what im about to say to change our friendship.

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Basically I'm sick to death of my family. I really need to get away from them for just a little while. I love them, but for the moment, we aren't getting along too well. None of my friends are around and I'm not allowed to go anywhere without my parents.
Info that might help:
I have 2 younger brothers that constantly fight, and an older brother. My dad is in another state for the next few days, but my mom is here.

help me please!

what i do is stay in my room as much as i can. i have a phone and tv so im set. i try to go out and stuff with my parents wen ever they feel like going out like to publix and stuff because going out... even if its with your family... is alright because it gets boring in your room and since you cant go out without then you pretty much got no choice.

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this year i was in 9th grade and i had to go to summer school because of my grades what suggestions do u have to keep my grades up for next year so this wont happen?


The student

stay organized and concentrate as much as possible... good luck next year.

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What does it mean when someone says "Yeah, he popped her cherry"?

when someone pops your cherry they break open a wall in your cooch and it starts to bleed.

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can somebody please help me with ideas how to ask a girl out.

i dont know how any other girls would like to be asked out or anything but i think that the sweetest way to get asked out by a guy.. although i havent heard of anyone accually doing this in real life but.. well going to her house in the middle of the night and throwing rocks to her window.. not to hard because you dont want to break her window.. then ask her to come out and if she does she goes threw her window and then you tell her how you feel about her and say i would never sneak out and take a car and go this far if i didnt have feelings for you. i like you i like you alot and i want to be with you. i cant stop thinking about you. if she doesnt say anything its because shes stunded.. just say, i want you to be my girlfriend i know this can work out i want you in my life.. will you be my girlfriend? i know i know its throwing yourself out there and everything but if you have a slight bit of feeling that she likes you also and she is one of those girls like me that likes the romantic type of guy. it would be perfect. thats like my ultimate dream.. its crazy it might not help you at all but then again it could lead to something perfect. if anything like that does happen please leave me a comment, email me or something. hope i helped, karen

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Hey I'm stuck in my house all day (long story save your ramblings on anything) and I need easy food to make that is good. Not mac & cheese and no pb&j. Thanks in advance.
-Don't call me lazy or anything like that cause I'll rate you a 1-
I rate 5's for good answers!

well if you know how to use the microwave then at publix and stuff they have little tv dinners all you have to do is read the directions and put it for the time it says. also at costco and bj's they have chicken and stuff that you can cook in the microwave.. so just look for microwavable things when you go shopping for food.

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I am throwing my best friend a surprise party. She's a girl, 16. I already sent out the invitatations to all of her girlfriends, but I can't decide if I should invite boys or not. She is not friends with very many guys, and the 3 or 4 she is friends with may not even all be friends with each other (I don't really know all of them well). I don't know if I should invite them or not, because they aren't even people she hangs out with outside of school, and I don't know if it would be awkward for them to be there. However, I think that the party should have boys, I mean we are 16 years old. What should I do?

i think that you should invite guys. if anything your friend having the birthday party might get to know one or one of them might get to know her. something good could happen that day. also its the thought that counts.

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Does anyone have any suggestions on how I should co-ordinate my dresser? It has a mirror, and three medium size drawers [in a column]. I have a lot of products and make up and stuff, yet I also have a lot of clutter and hats and jewelry I dont need. I dont really know how to organise my stuff, and I'm just wondering how everyone else does it for some inspiration. The three drawers could be used for more useful things yet they are filled with junk. I dont know what to put on the dresser, and what to put in the drawers. Also, would it be a good idea to buy a shelf of some sorts?

Thanks.

what i would do is put all my jewelry in a jewelry box and all my make-up in a make-up bag. i dont know how your bed is but i put my hats on the columns of the bed. hope i helped and sorry i couldnt give you anymore adive. if anything leave me a comment and ill get back to you.

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is it normal to get a cold in the summer? because i think i have one i have a really soar throat and my nose is sooo stuffy! also what can i do to help get my nose unstuffed?

blow your nose alot and take cold medicine

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Is soda good for you? I'm kind of addicted to it...Do you think I should stop?

soda gives you celulite so if your a girl i think you should stop or at least drink less. its not really good for you at all its just one of those drinks that taste good. try instead of soda having lemonade. lemonade is better for you.

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okm my best friend is mad at me because im goin out wth this guy that i really like alot and she thinks im making a big mistake.
should i break up with him or will she gradually begin to stand by with me and my decision

i think that best friends know best and even if you think their wrong their almost always right.

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ok there is this older boy that likes me and he told me. I like him to, a lot. the only problem is he is going into 9th grade and im going into 7th. do you think that is too much of an age difference? I mean if we both like each other why should age matter? My mom doesn't think its a good idea for me to date him. I think its good because he is much more mature then boys in my grade and he knows how to treat a girl right. what should i do? how can i go out with him without my mom knowing?

please help
i rate

its acually really easy. if you were to want to go to the movies just say that your going with one of your friends or you can lie about his age and tell him that you lied just in case your mom and him for some reason talk so he can lie also.

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Ok..I have reeeally curly hair. I want it to be straight but when I try to straighten it there are 2 problems:
1. It takes me 1 and a half to 2 hours to get it completely straight.
2. My hair only stays straight for a day or overnight..even if I just straightened it.

Are there any easier ways to make my hair straight and make it stay straight for a while?

Thanks ahead of time. I will rate high for helpful answers.

Sincerely-
Curly wanting to go straight

i wouldnt know if youd want to do this or not but getting your hair relaxed is an idea. after that it makes it easier to straigten for a while.im not positive on how long your hair being relaxed stays but its for a while. i hope i helped if you need anything else leave it in a comment!

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i broke up with my bf like 1 year ago and now he goes to my skool and I like him so what should I do ????

tell him... take him to the side that way if he makes fun of it with his friends he has no proof and you can denie it if it really gets that bad.

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im an 8th grade guy and i wanted to know if there is a good way to get 8th grade girls to like me

i think since im in 8th grade... that a good way to get 8th grade girls to like you is to be nice to them say hi to every1 separatly... make them feel speacial... make sure to always be nice... and once you find that one girl you like make sure you make her feel comfortable with you... like telling her she can tell you anything and you'll keep it a secret and maybe ask her her most imbarassing story and keep it a secret and keep reminding her that you still haven't told anyone. i think the key is making that one person feel speacial.

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Okay...I'm 18, and I have these two certain good friends that I've been friends with for a couple of years. I've been feeling left out lately, because they're going to the same college, and I'm not, and they always talk about it in front of me. We also have this thing where we wait for each other after soccer practice, and lately they've just left without me, talking and laughing all the way. I take this as a sign that they just forget me, and it makes me mad. One of the girls I was good friends with until the other one came along, and now they're best friends. And I'm left out. I keep giving them HUGE hints that they're leaving me out, but they're either too clueless to know, or just don't care. What should I say to them/do??

i think you should tell them and if nothing changes then i wouldnt know where to go from there because im having the same problem too, but i really hope my opinion helps you out.

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OK I'm really in love with my ex, but he doesn't love me. He flirts with another girl which causes me to get jelious, and I try to flirt with him but he doesn't wanna know and I feel my whole life is falling apart because of it my friends say i should be over him but all i can think about is him

ok... the same thing happened to me. You probably think you love him but most of the time you really dont! what you need to do is let him know and wait for him to respond. if he truley loves you back then he will come to you leave his new gurlfriend if he has one and he would be with you. if not then he wasnt worth any time and you will see what a jerk he is....!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! BYE!

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do you think it is weird that a 17 year old is going out with a 13 year old, even if they love eachother more than anything in the world?

no nothings really wrong with it it's just age but you guys will have alot of different point of views about everything and that can lead t oa fight or fights witch could lead to a break up.

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Okay so I've been goin out with guy for about...4 months and i dont really like him.But it would feel soo weired if i dumped him bcuz hes a big part in my life.Idk what to do...

no matter how weird it's going to be your eventually going to need to break up with him. wouldnt it be weirder if you got dumped by him? Also it would probally make you feel even worse if he dumped you.

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