ok well i like this girl i have never met her in person.. we were this friday but im not going to be able to because i have a baseball game. and yes i know that doesnt matter. anywho.. we talk on the phone like every night till like 11. she lives about 30 minutes away from me. she is a grade lower then me but i dont care. she likes someone at her school and im not sure if i can do anything about it?! i think she did like me but im not sure anymore. how can i tell? and should i go out with her even though im going to be in highschool next year and she will be in 8th? thank you. i rate high to people who give me good answers.
alexd3355 answered Sunday May 8 2005, 3:59 am: well first of all dont plan anything till you meet her because in person you may not like her. and a year diffrense dosent matter if the girl is the younger one especially if you really like her. meet her see how you guy hit it off in real person and go from there. [ alexd3355's advice column | Ask alexd3355 A Question ]
xdesireex0 answered Saturday May 7 2005, 11:08 pm: Sure you can go out with her. I'm a freshman in High school and i know some boys in my school that have 8th grade girl friends. Honestly it really doesn't matter. As long as you like her and she likes you, everything is gonna work out from there on. Just remember age/grade doesn't matter. Keep me posted! I hope I helped.
~Linda [ xdesireex0's advice column | Ask xdesireex0 A Question ]
VanityScore answered Saturday May 7 2005, 11:50 am: Before you decide whether you like her or not, meet her. I tried long distance relationships, and usually they don't work.
Age is irrelevant, but you should definently meet her before you decide anything. If she says she likes this other guy that goes to her school, it's probably because she met him and knows him. If you want to be any sort of competition for that, find a way to see her.
so_litude answered Friday May 6 2005, 1:08 am: How can you "like" someone you never even MET? Sorry to break the bubble kid. But long distant relationships never work out. Especially ones w/ a girl you never met before! Why are middle school kids so damn pathetic. [ so_litude's advice column | Ask so_litude A Question ]
frenchfries21 answered Thursday May 5 2005, 11:09 pm: well im just gonna say that if you've never met her then you should wait to meet her before you get into a relationship. and long distance relationships dont usually work out at this age anyways. trust me. i dont think one grade behind you matters. its not a big deal. but i dont think it will work. good luck! [ frenchfries21's advice column | Ask frenchfries21 A Question ]
bigzcenter answered Thursday May 5 2005, 10:20 pm: first when you meet her ask her how she feels about u and please please ansk her out in person if u do. i made that mistake once of doin it over the phone. but the grade thing dont matter my gf now it 2 grades above me and have a bunch of friends whose gf's are younger
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gakkuhideto answered Thursday May 5 2005, 9:33 pm: It's fine to go out with her at that age difference. To see if she likes you...well...if she is happy when she talks to you, if (when you meet her), she touches you, makes eye contact, says your name, and seems relaxed. If she dresses nicely and wears makeup and perfume when she's around you. If she doesn't do any of this now, get her to. I'm not sure what she likes, but support her on everything she does and respect her. Then she will be yours!! =D [ gakkuhideto's advice column | Ask gakkuhideto A Question ]
iloveyou123 answered Thursday May 5 2005, 9:32 pm: Ok..I'm going to be straight forward and honest with you here...
You've never even met her and you like her? What if you do meet her and she isn't like what you expect?? How are you ever going to see her if she lives far from you and doesn't even go to the same school?
This is such an immature question. I can't believe it's posted up here.
How do you know she likes you if she's never met you!
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