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Ok so I went to my school's dance last night. It was my first year there. I've never danced before like at parties or anything. I was just fooling aroud with one of my guy friends and well we sort of started freak dancing. My dress started going up but im not sure if anyone saw. I kind of felt weird, and i kind of regret it. I'm not even sure if it looked stupid or not, and i wondered what people thought. Did anyone feel this way after their first freak dance? Should I not do it again?

I felt the same way when I started dancing at the dances. I felt so awkward cuz I didn't know how to dance. Just keep doing it. Before you know it people will know that your a dancer and say that your good, but I warn you there are the fir share of people that will say your bad. Just don't listen to them, they probably just haters. Go and dance your socks off!!!! Hope I helped!!!
~Linda

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there's this thing at school where its a week dedicated to reading and writting so there were some requirements. one of them was writting a letter so i got my bf to write one to me and i would write one to him. well i told him this wednesday toward the begining of our convo on the phone. i wrote the letter and i havent really gotten a chance to talk to him since. well the things is, i dont know if he remembers! i dont wanna push him into doing it cuz i was the one to mention it in the first place. what should i do?

I think the idea is cute. You should just simply ask him if he remembered to write you the letter. If he didn't oh well what are you going to do, if he did thats terrific. Hope I helped!!!!
~Linda

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eek! haha, sorry for the weird title.
My butt, is practically gone. I've lost alot of weight, yay for me! but my butt has gone with all my weight.
I don't want my butt back because ''guys like big butts'' I want it back because it's soo bony now and I can't find any good jeans and it's uncomfortable to sit on hard chairs because of the bones, this sounds weird I know but seriously.
Does anyone know any excersizes to get a bigger butt without putting weight on?

I'm no expert, but my aunt says that squats and lunges should do it. I hope I helped you out. If you have any questions, I'm sure that I can find out for you.
~Linda

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i'm turning sixteen on friday(the thirteenth!) and i don't even have a party or anything planned. i don't know what to do or even when to have it. also, i'm a gymnast so i dunno if i should invite both my gym friends and my school frinds or not. i just need some fun ideas of what i could do for my party. nothing gross tho. thx. i rate!

I say you invite them both together. You could have a party on the beach. That would be cool. Or you can even hang out at a friends house and just watch movies or whatever. I hope I helped!!
~Linda

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wheres a good place to get cute cheap underwear [if u can list the styles they sell too thnx]

It depends on how cheap of an underwear your looking. Walmart always have some good sales and the underwear is good material. They have bikini, thong, "granny pannies", hipsters, everything. I like the underwear there. Their comfy! lol
Hope I helped!!

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okay. i like this guy alot! And my friend asked him if he likes me. He he said "no.....just as a friend". but she says he said it funny (like he was lieing)
And, i dunno 2 move on. or keep flirting. *because when he flirts-i flirt/when i flirt-he flirts.
Do i give up or what?

I say go for it girl. If he really did say it like that then he must like you. You might aswell keep flirting because wheter he was playing around or was serious. He'll probably learn to like you back. Hope I helped.
~Linda

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Yesterday, I was skipping inside of my house and I passed the restrooms and my dad was in there peeing. He forgot to close the doors! He saw me and stopped peeing and i guess was kinda nervous. I didn't see anything because I was skipping and my face was turned the other way. It's kinda weird between us now. What can i do?

I would just act like nothing happened. Just forget about it and then your dad will probably forget about it too.

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hey All! I am turning 15 in one week, yes in one week! And I haven't a clue as to what i want! I am leaving soon to go to my g-maws for mothers day, and everyone will want to know what i want! lol, and i dont know what to say! What are some good movies? ect? i always know stuff, but now like now, when i need to know to type it up. I have on my list:
etnies, converse, raise your voice(movie) a cinderella story (movie), ANd some stores i like.

any other ideaS? or anything that you liked that you got for your birthday!

I am a girl!!!

Thanks so Much in advance!

and if it means anything, I rate, and leave feedback!

thanks-
Kelsa ;)

Well, I turned 15 in January. I got a charm that said 15 on it and some gift certificates. Plus, all the attention in the world. LOL! I'm going on a trip with my mom and my friends during the summer. So thats what I got. Hope I helped!!!
~Linda

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Okay, well I really liked this guy Chris. But then this guy Scott started to like me. Anyways I went on a date with Chris last night and now that I think about it I didn't have that muchf un with him. I don't even really like him that much it's liek since I can have him I'm bored of him. Anyways this otehr guy Scott I kind of like him a bit but I odn't know if I shoudl even start with him cuase I'm afraid I'll get bored with him to. i get bored with all guys but I don't know why does anyone else? I like this otehr guy but he's so out of my league so I just gave up. I don't really know what I'm asking I guess should I just stick with Chris since I gave him teh impression that I liked him or should I go for Scott or really try for teh guy I really like? And does anyone else get bored with every guy they date afetr like a few weeks? Or is it just me?

I think that you should try and go on another date with Chris to see if that was just a bad date or he's boring. If he is then try for Scott, the guy you really like. Just think about which guy you like better and have more fun with. And I'm not sure if I get bored with guys cuz I've never been on a date or had a BF. But, back to you. I'm sure more people out there feel the same wasy as you. I hope I helped. Keep me posted!!!
~Linda

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Female,16
The guy i like is really shy about girls, hes never had a gf before, and we are really good friends. ive liked him a long time, and i figured it was just time to tell him. I guess he really had no clue.. yesterday i talk to him alone after school, and said you know i like you and he was silent scuffing his feet and half smiling and he said THANK YOU.. tell me what is that suppose to mean? thank yOU!? and then he said wow this really caught me off guard i i.. and his friend walked by and siad lets go, i need a ride home, so hes said well i guess ill talk to you later and left...do you think maybe he jsut didnt know what to say, usually he'd say oh well lets jsut be friend or somthing like that but he said thank you, and its such a neutral comment... plus most people i know think he likes me.. so do you think maybe he was jsut caught off guard and didnt know what to say or what?

I think you should talk to him and figure out what he's feeling. I think that he may like you but he just didn't know what to say. Maybe he was surprised and since he has never had a girlfriend before and the fact that he's shy, he probably did not know what to do at that moment.
Keep me posted! Hope it helped.
~Linda

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Sometimes I feel like the guys our age are so immature. I can honestly say I'm not the prettiest girl in my school, but is that really all that counts nowadays? Some of the girls that the guys I know go out with are dimwits who can't tell the difference between 1 and 2 and still the guys fall for them because they have looks. Sometimes I feel like working for the grades just aren't worth it even though I know they are. What do you think?

Listen just keep going for what your doing. I'm in the same boat as you. Just talk to guys and they will get to see the real you. And you never know, maybe one day you'll see that there is a guy out there for you that is smart and good looking. Most guys are immature at that age do look at looks first, but that is just how their minds work.

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Is it true that you get nightmares if you eat before bed? And if it is, does any body have any idea why? Just a random question that popped into my head. :)

I personally don't think so what so ever.

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Ok this guy really likes me. He asked me out today. I didnt want to hurt his feelings by sayin no so I said I dont know. And he started crying. I felt soo bad. What should i do?? He's 15/m and im 13/f. Please help. I rate high.

Just say that your not interseted in finding a boyfriend right now and that there are plenty of other girls out there just waiting for him. He must have really, REALLY, liked you if he cried. Just tell him that you'll still be good friends. Maybe one day you'll feel the same way about him. You never know! Hope I helped!
~Linda

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I am completly fed up!this has been the most boring summer ever.I realy need some ideas about things to do.I am tired of computers. Think of something for me to do that has nothing to do with the telivision or the computer.I will rate 5.

I think that you should live the summer in stride. You could hang out with friends, at their houses, beach, pool, movies,ect. You could also read if you really wanted to and you could volunteer if you wanted. There are plenty of options out there, just go out and find them.
Hope I helped!
~Linda

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My boyfreiend abuses me!!! I mean like he doesn't mean to but like we will be messing around and he'll grab my hand to hard and I get brusies, and I dont bruse easily!! I tell him it hurts but I know he doesnt mean to!! help!!

I know you have probably heard this before, but you need to tell someone!! What he is doing to you is wrong. He might mean in or he might not mean it, but either way you have to talk to someone. Hope I helped. Keep me posted.
~Linda

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ok well i like this girl i have never met her in person.. we were this friday but im not going to be able to because i have a baseball game. and yes i know that doesnt matter. anywho.. we talk on the phone like every night till like 11. she lives about 30 minutes away from me. she is a grade lower then me but i dont care. she likes someone at her school and im not sure if i can do anything about it?! i think she did like me but im not sure anymore. how can i tell? and should i go out with her even though im going to be in highschool next year and she will be in 8th? thank you. i rate high to people who give me good answers.

Sure you can go out with her. I'm a freshman in High school and i know some boys in my school that have 8th grade girl friends. Honestly it really doesn't matter. As long as you like her and she likes you, everything is gonna work out from there on. Just remember age/grade doesn't matter. Keep me posted! I hope I helped.
~Linda

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he and his girlfriend broke up about two months ago almost
so now we hang out a lot because we're getting to be close friends, last week he asked if i wantd him to walk me to the door...this week he came over, we sortof snuggled/had heads on eachothers shoulders. then he gave me a huge hug, spun me around and gave me two kisses on my forehead at the end of the night.

two days later he IMed me and was like "i missed you today" ..is this just stuff a classy guy would do with a close friend....or is there something else there??

WOW!
I really wish I was you. If you like him then go for it. He seems like he really likes you. This might be a match made in heaven! But there is something definetly there, not just anyone would do that. Plus, do you see him doing that to other girls. Think about it.
Let me know how it goes! Hope I helped!
~Linda

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i feel like everyone around me has a boyfriend. i feel so alone and i really want to have the feeling of a boyfriend again. i feel as if everyone around me is moving so fast...one of my friends just did third base wih a guy. i am 14 and still haven't gotten my first kiss. i wish i could just find a guy.. what is taking sooo long!

Gurl, I'm in the same boat as you. I've never had a boyfriend and never had my first kiss or been on a date or anything. But I still believe that he will come. For the first time I feel like I like this guy and now i'm gonna make it happen for me. I'm gonna talk to him and say hi in the halls and one the bus. I think you should do the same. If you have a crush on a single guy, then go for it. Go get him girl!! And keep me posted. Hope I helped!!
~LINDA

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ok to day i went to a bible study at school, I used to go to church and youth group but the youth minister left the church and i havent been back since....but anyway today when i was there things where really emotional...people were crying and they asked us to bow our heads and asked who wanted to be saved...the asked us to raise our hands and then the leaders came over and prayed over them...But I felt scared to raise my hand....Im regreting it now....I want God in my life but I'm afraid Ive missed my chance.

I know exactly how you are feeling! I really haven't been in church for a long time, not really long, but it has felt like a long time. Anyways, my school has a bible study called first priority and my friends invited me to go listen to a guest speaker. This guy was AMAZING! He totally opened my eyes and made me see that I truly needed to go to God and pray with God. Because God is always listening no matter what. God gave his life for us and wants us to love him just as much. This following weekend, my friend invited me to go to church with her and her family and my other friend invited me to her youth group. Once you put your foot back in the door, God's just gonna pull you in with open arms. I hope I helped!!
Keep me posted!
~Linda

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Do you think it's possible to find your soulmate at 12? When I was 12 I got my first bf and we're still together. (I'm 14.) We've been through a lot together and I feel really close to him. But I don't know if that's just because he's the only person I've ever been with, or if my feelings are real. I can't imagine us not being together. He's my best friend. So... Do you thinkit's possible he's my soulmate or am I too young and am being fooled?

Love can come at any age and I am a strong believer of that! I am hoping that once I find my first Boyfriend that he will be the one and only. Just roll with the dices and see what happens. If you are true soul mates, then everything will or can be worked out. If it wasn't then it wasn't meant to be. I hope I helped! Keep me posted!
~Linda

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